what if bf/gf's best friend is someone fr the opposite sex?
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if ur bf or gf is very very close friends wif someone fr the opposite sex... meets them regularly after sch or work for dinner and movies (two or three times a week), talks on the phone wif them at night, and confides in them... but both parties assure u tt it's platonic...
wld u accept it as it is? or wld u try to ask him or her to spend less time wif the friend and more time wif u?
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yes, wat if i'm doing the same thing too? guy or gal, definitely will be insecure
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Ai mei.
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Well yeah I can accept it. Afterall you gotta give them their private space right? You can't always be tagging along with them all the time. There is nothing wrong with close friends keeping close together, my gf is alright with me hanging out with one of my
"girlfriend" who is a close friend of mine. -
accept it
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............ break up if you dun feel comfortable.
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Accept it lor.
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that opp sex might be gay/les and is not interested in ur bf/gf right...................
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ok... hehe the guys seem to be more understanding... ;)
personally i will choose the second option if i feel tt the time wif the bf is lesser cos of the fren... :p i guess i always hope tt my bf can be my best friend too...
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Insecurity is ineveitable. Need trust.
. But u cannot denounce the fact tht maybe they knw each other longer then the gf/bf. -
Originally posted by burndog85:
Well yeah I can accept it. Afterall you gotta give them their private space right? You can't always be tagging along with them all the time. There is nothing wrong with close friends keeping close together, my gf is alright with me hanging out with one of my
"girlfriend" who is a close friend of mine.
i really wonder what if its the other way round
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imagine u spend 3 days of a week with ur best fren, 1 day of a week with ur family and keep 1 day of the week to urself and 1 day to say religon/sport/or others... so now how many day u left for your gf?
do the math..... if u love spending so much time with ur best fren then ur gf.... why even borther getting a gf?
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i got some frens, got gf liao then dun wan frens...
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I don't mind my gf's best friend is
but not
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Originally posted by GHoST_18:
i got some frens, got gf liao then dun wan frens...
normal mah.
once got gf le can throw buddies one side.
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Originally posted by GHoST_18:
i got some frens, got gf liao then dun wan frens...
lucky it is frens, so this mean itis normal....
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ya...
i have gotten soooo~~~~ used to it...
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Originally posted by GHoST_18:
ya...
i have gotten soooo~~~~ used to it...
great....
it would b bad if have gotten soooo~~~~ used to normal....
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yes.. the platonic confidante situation.
I remember there was a discussion regarding platonic relationships ? lol
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If that is the case, may be you should get to know that best friend too. If all 3 of you were to be good friend, it is not a problem about not trusting your bf/gf.s
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Originally posted by Chris1988:
i really wonder what if its the other way roundWhy do you have this current problem now with your gf?
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talk to ur bf/gf about how u feel........... they might understand
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i tink its very common for bf/gfs to have best friend of the other gender.
I dun tink gender is a major factor when it comes to 'best friends', its more like being able to open up and feel comfortable when in the company of the other party.
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fark that ....unless the other party's gay .....
the "best friend", or, for ah lians and ah bengs, the "brother" or "sister" .... is just another term for "keep in view" ....
it means either one or both parties were interested in each other before ... or would be interested in each other in the future .....
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rubbish.
my best friend is a female. we are so close as friends that we can never be lovers.