Yes..wotever decision bothways it'll affect the children...
Children are always the first to suffer in any situation in life...
"Never"
Originally posted by LipGloSs:neither.. im one of d children to be honest..
how old are you...if u are a teen...u shuld be old enuf to help talk things out wit ur parents =)...if one of them says they have no feelings for each other anymore thn they are selfish as to not spare a thought for you
Originally posted by LipGloSs:Shd divorce take place when kids are young or when they are all grown up?
Kids need both father and mother - a complete family to grow up healthily, they say.. But if divorce takes place when the kids are young, at least they are spared from being emotionally attached (maybe) as they donno or might not know what's going on...
If d kids are all grown up, they know very well wat's going on and they tend to have a stand of their own about who's right and who's wrong..They tend to be emotionally attached to d problem too..
So as above, when shd a divorce takes place when d parents thinks that they shd go separate ways?Shd they hang on for d kids sake?
Is divorce inevitable?
Sometimes, parents do think for the kids. But situations may have come to a point that divorce is inevitable. Kids have to spare a thought for their parents as well. 2 people hanging there just for the kids is as hurting to themselves and the kids. Kids want their parents to be happy and vice versa. If the divorce can be settled amicably, I think the damage is minimised. Since all the 3 kids in this situation are more or less young adults, I think they should be able to comprehend the situation better than anyone of us here.
Words can only described so much, but the actual feelings, only those involved know it better.