... sighh.. should i just remain like before ?
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If i am in your shoes, i will not try to hurt her nor give her a chance. It seems that after she broke off with her new stead, she then tried to contact u, it make u look like a spare tire to me.
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maybe she just wanna be friends.. but i still can't accept it. someone told me that she probably got herself a bf to make me forget her ... argghhhOriginally posted by Strife:If i am in your shoes, i will not try to hurt her nor give her a chance. It seems that after she broke off with her new stead, she then tried to contact u, it make u look like a spare tire to me. -
That's the way to go! Considering the treatment she gave you, its not half-bad.Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:i told her once that I"LL NEVER WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN ... and i'll make sure i keep that promise. won't talk to her anymore. treat her transparent. -
move on..
though there are no FOREVER enemies and frens....ucan't hate someone forever....
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yah lor, cos 1 will eventually die mahOriginally posted by kelnvb:move on..
though there are no FOREVER enemies and frens....ucan't hate someone forever.... 
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No harm just listening to what she've got to say...? may it just be friends or more...? It's still finally up to you to decide now, isn't you...? At this point you might not want to give her any chance... But sometimes giving people a chance is also giving yourself more options in life....Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:she broke up with me juz a week before poly starts. those months after the breakup was the most terrible period of time in my life. she really hurt me. she asked me to wait for her but half-way got herself a bf. i dont blame her. sometimes these things are inevitable. but subconsciously i really hated her alot and hadnt talk to her for 6 months already. yesterday, she requested for my authorization in icq. i declined. i think she wants to befriend me. i really dont wish to give in and reconcil cuz i had been doing so much in the past and being taken for granted. im sick of it. recently she broke up with her guy. if ur me, will u just ignore her 4eva ? -
Well, I was on ur path before. Thou me n this ger never go into the relationship but she did something tat hurt me.. Or prehaps.. I'm the one whom fall too deep. But den... when she tried to contact me last time, I was trying my best to avoid her... Didnt even gave her a chance to listen wat she wanna tell me. Till recently I start to think how she's going and I was so lucky to find her online and had a short chat with her. Not long later, I actually bounce onto her on the streets... Guess wat I avoid her as if she had some virus... n now.. it's seem tat she avoiding me.. thou i saw her online occasionally and attempt to msg her. It not tat I still hav feeling for her lor.. But just pure frdship.... A frdship just end like this.
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infact, she's two years my senior.(i was her 9th bf; she was my first) now, someone supposedly more mature and experienced than me actually did such a thing. i have to admit that probably im inexperienced or she got sick of me as time passed. im still disgusted with her very act. if ur in my shoes are u sure u wanna give a person like her a chance ? hello ???
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Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:infact, she's two years my senior.(i was her 9th bf; she was my first) now, someone supposedly more mature and experienced than me actually did such a thing. i have to admit that probably im inexperienced or she got sick of me as time passed. im still disgusted with her very act. if ur in my shoes are u sure u wanna give a person like her a chance ? hello ???
What's are BOTH your ages...? What's her star sign and what's yours....? How ya got to know which each other...? How long have you been together and how ya broke up with her....? Why did she end her last relationship...? -
You find people around you in wrong and disgusted by their actions right?Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:infact, she's two years my senior.(i was her 9th bf; she was my first) now, someone supposedly more mature and experienced than me actually did such a thing. i have to admit that probably im inexperienced or she got sick of me as time passed. im still disgusted with her very act. if ur in my shoes are u sure u wanna give a person like her a chance ? hello ???
Why be so judgemental? Hello??? You're not young either.
Can't you just be a somebody who make a decision whether to or not to. And stop all this arguing who's at fault.
If you think you disgusted with her very act.....then simply close the case by stop talking to her and do watever thing to stop her from coming back to you.
If you choose to enter in a relationship be always ready to come out of it.
If you should continue talking about this....
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sounds like an experienced trouble-maker (no offence).Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:she broke up with me juz a week before poly starts. those months after the breakup was the most terrible period of time in my life. she really hurt me. she asked me to wait for her but half-way got herself a bf. i dont blame her. sometimes these things are inevitable. but subconsciously i really hated her alot and hadnt talk to her for 6 months already. yesterday, she requested for my authorization in icq. i declined. i think she wants to befriend me. i really dont wish to give in and reconcil cuz i had been doing so much in the past and being taken for granted. im sick of it. recently she broke up with her guy. if ur me, will u just ignore her 4eva ?
would avoid her like the plague for now, esp if she jus broke up -
juz ignore her for the time being lor...
time will heal all wounds...
no point bein frens if u dun even wanna face her, rite?
wat will b urs will b urs, if not den too bad... keke... kan kai yi dian