emptiness
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i feel so empty and sad. i feel like an ultimate loser, one who has lost all hope and purpose in life. everything's that happened seems to show that i should not continue with my life anymore.
The girl i liked won't even talk to me for no reason i know of... my so-called friends, won't even try to cheer me up when i'm feeling down.....they just leave me alone, and go to other friends.....my parents hate me, and my teachers say that i am hopeless despite my achievements in both academic and cocuricular fields...
So now i'm all alone, nobody cares and life, for them goes on as usual...but i can't...i've lost everything... no, i'm not commiting suicide because i'm too cowardly.... i guess i need to feel better but i can't..... -
ok...this happens to me too...first let me tell u, ur parents DO NOT hate u! no parents will do that no matter how much u haf hurt them coz u r their flesh n bone . as for ur frens,this happens to me too... if u realli that lonely,u could take up some activites. ur frens might not noe how to handle such situations... and the most, u could find some of the aunt agony pple to chat wif...i'm sure they won't mind. i noe i wont. Ur teacher was juz angry at that time so he/she said u r hopeless but i m sure they do not mean it. and last of all, u r NOT alone... i realli mean it
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yep, you are not alone...
there are always people like us who care...
at times of our lives, we will face temporary depression periods when everything around you suddenly seem to fall apart..& the worst thing is that we can't do anything to salvage the situation...just feel so helpless...
but remember, it will pass...
just like after the rain , a rainbow will be formed & sunshine comes again~
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hAppInEsS iS nOt hAv|nG wAt u WaNt bUt wAntInG wHaT u HaVe ~ & i rEa||y tHaNk GoD fOr EvErYtHiNg iN mY |iFe ...iNc|uDinG u wHoM i cAnnOt hAvE [J] -
Okie... Yolanda & Luv of Mine have encouraged you. What I want to say is you have to help yourself? Don't be a jellyfish, worrying yourself silly and not doing anything about your current situation is not smart.
Get up, make some resolutions and start working towards your goals. Go just do it. Go do 50 pushups for 4 sets and see your chest grow. Go, don't whine. Good Luck! Me going to do pushups... hahahaha Big Chested Me :p -
hey blather...mai an ni mah...life is like this...if not call life meh??
cheer up...any problem ? no problem ...juz voice out here lor.. i m sure the ppl in here r THE most willing to help u out...
try to look on the bright side ok??
cheer up bud.
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eh, dun liddat la...life isn't just life lo......'pends on wat's ur POV wat....i mean, if u wanna b so pessimistic abt life, c=riously, no one can change it.....but, if U urself decide tt u wanna make a diff, and actually carry tt decision out, den life ain't at all tt bad. =)) relac dude!
life: Living In Full Entertainment
.....................Energy....wat ever u wan the E- word to be......if u say tt life is living in full emptiness...den no one can do nething to help u. try as they might, but if u dun help urself, if this is ur definition of life, no one can do nething to change it.......u hafta help urself so tt others who wish to help u can do their part tooz!!!
cHEer|Oz!! -
one other thing.....(sorry if i sound harsh...) basically, i feel tt u're shen zai fu zhong bu zhi fu...compare ur so-called probs to pple ard u...pple with cancer, they r constantly fighting to live......they wish so much to prolong their life so tt they can spend more time with their loved ones, but can they? no they can't, n they can't even do nething abt it...they shud b the ones who feel helpless.....but do u c them feeling helpless? only the weaker ones.......think of the orphans at da orphanages......they long for a family to be with, a father or just a mother to shower them with love care n concern....yet here u are, dwelling in ur own misery, tt the ger u like wun tok to u, parents dun love u, frenz dun care abt u......compare ur prob with other pple.....u'll c how minute ur prob is.....i could go on listing loads n loads of examples just to wake u up...but i think u got wat i mean.......basically, metinks u making a mountain outta a mole hill lo...treasure wat u haf now, n not realise it's importance only when u've lost it...........rem the saying "dun cry over spilt milk".....dun do things now tt u'd regret in the future........Originally posted by peacedude:i feel so empty and sad. i feel like an ultimate loser, one who has lost all hope and purpose in life. everything's that happened seems to show that i should not continue with my life anymore.
The girl i liked won't even talk to me for no reason i know of... my so-called friends, won't even try to cheer me up when i'm feeling down.....they just leave me alone, and go to other friends.....my parents hate me, and my teachers say that i am hopeless despite my achievements in both academic and cocuricular fields...
So now i'm all alone, nobody cares and life, for them goes on as usual...but i can't...i've lost everything... no, i'm not commiting suicide because i'm too cowardly.... i guess i need to feel better but i can't..... -
well said... really ;pOriginally posted by t|rEd:eh, dun liddat la...life isn't just life lo......'pends on wat's ur POV wat....i mean, if u wanna b so pessimistic abt life, c=riously, no one can change it.....but, if U urself decide tt u wanna make a diff, and actually carry tt decision out, den life ain't at all tt bad. =)) relac dude!
life: Living In Full Entertainment
.....................Energy....wat ever u wan the E- word to be......if u say tt life is living in full emptiness...den no one can do nething to help u. try as they might, but if u dun help urself, if this is ur definition of life, no one can do nething to change it.......u hafta help urself so tt others who wish to help u can do their part tooz!!!
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*touched*Originally posted by t|rEd:one other thing.....(sorry if i sound harsh...) basically, i feel tt u're shen zai fu zhong bu zhi fu...compare ur so-called probs to pple ard u...pple with cancer, they r constantly fighting to live......they wish so much to prolong their life so tt they can spend more time with their loved ones, but can they? no they can't, n they can't even do nething abt it...they shud b the ones who feel helpless.....but do u c them feeling helpless? only the weaker ones.......think of the orphans at da orphanages......they long for a family to be with, a father or just a mother to shower them with love care n concern....yet here u are, dwelling in ur own misery, tt the ger u like wun tok to u, parents dun love u, frenz dun care abt u......compare ur prob with other pple.....u'll c how minute ur prob is.....i could go on listing loads n loads of examples just to wake u up...but i think u got wat i mean.......basically, metinks u making a mountain outta a mole hill lo...treasure wat u haf now, n not realise it's importance only when u've lost it...........rem the saying "dun cry over spilt milk".....dun do things now tt u'd regret in the future........
.......i agree wif u man.... hands down...
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thanks a lot....i know there are people who care for me. well,life goes on i guess, no matter how it sucks.....at least those cancer patients can choose to die if they want to, and they are braver than me...
i went to see the school's counsellor today....made me feel a bit better..
.i must have wasted your time people, to make you read and reply to my useless message....well, i can only say thanks for now...as i have nothing to give after i've lost everything.. -
don't worry, as long as you are alive, someday, sometime, Something so good will happen that it will all the bad stuff worthwhile ... just hang in there and don't give up the fight
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peacedude, may i know how old are you? Y give up life so fast? Or you a normal person?
You should already thank god to give u a life, Enjoy it coz life is short.
Try to think positive... love is juz a side dish... u can do without it.
Think of pple there at Africa... aren't they very wosre off...
Many children are born with aids... they live to die.... they can't even have a touch of love . They do not have a chance to be educated.... they starved... and are being discrminated by others....
Wat i mean to live life to it's fullest is to pick up new skills, lke learn another language. I used to think money is very thing... yes it could be . But i would rather be rich in soul than rich in money.
Do some charity work n u will feel sooooo much better.. u will feel needed coz you can bring a smile to someone....And that's the best thing in life -
domyoji33:
u do charity work ar? -
i did it b4 n find it sooOOOoooooooo fullfilling!!!!!! i gain more than i give.
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I do intend to go help up the children at africa. Maybe after my studies.
simple things to brigten ur day.
1) tell your mum you love her
2) give up your seat to someone who needs it more than you ( which u can do it everytime)
3) go to some homes eg. elderly homes u can give them cans of milo , biscuits....
4) erm.... during rainy days... there xould be birds, cats n dogs that are caught in the big rain n are shivering. u can bring them home , give them some warm milk . Help them thru the long n cold night/day -
eh, moi missed the recent volunteers trip to hainan!! =( they went there to build sch...haizzz....wasted coz me needa study.....how i wish i went there lo.......newaez, u could join the national volunteers centre wat...they organize trips overseas to help kids who r less fortunate...moi thinking of joining.....hmmzzz...care to join me? =))Originally posted by domyoji33:i did it b4 n find it sooOOOoooooooo fullfilling!!!!!! i gain more than i give.)
I do intend to go help up the children at africa. Maybe after my studies.
simple things to brigten ur day.
1) tell your mum you love her
2) give up your seat to someone who needs it more than you ( which u can do it everytime)
3) go to some homes eg. elderly homes u can give them cans of milo , biscuits....
4) erm.... during rainy days... there xould be birds, cats n dogs that are caught in the big rain n are shivering. u can bring them home , give them some warm milk . Help them thru the long n cold night/day
newaez, well said tooz......coz c-riously lo, personally, giving feels better than just constantly taking n taking....it's sth like a sponge soaking water liddat.....there will b a point in time when it'll b too saturated...den it'll b bloated...wat's the point? mights well u share the things tt u've received.....u'll feel so much better extending a hand to other pple lo. =))
in peacedude's case, if he compares his problems to other pple's, he will find tt his prob is actually very minute lo....=)))
peacedude: it's just a phase in life la...(like i bery experienced liddat) but basically, it'll soon b over loz.... n dun worry, u habn't wasted our time here noe...c-rious. dun feel bad. we ourselves learn somethings from ur experience tooz! =))
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woa lao...u all haf done those stuff b4 ar?? i never leh...of coz i let pregnant woman haf my seat and all but but the 2 of u haf like done lotsa stuff....me feel lousy sia....
eh eh eh...if u all going to homes or wat... tell me lah..i wanna go see see help out ... -
"newaez, well said tooz......coz c-riously lo, personally, giving feels better than just constantly taking n taking....it's sth like a sponge soaking water liddat.....there will b a point in time when it'll b too saturated...den it'll b bloated...wat's the point? mights well u share the things tt u've received.....u'll feel so much better extending a hand to other pple lo. =)) "
can't agree more) yah if u are really going to the volunteer work plz contact me ! But i wil have to do it only after my As . Which will be end of this yr! HAHAHHAHAH But in between on sat n sundays i can oso help up at the old folks home ! Me now looking for friends to join me .
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giving u guys another POV.. well another way to look at things... if ur parents dun love u, they wun want to give u an education.. they can save the $$$ and ask u to go and work to help support the family.. the reason y they wan u to study is becoz when u study, u can then earn a good living next time. Just ask u, between a white collar and a blue collar job which one u think is more enjoyable. I'm not saying that u must be a desk bound job, coz a sales man is consider a white collar job.. so without a qualification u think u can get a white collar job?? I doubt even a private company will wan to raise u to a high level.. Ur parents wan to see that u have a bright future and a comfortable life.. this is their hopes on u.. this is the love the shower upon u... yet u say that they dun love u... If they dun they wun have even born u into this world, and raised u till u are this old... It's love that is shown on u all the while.. They dun say it openly, coz we, asians do not have that habit... But we do show it thru some dreaded ways like being nagged at... being scolded at.. These are signs of love my dear.. So do not let them down anymore... Coz u are not only hurting them to see their children in this state but also more importantly u are hurting urself, by not able to gather urself together and create a future that's out there for u...
SOrryz I know I nagged like a father...
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so hao u feeling now budd.?? ;p
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i believe not all parents are like tat. And not all pple there thinks money is evrything.
I used to be someone who thinks that money is everything. I want to drive my own BMW 5 series by age 25 , and everyone will look up at me . Be jealous of me .
But i do have to work my butt off to get that money.... i do not want to live life like this..
I want to enjoy my life.... i want to learn magic.. i want to learn other languages.. i want to learn piano n saxophone.... finally , i want to help those who are in need...
My parents are happy with what they have now. They want me to be educated is to be a morally upright person , not the money i can get in return. Know what is most important in life. They want me to be rich in character , soul and mind , not juz in money.
I do understand why some pple thinks money is so important , i've been thru that stage. And i had realised i was wrong. Not all wrong , but partially.
I think i am already rich enough becoz , i have eyes to see how beautiful the starry night is . I have ears to listen to beautiful music... i have voice to speak up for myself... i have hands to feel the softness of wool ...
Not all of us are that fortunate... WE are normal pple , n juz want to be better... but how abt those poor pple doesn't have a choice in life? ( those in africa n thailand)
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peacedude, This is one thing for sure.... your parents will never hate you. They raise you all these yrs n this is wat they get in return? " MY PARENTS HATE ME!"
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pple, i sumhow think that he is reading wat we r sending in this forum
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life is never a bed of roses.in life, there are alwaz the ups and downs,its part of growing up.Nw,u r experiencing one of the downs.
Dun be so depress abt it.Cheer up!it'll soon be over.if u cont to be sad abt dis, then u'll never b happy.Dun let a small setback hinders u frm moving on.
Juz rmbr dat no matter wat probs u had,the pple in AA will be more than willing to help u solve it, if nt console u!so got any probs juz find us,rite pple??
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As LoNg As I SHaLL LiVe
I'LL HoLd U dEaR
AnD I wILL rEMiNiScE
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U are indeed very sweet & encouraging!Originally posted by ApPlE_PiE:life is never a bed of roses.in life, there are alwaz the ups and downs,its part of growing up.Nw,u r experiencing one of the downs.
Dun be so depress abt it.Cheer up!it'll soon be over.if u cont to be sad abt dis, then u'll never b happy.Dun let a small setback hinders u frm moving on.
Juz rmbr dat no matter wat probs u had,the pple in AA will be more than willing to help u solve it, if nt console u!so got any probs juz find us,rite pple?? -
yah... this is the topic i am looking for.. EMPTINESS . and this is how i am feeling now in this tuesday morning.
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For so long in my life, I wouldn't let love inside
But I swallowed my pride the day you arrived
Now that you're by my side
Everything is all right
It's because of you, I was able to
Give my heart again