JUst one to hear from guy here, will you forgive your loved one if she has a relationship outside marriage ? Why is such relationship so common nowaday ? How to turn back if I am into such relationship ?
Originally posted by I-ring:JUst one to hear from guy here, will you forgive your loved one if she has a relationship outside marriage ? Why is such relationship so common nowaday ? How to turn back if I am into such relationship ?
You have to explain your situation.
Cheers
Originally posted by Alextoh71:for men – it is hard to forgive…..I tried really hard- wanting for forgive as i have 2 young kids- but she didn’t want it – she claims because of 3rd party feeling no longer there. if there is children in your marriage – work on it – complete family is still much better – see how he treated you before also – needs to know your situation
so sad to hear that she got no more feeling for u ![]()
i always find it a duty to stay faithful to our partner ![]()
duty... what a sad way to put it...
Originally posted by tinuviel07:duty... what a sad way to put it...
obligation is more sad way to put it. ![]()
Originally posted by sinicker:obligation is more sad way to put it.
lol worse
obligation is more sad way to put it. <---- what obligation you refering to?
With all these increasing, no wonder so many choose to remain single. Sigh!
Originally posted by I-ring:JUst one to hear from guy here, will you forgive your loved one if she has a relationship outside marriage ? Why is such relationship so common nowaday ? How to turn back if I am into such relationship ?
Depends on how descriptive your story is, then I will tell you whether your story is real or made-up one before I decide if I want to burn you @ss with my flames or not.
OK? ![]()
Originally posted by I-ring:JUst one to hear from guy here, will you forgive your loved one if she has a relationship outside marriage ? Why is such relationship so common nowaday ? How to turn back if I am into such relationship ?
Also depends on her .. if she wants to forgive you or not.
Originally posted by Fantagf:With all these increasing, no wonder so many choose to remain single. Sigh!
Yes. because it is always easier to blame the other party.
Men.. especially SG men has a hard time doing some self reflecting to ask themselves what kind of husband he has become.
You can have a r/s or a lover outside of your marriage.. But at the end of the day, there are 3 things we all have to be responsible to in a marriage,
The first 2 mentioned should be a no-brainer for all.
For the 3rd point mentioned, when there are times we feel like we don't love our other-half anymore (to the extent that there'll always be quarrel), please remember, love your marriage. There's a reason why you said what you both said during the vows to each other in front of the JP..
I hope this is a wake up call to those who are going thru a divorce, or are having an extramarital affair..
Originally posted by I-ring:JUst one to hear from guy here, will you forgive your loved one if she has a relationship outside marriage ? Why is such relationship so common nowaday ? How to turn back if I am into such relationship ?
1. usually men will not forgive wife when wife let men wear green hat. unless they married for many years.
2. yes such relationship is common coz there are many temptations and marriage is no longer exicting anymore.
3. to turn back means you still treasure the marriage else u cannot turn back. there is no way to turn back.
Originally posted by playmemory:1. usually men will not forgive wife when wife let men wear green hat. unless they married for many years.
2. yes such relationship is common coz there are many temptations and marriage is no longer exicting anymore.
3. to turn back means you still treasure the marriage else u cannot turn back. there is no way to turn back.
Originally posted by I-ring:JUst one to hear from guy here, will you forgive your loved one if she has a relationship outside marriage ? Why is such relationship so common nowaday ? How to turn back if I am into such relationship ?
no .....
she can do it once, she can do it again ....the trust is forever lost ....
it's over ....
gather your evidence, present it at court, and get the children ....
tt is known as CCA
husband go out side piak piak, wife forgive
wife go outside piak piak, husband go see lawyer ![]()
Originally posted by [J]erry:husband go out side piak piak, wife forgive
wife go outside piak piak, husband go see lawyer
life is unfair. just that there is no point to bebut abt it.
Originally posted by [J]erry:husband go out side piak piak, wife forgive
wife go outside piak piak, husband go see lawyer
well .... I'm not the sort fo who outside and piak piak, so I think that's an unfair statement .....
but I can tell you how a man feels ....
imagine your wife ... the woman you love ... perhaps the mother of your children .... doing it with another man behind your back .....
everytime you try to get intimate with her, that mental image would flash in your brain ... and your brainstem would throb ... you'll feel the anger rising again ......
this is a "one strike you're out" game .....
it'll never ever be the same again ..... never ..............
It is getting common to hear this sort of things nowadays......
I really wonder if this the price we have to pay for all the modernisation......
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if wife is seeing someone else, she is gone!
she probably after the guys money, looks, things that u cannot satisfy her.
cant trust gls these days, they probably always screw behind our back.
don't get married then