Do your gf/bf call her/his friends 'intimate' nicks sometime
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I caught my bf addressing his female online friend 'darling' when I peep at his chatlog when he was chatting with his female friend over the msn.
I confronted him and he said only sometimes he did that as a joke.
However, how many 'sometimes' has accumulated?
If I did not 'discover' this, will he continue? I think he will.
Not that I don't trust him, in fact, I can just ignore this but it is so coincident that I 'caught' him 'red-handed. After that he said , he won't do it anymore.
Can a guy address an opposite sex friend with intimate nick over a period of time become a habit? Even if it is a 'sometimes' affair? What about the girl? Will she get used to it? If the nick calling stops, will both parties feel uneasy?
Guys, what is your take on this? If I am the unreasonable/over-reacting one, please advise me.
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Originally posted by Earthcosmic2:
I caught my bf addressing his female online friend 'darling' when I peep at his chatlog when he was chatting with his female friend over the msn.
I confronted him and he said only sometimes he did that as a joke.
However, how many 'sometimes' has accumulated?
If I did not 'discover' this, will he continue? I think he will.
Not that I don't trust him, in fact, I can just ignore this but it is so coincident that I 'caught' him 'red-handed. After that he said , he won't do it anymore.
Can a guy address an opposite sex friend with intimate nick over a period of time become a habit? Even if it is a 'sometimes' affair? What about the girl? Will she get used to it? If the nick calling stops, will both parties feel uneasy?
Guys, what is your take on this? If I am the unreasonable/over-reacting one, please advise me.
Does your bf address most of his female frds this way or does he only do it to that particular gal?
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Originally posted by Earthcosmic2:
I caught my bf addressing his female online friend 'darling' when I peep at his chatlog when he was chatting with his female friend over the msn.
I confronted him and he said only sometimes he did that as a joke.
However, how many 'sometimes' has accumulated?
If I did not 'discover' this, will he continue? I think he will.
Not that I don't trust him, in fact, I can just ignore this but it is so coincident that I 'caught' him 'red-handed. After that he said , he won't do it anymore.
Can a guy address an opposite sex friend with intimate nick over a period of time become a habit? Even if it is a 'sometimes' affair? What about the girl? Will she get used to it? If the nick calling stops, will both parties feel uneasy?
Guys, what is your take on this? If I am the unreasonable/over-reacting one, please advise me.
er.. so? I do it sometimes, for fun also.
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Originally posted by pewpew:
er.. so? I do it sometimes, for fun also.
i know.
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o yesh
i broke up because of that
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i think your bf try to flirt around ba
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Originally posted by xstryker:
i know.
me know you know..
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
o yesh
i broke up because of that
tsk tsk
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I would never have done that behind my gf's back...
your bf is just trying to flirt, beware of him...
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well....its up to you...
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Originally posted by Earthcosmic2:
I caught my bf addressing his female online friend 'darling' when I peep at his chatlog when he was chatting with his female friend over the msn.
I confronted him and he said only sometimes he did that as a joke.
However, how many 'sometimes' has accumulated?
If I did not 'discover' this, will he continue? I think he will.
Not that I don't trust him, in fact, I can just ignore this but it is so coincident that I 'caught' him 'red-handed. After that he said , he won't do it anymore.
Can a guy address an opposite sex friend with intimate nick over a period of time become a habit? Even if it is a 'sometimes' affair? What about the girl? Will she get used to it? If the nick calling stops, will both parties feel uneasy?
Guys, what is your take on this? If I am the unreasonable/over-reacting one, please advise me.
Next time har....remember to purposely call your bf with his enemy's name.But of course must always act shocked and hurted and of course sad by your intentional mistake.
Repeat this for as much times as you needed to make yourself happy again.
I'm sure your bf will be deeply hurted even though he's made of steel.
Ohh...of course never to let him find out that you're doing this to get back at him. Must be discreet at all times ok?
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is your bf the david gan sort? if so, it's ok la...
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Depends on the person. I call lots of people 'mate', 'love', 'darl', etc.
BUT you have some personal issues with trust in the first place, even though you deny it. Looking through chat logs? Grow up FFS.
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You only need to worry if your bf calls his guy friends "darling" .
Really.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
o yesh
i broke up because of that
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lol.... i only msn my males friends darling.
i dun msn my female friends this "termilogy"
btw i am guy.
but is just for fun, joking.
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i call both my guy frens and gal frens babe .
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for me i call any girls intimidate name as and when i like
but when if i were to have a gf... i will nv do that..
no i wont feel uneasy when i dun call anyone intimidate name.. no such thing as used to it since the person has a particular name..
it is of cuz to be more used to calling the particular name than to calling the intimidate nickname...
beware.. a flirting bf..
IA
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"itchyarmpit time for your daily scratching" - itchyArmpit GF
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i call everyone darling.....
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i call everyone darling.....
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[quote]Depends on the person. I call lots of people 'mate', 'love', 'darl', etc.
BUT you have some personal issues with trust in the first place, even though you deny it. Looking through chat logs? Grow up FFS. [/quote]
Pls lor. You think I regularly check his chatlog?
Yes, I trust him.
Just a moment of curiosity , I 'discovered' something which when happens to other girls will create big quarrel/chaos with their bfs, but, I did not.
It is addressed only to that particular girl.
Trust is beautiful but not when it is abused.
Grow up FFS.
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If you are OK with it, fine. But if you are not, then just tell him you don't like it and not to do it again. If he truely loves you, then he will be sensitive to your unhappiness and not do it again. To avoid any confrontation or quarrel, don't force an explanation from him if he complies to your request. Guys tend to be flirty online. Make us feel more manly virtually.
I was like this too until I met my gf and I stopped because I knew she wouldn't like it. But now that we had splitted, I'm back with my old habits again. :p
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Originally posted by Earthcosmic2:
Pls lor. You think I regularly check his chatlog?
Yes, I trust him.
Just a moment of curiosity , I 'discovered' something which when happens to other girls will create big quarrel/chaos with their bfs, but, I did not.
It is addressed only to that particular girl.
Trust is beautiful but not when it is abused.
Grow up FFS.
Now if it's just that one person, then it's not his style and he's lying through his teeth.
My issue is with peeping, even once. It's the kind of thing done by immature folks who don't understand where the boundaries of trust lie. These boundaries do not include disrespecting and invading a person's private spaces.