Just need some advices..
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Originally posted by parn:
You can always lie to yourself to feel better.Unless you NEED me to make you feel better?
It is easy to tell. You are hiding from a direct confrontation unlike before.
You should know.....I don't post to PLEASE anyone, especially not to you.
And you can always skip over my post or read soomething else.
But if you insist on giving me your unwanted attention, then you should not be naive and prepared to believe that I will NEVER give in to your suggestions.
You probably fear that the next step you take will prove fatal. Am I right?
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Originally posted by Maith:
i..kinda broke up with my gf today...I dont even know what i have done. I treat her nice,i make her happy i love her so much. Then one day she just told me she's thinking about her ex bf and said to me she misses him. I really dunno what to say..i felt so sad.
Sometimes i really wonder whether am i just a stand-in for her ex bf...she always said to me she love me the most and would never leave me. But today when i ask her whether what she had said in the past is true,she just told me she love me now as a friend and would never abandon me..im really confused..i dont know what is she trying to say..
sometimes,she compares me with her ex bf and say i should change and stuff..she..always talk abt the bad points in me...like if i have some pimples,she would say why i didnt take care of my face and everything. But if she got a pimple..i ignored it and pretend its not there...she never talk about my good points...i nvr once heard her say i dress nicely(even though i had alr tried my hardest to dress my best) or say im good looking,kind caring and everything...only when i ask her then she would say..
when we first got together,she was so....sweet and everything..but now,she has changed...so fast...we were once so loving..i dunno...should i blame myself or blame her..i really dont wan this relationship to end,but she said she still likes her ex bf..i really really really dont know what to do anymore..
parn,hurry and tell me what to do..haha ur advice can be quite..useful sometimes..haha..));
there's nothing much you can do about it, since her heart is no longer with you....all this while, you were probably just her "spare tyre" to fill out the void left by her ex....
i've gone through that before..... move on bah.
find someone who's able to reciprocate your love, and is worthy of it.
as for her, you may choose to remain friends with her.... but i think it will be quite hard now that it turns out this way.... in any case, it's your choice.....
cheers! :D