MUM IS CRAZY and i cannot do anything about it .....
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Since young my mum has been controlling everything ( playing computer , when i go out , who i mix with etc .) And now i have reached 16 recently (17 this year ) , its the same . My friends and relatives says she is too OVER controlling ove me JUST becos she is my mother . I admit my O 's levels results are bad because i play too much and i have not been studying . i think this is becos she DONT let me play at all from sec 1 till now ... so I have been rebelious to her and so i went on playing .... Her plans backfired her I tink and now her mental conditions even gone worse ...
Ps. Some background infomation from me is that my father and mother are not in good terms at ALL for the past ten years... MY father likes to throw temper and my mother's words are VERY hurtful and blunt ... in other words she likes to scold .... whichs irritate ppl easily ..
Can anyone help me ?
AND I M THE ONE THAT IS CRAZY!
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stop being rebellious and get along with both sides
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grow up pls.
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you THINK but infact u put urself in that situation.
if u had just listen to ur mum and not be rebellious, u might have found freedom.
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so which path now? ITE, Poly or JC?
any way just study smart? in 2009 study hard get you no where.
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your still a kid mate... stop being rebellious and learn to listen to your parents. When you grow older and look back, you will totally understand why your parents are being strict on you.
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Originally posted by JonJon92:
Since young my mum has been controlling everything ( playing computer , when i go out , who i mix with etc .) And now i have reached 16 recently (17 this year ) , its the same . My friends and relatives says she is too OVER controlling ove me JUST becos she is my mother . I admit my O 's levels results are bad because i play too much and i have not been studying . i think this is becos she DONT let me play at all from sec 1 till now ... so I have been rebelious to her and so i went on playing .... Her plans backfired her I tink and now her mental conditions even gone worse ...
Ps. Some background infomation from me is that my father and mother are not in good terms at ALL for the past ten years... MY father likes to throw temper and my mother's words are VERY hurtful and blunt ... in other words she likes to scold .... whichs irritate ppl easily ..
Can anyone help me ?
i have seen some others in similiar situations, BUT their sons n daughters r so guai n wanted to get out of this cycle, so how... they studied hard n get into reputable, if not, a decent teritary education to improve their own lives...
while u on the other hand, degrade urself n downgrade urself... what to do... help urself...
typical leh... u landed urself in this state urself... then started to blame others for ur own actions... -
hmm... its ite from express course :( ... So yea ... now even i m not rebellious now , it does not make any difference now ... she gone abit mad , her thinking has become illogical .... and i noe there is no way to reverse that ...
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the 1 who is crazy is u not her
unless u can prove that otherwise
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she scolded me from 1 am to 3 am on christmas not crazy then?
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scold u for wad?
comfirm not for nothing rite.
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Originally posted by JonJon92:
hmm... its ite from express course :( ... So yea ... now even i m not rebellious now , it does not make any difference now ... she gone abit mad , her thinking has become illogical .... and i noe there is no way to reverse that ...
if she is medically mad diagnosed by doctor, then u take her go see doctor n should take medicine.
if not, then its u to blame...
got difference if u decide to make a change, study again, prove urself, n ur family name, dont let ur relatives n others look down on u... unless ur ownself look down on urself. -
Thats why i m planning to study hard for next year to go to poly.... And she scold me on christmas cos i played computer games during the holiday (after o level ) ... As for this cycle it happened on My secondary 4 , Thats y i have no turning back... but to start from ite ...
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Originally posted by JonJon92:
Thats why i m planning to study hard for next year to go to poly.... And she scold me on christmas cos i played computer games during the holiday (after o level ) ... As for this cycle it happened on My secondary 4 , Thats y i have no turning back... but to start from ite ...
seee. so she's not crazy but ur are
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So wad do u suggest me to do ?
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make urself crazy
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any better reason for selecting ITE?
can family "$" re-take "O"?
08 "O" how bad? failed english?
if "time" & "$" allow re-take "O"
recession all the way 2009, 2010, 2011,
attending ITE higher NITEC will get you no where.
since you not normal stream sec 5, taking "O", my advice is re-take "O"
PM me if you need help in study. see what i can assist you.
you are not the first person I offer to help
someone from sgforums had managed to score 8 in '07, now study JC.
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Well, almost everyone live through that phrase... stop whinning.
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No way else...retaking means private ... Private means no proper teacher guidance and dicipline like in scholl ...
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Originally posted by JonJon92:
Thats why i m planning to study hard for next year to go to poly.... And she scold me on christmas cos i played computer games during the holiday (after o level ) ... As for this cycle it happened on My secondary 4 , Thats y i have no turning back... but to start from ite ...
oi.. didnt you think of the electric bill?
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Originally posted by JonJon92:
Since young my mum has been controlling everything ( playing computer , when i go out , who i mix with etc .) And now i have reached 16 recently (17 this year ) , its the same . My friends and relatives says she is too OVER controlling ove me JUST becos she is my mother . I admit my O 's levels results are bad because i play too much and i have not been studying . i think this is becos she DONT let me play at all from sec 1 till now ... so I have been rebelious to her and so i went on playing .... Her plans backfired her I tink and now her mental conditions even gone worse ...
Ps. Some background infomation from me is that my father and mother are not in good terms at ALL for the past ten years... MY father likes to throw temper and my mother's words are VERY hurtful and blunt ... in other words she likes to scold .... whichs irritate ppl easily ..
Can anyone help me ?
AND I M THE ONE THAT IS CRAZY!
if i am your mum i will also over control you because u are a kid that have no time concept!
your o level result is fucking bad because YOU urself PLAY too much. don't blame your mother where everything start with YOU. if u know when to study and when to PLAY she won't be so worried about you. okay
JUST because she is YOUR mother? she has the every right to do so since u are so ignorance!
you are 17 but u are behaving like a 7 years old KID!
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U can call police if daddy beats mummy u knw...
Say this, "Police, my daddy is beating up my mummy because i played too much computer".
----------------------ok joke---------------
It is stupid that u put the cause of ur bad results to how ur mother treat u! U just got no self-control boy. And probably, u are not good in time management.
Last time, i used to be in the same boat as u. It's like 'friend is better than family'-so fun horr!. As time flies, i'll understand more that my mum wants the best for me. And now, i can already go out and come back late, all because of trust. And it is good to introduce ur friend to ur parents...
Oukh btw, we took the same year of exam though im a year older.
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well, TS u noe wad ur problem is. you played too much tt maybe ur mum feel no choice but to be strict with you.
but on another note, i have know mums who are really overbearing. e.g. doesn't allow their kids to use the internet without supervision (and by kids, i refer to students of sec sch age), doesn't allow handphones etc.
some mums are really too possessive of their children that they think they have the right to control all aspect of their children's life, with little regards to the objections of their children.
its ok for parents to be strict during a child's foundation years i.e. primary school. but i think they should ease their control once their child reaches his or her teens.
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do u have the qualities to be a grown up teen/adult?
obviously your mother thinks you dont have the tools to be one and hence she have to tell you, show you the way.
but then again there will come a time where your mind is moulded and cannot change no matter what.
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Originally posted by JonJon92:
No way else...retaking means private ... Private means no proper teacher guidance and dicipline like in scholl ...
Good thing about Private schools are for you to be discipline and do your own self study.. if you know you don't have discipline.. then i don't think you can even survive going to poly from ite.
Note : This doesn't mean you're not smart. It is that when there's discipline and good attitude, it will do you good.