Guys think true love should wait?
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True love ranks up there with the tooth fairy and santa claus.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
A gal will only wait for the guy... ONLY if she has no one else better to go to.
Typically.. good girls who has no problem finding decent guys ... don't bother waiting.
The ones who usually do wait.. have very small social circle... or they are not very attractive to begin with.. so less options.
Guys who are successful and satisfied in their relationship usually grab the girls they want, because they know the good ones don't stay available for very long.
Guys who make their gal wait.. usually ends up getting the left overs.
yeah agree girls who has no problem finding decent guys ... don't bother waiting.and they play hard to get most probably and can pick the best out of the cohort
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
yea thats maths,Good looks + Good Flirt = many gers like.
Good looks + Poor Flirt = still got gers like
Not so good looks + Good Flirt = somehow no gers like.
Not so good looks + Poor Flirt = gers dun even take a look.
thats left with the not so good looks people lol....
so thats why i trying to get into section A..
i from group C to B.. trying to learn the skill of flirting
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Originally posted by candiz:
fine, maybe abit of hint
but i do appreciate guys who are willing to put down their ego and fear of rejection in approaching me, even if eventually i do not like the guy. but tis kind of guy i will intro to my other gal frens.
I actually match-made a couple like this!
haha ok, maybe u are 1 of the minority that will do this...from my experience, they kinda just treat u as non-existance if they r not interested...maybe not non-existance but minimal attention... and u have to grab their attention..
but somehow still non-existance
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Originally posted by [J]erry:
so thats why i trying to get into section A..
i from group C to B.. trying to learn the skill of flirting
Good looks + Poor Flirt = still got gers like
Not so good looks + Good Flirt = somehow no gers like.
so u r in btw this 2 category??
lol.. but somehow i think some gers dun like flirtish guy..
for me, i believe being not flirt will be better... imagine, yes, during courtship, the ger feels great when u flirt with her... but after u 2 are together..
she lost a sense of security becoz shes afraid that u might go out flirt with other gers.. isn't it?
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
haha ok, maybe u are 1 of the minority that will do this...from my experience, they kinda just treat u as non-existance if they r not interested...maybe not non-existance but minimal attention... and u have to grab their attention..
but somehow still non-existance
i think it has to do with the guy's image / reputation as well
if u are a known weirdo etc., of course we will ignore
but if you are sincere, and don't OVERDO it, it shld be alright. we gals are not so monster, at least i'm not, haha
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
yeah agree girls who has no problem finding decent guys ... don't bother waiting.and they play hard to get most probably and can pick the best out of the cohort
Play hard to get only reserved for those guys who we are not THAT interested in lah.
So many times, when I reject a guy.. sure kenna accused of playing hard to get lor.
Pick the best of the cohort ... both gender do it lah. Natural selection.
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Originally posted by [J]erry:
so thats why i trying to get into section A..
i from group C to B.. trying to learn the skill of flirting
Please oh.
Guys don need to flirt to get girl's attention.
They just need to be friendly and approachable.
Subtle flirting to the girl you like is ok..
but when a guy goes around flirting to anyone with a vagina... now that's just plain disgusting.
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Originally posted by candiz:
fine, maybe abit of hint
but i do appreciate guys who are willing to put down their ego and fear of rejection in approaching me, even if eventually i do not like the guy. but tis kind of guy i will intro to my other gal frens.
I actually match-made a couple like this!
Lol not all guys would like that. You really shouldn't do that, more likely than not you're overstepping the boundaries of a guy's personal space. Guys like to be able to have a personal relationship PERSONALLY, not with an onlooker gawking. -
Originally posted by Pippinpro:
yea thats maths,Good looks + Good Flirt = many gers like.
Good looks + Poor Flirt = still got gers like
Not so good looks + Good Flirt = somehow no gers like.
Not so good looks + Poor Flirt = gers dun even take a look.
thats left with the not so good looks people lol....
try to improve the looks.
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Originally posted by candiz:
i think it has to do with the guy's image / reputation as well
if u are a known weirdo etc., of course we will ignore
but if you are sincere, and don't OVERDO it, it shld be alright. we gals are not so monster, at least i'm not, haha
Haha nice one. Indirect shoot. Dun worry not a weirdo over here.But prehaps just plain bored, not fun to be with instead.
True. Majority of the gers will only be more interested in better looking guys and with reputation. Over centuries, this had been proven that gers are only attracted to man with "power" and rich.
In fact, Rich and power is more important than looks.
Maybe in today context, some sucessful woman will reject this theory, and instead find a good looking partner.
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Originally posted by playmemory:
try to improve the looks.
Bingo!thats the key to sucess lol.. looks
but if u add "$" into the equation, is close to 100% success
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Well, attracted to the ability to have power n earn moolah.
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i sometimes wonder , is true love based on timing ? If i decide that in these few years the girl i find WILL be my true love , how le ? Will the girl appreciate the amount of time , emotions involved poured to her because she is his true love be really appreciated ? What if she drops his ass suddenly ?
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
Haha nice one. Indirect shoot. Dun worry not a weirdo over here.But prehaps just plain bored, not fun to be with instead.
True. Majority of the gers will only be more interested in better looking guys and with reputation. Over centuries, this had been proven that gers are only attracted to man with "power" and rich.
In fact, Rich and power is more important than looks.
Maybe in today context, some sucessful woman will reject this theory, and instead find a good looking partner.
say gals until like dat
guys also same wat, only interested in gals with figures, looks, big boobs etc
pot calling the kettle black
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Of course true love should wait. You need to understand the other first. If I knew she is the one, then will take my next step. Always find the one you would like to live with forever.
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does true love even exist?
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Waiting is depreiving yourself of better chances.
What will be...wil eventually be.
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if u like the guy and guy does not want to make the move, you move, you move on.
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Originally posted by charlize:
True love ranks up there with the tooth fairy and santa claus.
agree
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yeah, can't hurry love is sometimes what i would say to ppl. man gong chu xi huo!
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haizzzz
what if guys not interested in gals with figures, looks, big boobs etc is it werid
need to see doc or not
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Originally posted by Noahtay:
haizzzz
what if guys not interested in gals with figures, looks, big boobs etc is it werid
need to see doc or not
i go for looks and abit of figure
not too fat or skinny
i dun support the idea of bigger the boobs the better.
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Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:
i go for looks and abit of figure
not too fat or skinny
i dun support the idea of bigger the boobs the better.
dai dai gal should like or love guys that have bigger chest or wide shoulder
