... sighh.. should i just remain like before ?
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she broke up with me juz a week before poly starts. those months after the breakup was the most terrible period of time in my life. she really hurt me. she asked me to wait for her but half-way got herself a bf. i dont blame her. sometimes these things are inevitable. but subconsciously i really hated her alot and hadnt talk to her for 6 months already. yesterday, she requested for my authorization in icq. i declined. i think she wants to befriend me. i really dont wish to give in and reconcil cuz i had been doing so much in the past and being taken for granted. im sick of it. recently she broke up with her guy. if ur me, will u just ignore her 4eva ?
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if it's me, i might not authorise her in icq at this time, but i will not ignore her forever. afterall, you both are friends..Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:she broke up with me juz a week before poly starts. those months after the breakup was the most terrible period of time in my life. she really hurt me. she asked me to wait for her but half-way got herself a bf. i dont blame her. sometimes these things are inevitable. but subconsciously i really hated her alot and hadnt talk to her for 6 months already. yesterday, she requested for my authorization in icq. i declined. i think she wants to befriend me. i really dont wish to give in and reconcil cuz i had been doing so much in the past and being taken for granted. im sick of it. if ur me, will u just ignore her 4eva ? -
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try getting her back... and this.... it's your turn to hurt her back~Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:she broke up with me juz a week before poly starts. those months after the breakup was the most terrible period of time in my life. she really hurt me. she asked me to wait for her but half-way got herself a bf. i dont blame her. sometimes these things are inevitable. but subconsciously i really hated her alot and hadnt talk to her for 6 months already. yesterday, she requested for my authorization in icq. i declined. i think she wants to befriend me. i really dont wish to give in and reconcil cuz i had been doing so much in the past and being taken for granted. im sick of it. recently she broke up with her guy. if ur me, will u just ignore her 4eva ? -
revenge?Originally posted by digicharat:try getting her back... and this.... it's your turn to hurt her back~
tsk tsk... naughty boy. -
just do wat u think it's right...
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Forgive.. and you'll be forgiven... until forgiveness comes.. you'll only keep experiencing the pain and the emptiness.. --words of wisdom.
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Life is short..but who noes u guys may get back together again if u do give her a chance to be ur fren again..Even if u do noe tt u will not love her again..it's betta to have more frenz than foes isnt it? Look ahead,the past is gone,even if history does repeat itself,its merely a new start,not a 2nd episode of ur past.
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agreed wholeheartedly!Originally posted by galgally:Life is short..but who noes u guys may get back together again if u do give her a chance to be ur fren again..Even if u do noe tt u will not love her again..it's betta to have more frenz than foes isnt it? Look ahead,the past is gone,even if history does repeat itself,its merely a new start,not a 2nd episode of ur past.
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BE happi and move on with your life.
No point getting yourself angry over her anymore, u hav had enough liao
I wish u the best, just move on and know new gals...if u wan, go and get a new gf lor
All the best, man
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agreed alsoOriginally posted by sgboy2004:BE happi and move on with your life.
No point getting yourself angry over her anymore, u hav had enough liao
I wish u the best, just move on and know new gals...if u wan, go and get a new gf lor
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btw, i am going out now,, pick her up liao.. haiz.. i think come back at 1am or 2am..maybe later, book a hotel room and shag her la.. i am serious btw.. wish me luck guys... hehehe.. -
remember to get 1 dozen of condoms too. hav fun man...Originally posted by Master -_-:-_-
btw, i am going out now,, pick her up liao.. haiz.. i think come back at 1am or 2am..maybe later, book a hotel room and shag her la.. i am serious btw.. wish me luck guys... hehehe..
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one dozen.... need so many meh.
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in case mah...better save then sorry. They may wanna do it over and over and over and over....againOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:one dozen.... need so many meh. 
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well...i think most imptly u must know wat u 1, do u 1 her juz as a frd? or do u think she is not even worthy of tt title? its all in ur state of mind, what ever is ur decision, juz tell her, its ur life, u can hv tt choice!Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:she broke up with me juz a week before poly starts. those months after the breakup was the most terrible period of time in my life. she really hurt me. she asked me to wait for her but half-way got herself a bf. i dont blame her. sometimes these things are inevitable. but subconsciously i really hated her alot and hadnt talk to her for 6 months already. yesterday, she requested for my authorization in icq. i declined. i think she wants to befriend me. i really dont wish to give in and reconcil cuz i had been doing so much in the past and being taken for granted. im sick of it. recently she broke up with her guy. if ur me, will u just ignore her 4eva ? -
and over and over and over and over....Originally posted by sgboy2004:in case mah...better save then sorry. They may wanna do it over and over and over and over....again -
i will never give her a chance. im not going to let her hurt me anymore.Originally posted by galgally:Life is short..but who noes u guys may get back together again if u do give her a chance to be ur fren again..Even if u do noe tt u will not love her again..it's betta to have more frenz than foes isnt it? Look ahead,the past is gone,even if history does repeat itself,its merely a new start,not a 2nd episode of ur past. -
seriously i really wish i could hurt her twice as much. but ....Originally posted by digicharat:try getting her back... and this.... it's your turn to hurt her back~ -
now im too harden to forgive. imagine your loved-one having someone in font of you..Originally posted by dumbdumb!:Forgive.. and you'll be forgiven... until forgiveness comes.. you'll only keep experiencing the pain and the emptiness.. --words of wisdom. -
i didn't say its easy... and i didn't say now. it takes time la... one day u'll find a new love to.. then this would just be another chp of yr life...Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:now im too harden to forgive. imagine your loved-one having someone in font of you..
dun worry. i'm on yr side.
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thanks. i really want to get a girlfriend just to piss her. but i feel its o unfair to that girl. i'll never let my next gf experience all those hurts i've gone through. thanks for all your replies guys. i shall just move on. actually the most jialat thing is that my ex is from my church. so i'll have to darn face her tomorrow. i told her once that I"LL NEVER WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN ... and i'll make sure i keep that promise. won't talk to her anymore. treat her transparent.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:i didn't say its easy... and i didn't say now. it takes time la... one day u'll find a new love to.. then this would just be another chp of yr life...
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which church? city harvest?
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Break up is something 99% of people would have to go through in their life. You don't see people marrying their first love and live with them till their passed away in these days don't you? Except for the expectional few.Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:she broke up with me juz a week before poly starts. those months after the breakup was the most terrible period of time in my life. she really hurt me. she asked me to wait for her but half-way got herself a bf. i dont blame her. sometimes these things are inevitable. but subconsciously i really hated her alot and hadnt talk to her for 6 months already. yesterday, she requested for my authorization in icq. i declined. i think she wants to befriend me. i really dont wish to give in and reconcil cuz i had been doing so much in the past and being taken for granted. im sick of it. recently she broke up with her guy. if ur me, will u just ignore her 4eva ?
How to detect a selfish lover - here is an insight. People who TELLS you to wait for them are selfish lovers regardless of reasons. Because they want to make sure even when the venture forth into the unknown and fall back, there will be somebody to fall back on OR the feeling of people liking them is like a booster to their ego/morals/etc.
If you truthly love a person and if circumstances comes and you have to let go - you will let go and allow him/her to go. Even you heart bleeds inside - you will smile and wave goodbye. Some people think that its virtually impossible for them to do something like that, think about this - if others can do that, so can you. There is no such thing as 'Love her/him until too much until cannot let go'
You have learned a lesson - which is a very good thing. Next time, learn to open your eyes and look into a woman instead of just on the surface. Love is blind - you can't really trust your heart, therefore learn to use your eyes.
Revenge on her - what's the use? In the end, let me tell you - even if you achieve what you want to achieve, you wouldn't be laughing and saying that you are very happy with your doing, instead you wouldn't feel good either if you succeed and worst if you don't.
What happened in the past mustn't repeat again - if you know she is a b i t c h, then forget trying to reconcil. Remember: character don't change overnight, since when you are with her you can't change her, then when she is not with you - the MORE she wouldn't change.