i fell for an older girl
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So, my friend married a lady 2 yr his senior... like that also need to post ah? Then my friend must publish newspaper?
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one yr is not a big diff at all... hmm.. jus be urself ard her... dun try too hard to act more mature... n dun act like a big fan of hers and gush abt her gd qualities... after a certain age, girls won't take over zealous guys seriously... show ur sincerity thru ur actions... gd luck! :)
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Originally posted by cathykitty:
one yr is not a big diff at all... hmm.. jus be urself ard her... dun try too hard to act more mature... n dun act like a big fan of hers and gush abt her gd qualities... after a certain age, girls won't take over zealous guys seriously... show ur sincerity thru ur actions... gd luck! :)
yeah will heed your advice. thanks -
Older wife has higher risks to give birth to retarded babies.
Don't you all know that?
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Originally posted by parn:
Older wife has higher risks to give birth to retarded babies.
Don't you all know that?
No but thank you for your kind advice.
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Originally posted by Mintzy08:
right now from what i see, she dun seem to have any affection for me. but i think perhaps it could be too soon to tell. i shall continue to work on it and see if sincerity really works. lol
Lets just observe first.
Actually 1 year is really ok. Girls wouldn't mind la.
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Originally posted by Mintzy08:
right now from what i see, she dun seem to have any affection for me. but i think perhaps it could be too soon to tell. i shall continue to work on it and see if sincerity really works. lol
See if your maturity is on par with her. Forget about the numbers.
From what I see, you might be too young for her.
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Age was never meant to be an issue in a relationship.
Sometimes the reality of the gap gets to you, but it shldnt play a part unless u allow it to be.
I dont think maturity is an issue here, 1 year is no difference at all.
Its the confidence that u have....
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Please spare a thought for the girl, although I can read that guys here doesn't mind being together with an older girl.
Sex isn't everything.
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some girls don't mind... three of my close friends married guys a yr younger... one of them dated another guy four yrs younger... only the last couple broke up, cos of parental objection... personally i'm ok... it really depends on the maturity of the pple involved... as long as they're on the same wavelength, it's all good... even had a middle aged woman who told me tt fr her experience, younger guys tend to treat their wives better...
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Fren married a gal 8 years his senior.
More of the folks my age group or younger are going out with younger males then them.
Even some of my bozzes are married to wives that is older then them.
Girls dont really like dating younger men because younger men arent stable. younnger men have generally more time to waste before settling down to a stable character.
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thanks for all your advices and comments. i do think she is more mature than me. i don't know what can i do to bring the gap closer. somehow i feel that she is not considering me, at least at this point of time.
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What do u mean by she is more mature than u?
If u think so, then dont waste ur time loh.
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Originally posted by parn:
Older wife has higher risks to give birth to retarded babies.
Don't you all know that?
you talking about yourself? Through experience? Thx for the advice. -
Originally posted by Pitot:
Age was never meant to be an issue in a relationship.
Sometimes the reality of the gap gets to you, but it shldnt play a part unless u allow it to be.
I dont think maturity is an issue here, 1 year is no difference at all.
Its the confidence that u have....
Maturity here is that of the mind, not the body.
Growing old is compulsory.
Growing up, is er... not.
Look around, you'll see some people never grow up.
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LKY wife is older than him.
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Originally posted by mancha:
Maturity here is that of the mind, not the body.
Growing old is compulsory.
Growing up, is er... not.
Look around, you'll see some people never grow up.
thing here is, what does maturity means to him? and why does he think that he isnt up to par?
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Originally posted by crimsontactics:
LKY wife is older than him.
let me give a more classic example,
xiao long nu and yang guo.
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ya lor, one yr nia..
no big deal la..
i ever had a bf who is 2yrs younger than me lor.. but i stil love him deeply then......
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Originally posted by Pitot:
thing here is, what does maturity means to him? and why does he think that he isnt up to par?
Up to TS for figure that out. We don't know anything about the girl except that she's 27. Like everyone says its only one year diff, what's the big deal.
But the TS saying things like:
"Any advise how to go about going after an older girl than....""i m ok with it just that i am kinda skeptical if an older woman actually mind dating younger guys. I think many of them does."
Its only one year diff. Where is the confidence? That's only half the story, we don't know anything about the other half.
So up to TS to gauge if they click. Possible that both are young at heart, possible the levels are different.
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older woman are the best.they got a sense of maturity and are very pretty.
but some old woman can be a bitch after you konw them.so you better take your time to understand them and go dating or what fist b4 you commit or f them.otherwise you will end up having a hard time and maybe end up beating them up or killing them because you cant stand them.
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yea, tats why i am asking whether if its a confidence issue loh
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my fiancee is nearly 2 years older than me... well, 23 months and a day to be exact, doesn't bother us :) go fer it!
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1 years old different is nothing
just bring her out - drunk her - take out her cloths - sex her - take photo - prepare to go to jail.
she became yrs ^^
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its have sex, not sex her. omg.