I don't even know how to start. Basically, I'm suppose to meet her on the 31st of December for the countdown. On that day, it will be the 1st time I'm meeting her after a period of 1 month or so when we had a little misunderstanding. The thing is, my actual plan was to bring to her the flyer to watch the fireworks, but as you guys know, the flyer is closed temporarily and I'm currently out of ideas. That day will be kinda special for me because it will show whether I'm given another chance from her or not.
I'll summarize a little bit of what happened between us. She is my 1st classmate in Polytechnic and we had grew closer when we joined the same "CCA". From there on, we went out on certain occasions and that was when I developed feelings for her. It had been a total of 8 months and load of things had happened between us. The thing is, my character had actually caused me distance myself from her. During that 8 months, she had also been close to one of my guy friends, and that had really crushed my confidence. Because of this, like I said, I distanced myself (Yes, I know I'm jealous) until things got really bad. There was a point of time where she hated me alot because of my attitude towards her and my friend, I was kinda rude to him. Due to this, we didn't talk to each other for nearly a month or so, until recently where she called me out to clear things out. That was went I knew that I misunderstood the both of them. It appeared that she had feelings for me as well, and the reason why she and my friend got close was because that they were discussing about me, like when I'm going to pop the question to her, but like what i told her, I got jealous about the both of them, and it crushed my confidence. I caused her to wait so long (which she hate) and it ended up in a huge pile of mess.
So after we cleared the mess, we were back on talking terms, but I admit there is still a certain awkwardness between us. A few weeks back we were sms-ing and we chanced upon a topic about the relationship between us and I asked if she was actually giving me another chance, she replied something like, "What do you think?" So the thing is, I'm not sure whether I really stand another chance, so the 31st of December is to show whether I'm really do stand another chance. Now that the Flyer is shut down, my options are closed as well.. I know that it will not be the same as compared to the past, but I'm willing to try to change things. There is still this "Can't wait to see her, but don't know what to say when I do" feeling.
I really need some ideas..Any suggestions on what we can or I can do for her on that day? I prefer something which is peaceful, greatful for people who are enjoying their "er ren shi jie".
I really apologize for the long post..
what do you think means yes.
go clubbing instead.
not very helpful..
When we were clearing things up, she kept saying things like "I used to like you in the past" or basically just the words "in the past". Thats why I'm rather skeptical right now.
All club got countdown what. He want countdown with his gf.
Shes' not a clubber, a pub is the most that she'll will go. She doesn't really like nose. Been to "The Scantuary" which is at Wisma the other time. They had the live band etc, so thats pretty much her lifestyle.
And shes' not my GF "yet". :)
question . she chio or not?
ok no clubbing. Is being able to see the firework a must for your date?
pewpew: That doesn't matter, I dont like her for how she looks. Its her character that I'm attracted to. But I can say, she is rather attractive to me.
PeTe_Parker: Fireworks aren't a must. I though it was rather nice to be able to watch it while sitting on the flyer. I'm open to any suggestions, if it goes along with what I've said in my previous post.
just interested to know. so do others find her attractive?
i would suggest a restaurant with a view of the fireworks.
pewpew: She has abit of meat, and thats what attractive for me I guess. Skinny girls don't really appeal to me. As for the others, I'm not sure, she does have rather lots of close guy friends and a few chasing after her.
PeTe_Parker: Yes, I was thinking of that as well. I was actually thinking of the restaurants along One Fullerton. There are alot of things to consider as well. But taking her out on meals used to be a frequent outing for us in the past.
you probably have to make reservations. All the best to you. Have a good new year.
can i have her name, number, age, school?
nah, just kidding. not experienced enough to help u here mate.
PeTe_Parker: Yeah, happy new year to you to!
pewpew: Even if you weren't, I won't give it to you haha. Anyway, I'm just looking for suggestions on what to do on that day thats all.
But both of you had done well. Thanks!
Good luck with her k.
instead of bringing her to countdown, why not bring her to some beach, like east coast etc, away from the crowd... can tok better still, enjoy sea breeze etc... u bring her see fireworks, nice la... but u all have to shout to each other to tok...
Originally posted by ANONYM0US:pls bring a chicken too
haha, nah, save the trouble, if they are dining in the restuarant, juz order a plate of chicken chop will do... isnt it more convience?
go new asia bar... good place to go too... somemore still can see fireworks..
Originally posted by tinuviel07:you’ll probably get nonsensical answers at this hour haha..
you can just take her to a nice, quiet restaurant away from the crowds.. maybe somewhere you can take a lil stroll after dinner and just chat with her.. good chance to know each other better..
yeah good idea, great minds think alike..
maybe if u r rich, bring her jewel box, after tt take a stroll at mount faber...
or if u r not tt rich, bring her to summer breeze at pasir ris park, have a nice dinner at the pub there and then stroll there,
or seriously no money, bring some refreshment along with u, a mat put at the beach have a "romantic" dinner by the beach lol..
Originally posted by ANONYM0US:chicken is for hiting her with, not eating it dude
yeah.. u can order the chicken chop and hit her with it..dun have to eat it
Originally posted by Pippinpro:
yeah good idea, great minds think alike..maybe if u r rich, bring her jewel box, after tt take a stroll at mount faber...
or if u r not tt rich, bring her to summer breeze at pasir ris park, have a nice dinner at the pub there and then stroll there,
or seriously no money, bring some refreshment along with u, a mat put at the beach have a "romantic" dinner by the beach lol..
i think having a diy dinner at the beach is pretty nice.. if a girl expects expensive but thoughtless stuffs all the time then it's time to think twice about her..
Originally posted by tinuviel07:i think having a diy dinner at the beach is pretty nice.. if a girl expects expensive but thoughtless stuffs all the time then it's time to think twice about her..
yeah true... materialistic gers is big nono...
but having a diy dinner might be a negative impression of "cheapo" if not done right?
imagine, by the sea, then u open up ur container, and offer her a piece of chicken chop...
erm... not so good right.. but if got table chair, some candles, and food on plate.. that is alot more wonderful, but its gonna be troublesome ha...