Do your gf/bf call her/his friends 'intimate' nicks sometime

• burndog85

  1 Jan 09, 20:30

  I do it sometimes... but it's for fun.

• Master -_-

  1 Jan 09, 20:39

  i call my good friend Honey..my gf doesn't mind..i even call her on the phone whilst with my gf...because that's her name

• xstryker

  1 Jan 09, 20:41

  -_-

• pewpew

  1 Jan 09, 20:42

  -_-

• Kuali Baba

  1 Jan 09, 20:51

  Originally posted by Master -_-:

  i call my good friend Honey..my gf doesn't mind..i even call her on the phone whilst with my gf...because that's her name

  Do you and I know the same person? LOL

• tranicide

  1 Jan 09, 23:35

  I'm guilty of doing that to my female friends. I call them Dear, Darlin, Honey all sorts of names, but not all the time.

  Its in the name of Fun!

• Swln1

  2 Jan 09, 00:21

  hi

• Swln1

  2 Jan 09, 00:21

  hi

• Nata|ie

  2 Jan 09, 00:26

  Originally posted by Earthcosmic2:

  I caught my bf addressing his female online friend 'darling' when I peep at his chatlog when he was chatting with his female friend over the msn.

  I confronted him and he said only sometimes he did that as a joke.

  However, how many 'sometimes' has accumulated?

  If I did not 'discover' this, will he continue? I think he will.

  Not that I don't trust him, in fact, I can just ignore this but it is so coincident that I 'caught' him 'red-handed. After that he said , he won't do it anymore.

  Can a guy address an opposite sex friend with intimate nick over a period of time become a habit? Even if it is a 'sometimes' affair? What about the girl? Will she get used to it? If the nick calling stops, will both parties feel uneasy?

  Guys, what is your take on this? If I am the unreasonable/over-reacting one, please advise me.

   

  
  Well, I call my friends (be it guy or girl), dear, sweet, etc.. I think it depends on how you want that "nick" to be perceived to the recipient.

   

  When 2 people have been friends for so long, calling the other party 'dear', 'darling', 'sweet' might not have that sort of 'feeling'. If anything were meant to happen, it would have happened. 

   

  Personally, I don't think 'dear', 'darling', 'sweet' are intimate nicks. So different people will view this differently. However, you might want to assess his friendship with the girl.

   

  Just my 2cents worth.

• Lorry`

  2 Jan 09, 00:38

  i call my male or female friends Babe.
  

  That person must at least not bad lookin also la.... or else i wont call.
  Maybe just darling or honey.
  
  
  Earthcosmic2: If he did that to just one person, there MIGHT be something.
  

• TehJarVu

  2 Jan 09, 00:42

  my god termilogy

• Komon

  3 Jan 09, 05:23

  If he did that to only 1 girl , then u must becareful .

  Once i was with my ex, i had a best friend which we knew each other for 4 years (was the opp sex ) . My gf at 1st accept it , but later , she almost everyday kpkb about that girl and she even thought that we were having an affair -_-

• Interception_7

  4 Jan 09, 14:23

  Hehehe.. I call lots of my friends initimate nick names...

  and they will go like, 'you crazy ah?'

• coolgeek84

  4 Jan 09, 18:15

  Come on.. you are thinking too much perhaps? I call all my female friends darlings/darls/babe/huns/sexy/hottie and whatever thing I can think off.. Its all in the trust between you and your bf.

• Interception_7

  4 Jan 09, 18:34

  must give everyone a slice of the cake mah... but for one slice, must be a bigger portion than the rest, for your special someone

• wxboi

  4 Jan 09, 21:01

  yes she does. but she does it to a girl.