How to mend this broken "friendship" ?
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This gal i am chasing is supposed to meet me for gift exchange yesterday on xmas eve but on 23rd she tell me she wanna join her colleagues for some party as she is new to the company. i lan lan agree and we are supposed to meet in Jan to exchange but on eve itself i sort of screwed things up and through sms say she dun consider my feelings etc etc. Then seems like now Jan oso hard to meet liao cos she unhappy.
So i dropped her an email saying i realised my flaws etc and hope she can meet me when she is "ok".
dunno wat to do now....anyone got any pointers ?
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pwned...
wot on earth led you to send those SMSes?....
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cos i am pissed...didn't slept well oso....no dunno how liao....
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doing xmas gift exchange in Jan sounds pretty duh........just forget about this incident. want to meet her again better find another excuse
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cos i wun be free til Jan dats why fix in Jan. now the point is...do i still sms her or let her cool down ? i dunno man....i feel like sending a sorry card
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sorry card?
if you pissed her, send her a sorry flower...or force yourself to find her and apologise...that would be more sincere apart from potentially being annoying...i'm sure she'll see your sincererity and accept your apology if you do it right...
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You were thinking too much, so somehow you sent that sms without a thought. And somehow that screwed things up with you and the girl. Well if it's that hard, tell her I treat you out for dinner etc and you say that I am paying. And then you will exchange presents with each other.
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i dun think she wanna see me now leh...i'll send flowers i guess...
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Dun bother. She obviously dun want a relationship with you. She would have made time for you if it mattered.
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is she attached?
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Originally posted by ElizaSwann:
Dun bother. She obviously dun want a relationship with you. She would have made time for you if it mattered.
wah.. are u........ the girl in question??? jitao new acct post so hiong already..
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i dun think so...she not online...
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can appear offline / block one what .
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Send flowers and apologise lah.
Simplest effective method.
If that doesn't work, then nothing else will.
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Originally posted by 93'guy:
can appear offline / block one what .
dun think she will go to dat extend bah...
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Originally posted by Belmont:
dun think she will go to dat extend bah...
You just don't understand women, do ya?
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just forget about it, wait until new year and see her reaction then
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Originally posted by charlize:
You just don't understand women, do ya?
well, time will tell if she block lor....if she really block then nothing i can do liao
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Originally posted by Belmont:
well, time will tell if she block lor....if she really block then nothing i can do liao
Send her flowers with just the word "Sorry" on the card.
I am trying to help you.
Really.
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Originally posted by charlize:
Send her flowers with just the word "Sorry" on the card.
I am trying to help you.
Really.
y just the word "Sorry" ?
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Originally posted by Belmont:
y just the word "Sorry" ?
Then what?
You want to write a 50 page essay explaining why you screwed up?
You think it is easier to screw up a card with just the word "Sorry" or that 50 page essay?
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Originally posted by charlize:
Then what?
You want to write a 50 page essay explaining why you screwed up?
You think it is easier to screw up a card with just the word "Sorry" or that 50 page essay?
u got a point....
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Bro, do you think the gal is interested in you anyway? If she not, pls dun send her any flowers or card... Juz call her out, act nothing happen and go with the flow.. Flowers and card might make her distance herself further..
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Originally posted by Kenzo501:
Bro, do you think the gal is interested in you anyway? If she not, pls dun send her any flowers or card... Juz call her out, act nothing happen and go with the flow.. Flowers and card might make her distance herself further..
not sending liao...talking to her now...she not fully "ok" lah...but think later on should be fine. must keep my temper in check and dun push further
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In the long run this relationship will not be good for you. This girl obviously got no chemistry with you. Better you find someone who loves you just as much.