usually i wait for the guy to make e decision..pathetic i know..
bcos the guy fits e most criteria compared to others.. besides the breakup-any-min-with-me part of cos
Originally posted by nisi:usually i wait for the guy to make e decision..pathetic i know..
OK, so are you positive about the decision he is going to make. In your case, I would say don't put all eggs in one basket.
well i didn't put all my eggs in 1 basket but he's e most impt basket at e moment..
well i'm not sure what decision he's going to make but he did say don't put all my hopes on him bcos hes not sure if he will change
Originally posted by nisi:well i didn't put all my eggs in 1 basket but he's e most impt basket at e moment..
well i'm not sure what decision he's going to make but he did say don't put all my hopes on him bcos hes not sure if he will change
OK, since he told you so, so I believe you more or less is mentally prepared. If you come across nice egg do give the egg the chance.
Originally posted by nisi:bcos the guy fits e most criteria compared to others.. besides the breakup-any-min-with-me part of cos
So if he can break up with you any minute, why do you still see him as your future?
Originally posted by Fantagf:OK, since he told you so, so I believe you more or less is mentally prepared. If you come across nice egg do give the egg the chance.
knowing is one thing but being prepared hmmm
Originally posted by nisi:
knowing is one thing but being prepared hmmm
somehow u gotta be prepared mentally that he will dump you one day since he already . . . if not if he really leave you you will not be able to take it, it will be a great blow for you.
They are so many fish (fishes) out there, may be you have not come across anyone you really fancy as much as you like this man.
Tian ya he chu wu fang cao!
Well like what Fantagf said is right. A guy like that can simply dump you at any point of time, so you gotta be mentally prepared for it or when the time comes, it will strike you very badly.
The guy that you are currently seeing is something similar to my singaporean ex gf (that i dated for almost two years), she had alot of flings with guys in the past and that used to worry me alot. When she broke up with me August last year, it was a great blow to me. I didn't take it in a good way, i got myself drunk for three days straight. Another thing was that uni had a easter sem break for a week, so that gave me time to get things off my mind.
If I were in your shoes, you should be looking for a better guy out there. Look for someone who doesn't flirt, someone who is honest to you at times and other attributes that you seek in a guy. Some guys can talk their way into girls.
Originally posted by burndog85:Well like what Fantagf said is right. A guy like that can simply dump you at any point of time, so you gotta be mentally prepared for it or when the time comes, it will strike you very badly.
The guy that you are currently seeing is something similar to my singaporean ex gf (that i dated for almost two years), she had alot of flings with guys in the past and that used to worry me alot. When she broke up with me August last year, it was a great blow to me. I didn't take it in a good way, i got myself drunk for three days straight. Another thing was that uni had a easter sem break for a week, so that gave me time to get things off my mind.
If I were in your shoes, you should be looking for a better guy out there. Look someone who doesn't flirt, someone who is honest to you at times and other characteristics that you are after a guy. Some guys can talk their way into girls.
Bingo.
So have you already gotten over her by now?
Originally posted by Fantagf:
Bingo.So have you already gotten over her by now?
Of course I have gotten over her =) ... It took me six months to get over it.
Anyways I am happy with my current gf =)
Originally posted by burndog85:
Of course I have gotten over her =) ... It took me six months to get over it.Anyways I am happy with my current gf =)
Good for you. Good luck