enlisting to NS soon, relationship troubles

• coldzero

  30 Dec 08, 22:35

  I'm enlisting to NS next week and my gf and I have been tearing to sleep every night thinking that we gonna miss each other so much. We have been spending so much time with each other lately, how do we cope with the sudden 'seperation' that I can't spend as much time with her anymore? And how do I console her?

   

  DAMN NS!

• thehappybunny

  30 Dec 08, 22:36

  take it like a man

  stop crying

• Miss Tiny

  30 Dec 08, 22:55

  Originally posted by thehappybunny:

  take it like a man

  stop crying

  x2.

  There's such a thing called handphones. I think both of u are still in honeymoon period.

• charlize

  30 Dec 08, 23:04

  I highly suspect you will be closer to your guy NS mates than her pretty soon.

   

  So tell her to she needs to live her own life too while you are busy sleeping in camp.

• KaurexO_o

  30 Dec 08, 23:10

  Take it as a test of your relationship bah. Plus it's not entirely like a prison in there. You do get to come out during weekends at times and during public holidays too.

• Mk7

  30 Dec 08, 23:19

  ya.
  at night can talk on phone.
  but remember to bring extra batt!

• teraexa

  30 Dec 08, 23:56

  And want to use handphone hor, make sure you use behind the cupboard so that sergeants and officers at the corridor outside can't see the light.

  Another option is to talk early in the morning lor, like 4am. One of my BMT platoon mate really did that.

  BMT was fun on hindsight. Enjoy it.

• TroubledPhantom

  30 Dec 08, 23:57

  Don't worry man, you'll cope with it after a month in service.

• yourmotherrr

  30 Dec 08, 23:58

  BREAK UP.

• TroubledPhantom

  31 Dec 08, 00:00

  Originally posted by yourmotherrr:

  BREAK UP.

  Hey man, that's not very nice of you.

• Rednano

  31 Dec 08, 00:01

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• ulquiorra87

  31 Dec 08, 00:01

  i don't think healthy relationships are supposed to be so... clingy. Maybe your time in NS is a blessing in disguise for you to see your relationship objectively

• Rednano

  31 Dec 08, 00:03

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  I'm enlisting to NS next week and my gf and I have been tearing to sleep every night thinking that we gonna miss each other so much. We have been spending so much time with each other lately, how do we cope with the sudden 'seperation' that I can't spend as much time with her anymore? And how do I console her?

   

  DAMN NS!

  
  gan her until she cannot walk... till next week

• Pippinpro

  31 Dec 08, 02:22

  if u and ur gf can go thru this 2 yrs together.. means urs relationship is strong enuff to withstand tough times..

  so good luck... 2 yr pass very fast dun worry...

• xstryker

  31 Dec 08, 02:24

  hanor hanor

• dumbdumb!

  31 Dec 08, 02:46

  hmm.. abit hard la. if she's independent, she will feel sian abit, but it'll be fine.

  but on your part, you'll be v tired at the weekends, she has to be understanding.

  lol, and don't bore her with your army activities. =P

• Alexander Michelangelo

  31 Dec 08, 04:19

  I guess its a good time to test the strength of your relationship. If you both can last for 2 years without seeing much of each other, ask her to marry you when you come out :D

• Alexander Michelangelo

  31 Dec 08, 04:19

  I guess its a good time to test the strength of your relationship. If you both can last for 2 years without seeing much of each other, ask her to marry you when you come out :D

• dumbdumb!

  31 Dec 08, 04:50

  i heard of someone whose gf slept with his best friend when he was serving. sian.

• Fatum

  31 Dec 08, 05:57

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  I'm enlisting to NS next week and my gf and I have been tearing to sleep every night thinking that we gonna miss each other so much. We have been spending so much time with each other lately, how do we cope with the sudden 'seperation' that I can't spend as much time with her anymore? And how do I console her?

   

  DAMN NS!

  you cry yourself to sleep because you're gonna miss her ? ....

  is there any one with a pecker in your relationship ? ...

   

• ChoCoChips

  31 Dec 08, 06:31

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  you cry yourself to sleep because you're gonna miss her ? ....

  is there any one with a pecker in your relationship ? ...

   

  
  ouch!

  that is so mean lo!

  though u're prolly right

• parn

  31 Dec 08, 06:36

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  I'm enlisting to NS next week and my gf and I have been tearing to sleep every night thinking that we gonna miss each other so much. We have been spending so much time with each other lately, how do we cope with the sudden 'seperation' that I can't spend as much time with her anymore? And how do I console her?

   

  DAMN NS!

  
  It's normal, but just make sure you don't put the blame on NS IF you really does break up with her during your NS ok?

  That's an overly-used excuse for breaking up.  

• av98m

  31 Dec 08, 07:18

  Originally posted by coldzero:

  I'm enlisting to NS next week and my gf and I have been tearing to sleep every night thinking that we gonna miss each other so much. We have been spending so much time with each other lately, how do we cope with the sudden 'seperation' that I can't spend as much time with her anymore? And how do I console her?

   

  DAMN NS!

  WTF

• Uraniumfish

  31 Dec 08, 07:31

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  you cry yourself to sleep because you're gonna miss her ? ....

  is there any one with a pecker in your relationship ? ...

   

  
  I could not agree more. Perhaps NS will help you grow one.

• BotaHead

  31 Dec 08, 08:25

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  if both are truly in love, why bother about the temporary departure?