what if u have feelings for ur own cousin?
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hey guys.. just a feeling which i wanna consult u all...
recently just got a special feeling with my cousin who is 5 years younger den me. we are qing mei chu ma when we are very young very closed at tt time.
wad should i do?
elderly often says that blood related cousins cant be together, but is it really impossible? -
maybe its just a crush..
very soon u will forget abt her wan..... -
it's better not to be together..
You too are close as in like close relatives and do not develop to any feelings that is more than that.. -
U SUX ! juz kiddin la ... =)Originally posted by SoonKeong:hey guys.. just a feeling which i wanna consult u all...
recently just got a special feeling with my cousin who is 5 years younger den me. we are qing mei chu ma when we are very young very closed at tt time.
wad should i do?
elderly often says that blood related cousins cant be together, but is it really impossible? -
Originally posted by blue_kelvinsg:U SUX !
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i hope it is, but i realise it is getting heavier each day.Originally posted by Qoo`~`:maybe its just a crush..
very soon u will forget abt her wan..... -
not really say close relative...Originally posted by kohanson:it's better not to be together..
You too are close as in like close relatives and do not develop to any feelings that is more than that..
she is my mother's brother's sister.
impossible is still the only word to answer my trouble? -
when i was 13 yrs old..i had a crush on my coushin in taiwan...he was.....almost 10+ yrs older den me...but...den i realised...i was so silly...keke...Originally posted by SoonKeong:hey guys.. just a feeling which i wanna consult u all...
recently just got a special feeling with my cousin who is 5 years younger den me. we are qing mei chu ma when we are very young very closed at tt time.
wad should i do?
elderly often says that blood related cousins cant be together, but is it really impossible?
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Originally posted by SoonKeong:not really say close relative...
she is my mother's brother's sister.
impossible is still the only word to answer my trouble? Wait for Guru Yun to answer your call...... -
its actually quite close....Originally posted by SoonKeong:not really say close relative...
she is my mother's brother's sister.
impossible is still the only word to answer my trouble?
i wil not say so, but if u feel that its not a crush and u truely love her and same feelings also for her. then its possible..
yr family very conservative tpye one? -
Since its your mother side - the blood relation isn't that strong, but seriously speaking - when it comes to such foresee-able ill decision that man could make - best is to avoid before you may regret.Originally posted by SoonKeong:hey guys.. just a feeling which i wanna consult u all...
recently just got a special feeling with my cousin who is 5 years younger den me. we are qing mei chu ma when we are very young very closed at tt time.
wad should i do?
elderly often says that blood related cousins cant be together, but is it really impossible?
Your feeling to your cousin is probably not love - it is probably a need to protect and care for her (you said special feeling) and this may not be = to love. It is important to understand the sort of emotions that you may be experience and to identity with precision to avoid unneccessary problems.
In summary: If you can avoid - avoid it.
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hmm.. yunhaiver..
u have a point there.
perhaps i shall see how it goes ba.
zhen ai nan qiu... if she really is the one i like and not juz crush den i shall take further action
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eh.. ya it is suppose to be so....Originally posted by Spetznaz:shldnt that b like ur auntie???
since mother's brother is uncle and his sister is ur ...auntie???
heard it's like, father's side cousins den cant be together ba..? -
if she's frm mother side ok
bt father's no ok -
my parents does respect my decision... i hopeOriginally posted by Qoo`~`:its actually quite close....
i wil not say so, but if u feel that its not a crush and u truely love her and same feelings also for her. then its possible..
yr family very conservative tpye one?
anyway my cousin didn't know about my special feeling for her.
wad will happen if i say? scarly she dun even wanna tok to mi anymore or perhaps her parents will condemn her. -
i dun see it as something shameful loh
wad's so malu about this?
chinese married malay
indian married japanese
angmo married african
wad else?=p -
u can accept dosn't mean it's also ok with her, right?
anyway, what the heck!! what make u so sure she won't reject u? -
you better consider properly first..Originally posted by SoonKeong:my parents does respect my decision... i hope
anyway my cousin didn't know about my special feeling for her.
wad will happen if i say? scarly she dun even wanna tok to mi anymore or perhaps her parents will condemn her.
She might take you as a close relative instead of someone you wanna spend with for the rest of your life. -
ya.. maybe she will.Originally posted by Promiscuitee:u can accept dosn't mean it's also ok with her, right?
anyway, what the heck!! what make u so sure she won't reject u?
but i am trying to spell out my feeling tt's all.=)
maybe more time will help to determine everything i guess...
but thankz for everyone hu reponse to my question!~ -
last time use to but nw i find it stupid....
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I thought only black and white chinese movie will have this.Originally posted by SoonKeong:hey guys.. just a feeling which i wanna consult u all...
recently just got a special feeling with my cousin who is 5 years younger den me. we are qing mei chu ma when we are very young very closed at tt time.
wad should i do?
elderly often says that blood related cousins cant be together, but is it really impossible?
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nope... black white movies are friction...=p
think it in my shoe u will find it is nth uncommon den^^
anyway this brings mi to another section of question i wanna ask:
normally we see a couple together we tend to judge them simultaneously...
but when we saw couples that are strange, that is, gal taller den guy, 2 different race or perhaps age gap too big..
we will often give a disgust look and immediately start a new topic about it with ur frens...
izzit becoz we people still have the right concept that guy must always be stronger,taller and better den the gal be4 they should go into a relationship? -
oh yeah...it is one of those times that thou shall have feelings for one's cousin...
nothing new, have seen it happen before...may it be tv or real life...
As long as she is not from your father's side it is fine...go for it, get married, have children...but, one thing to ponder though, it is boring to have a relationship with a relative... -
Boring...?
i prefer not use the word boring in a relationship becoz, relationship is given to both party hu have trust and love in eachother.
if go into steady is becoz of the fun of it den on the way getting boredom... den might as well not go into relationship ba? -
therez no right or wrong concept...Originally posted by SoonKeong:nope... black white movies are friction...=p
think it in my shoe u will find it is nth uncommon den^^
anyway this brings mi to another section of question i wanna ask:
normally we see a couple together we tend to judge them simultaneously...
but when we saw couples that are strange, that is, gal taller den guy, 2 different race or perhaps age gap too big..
we will often give a disgust look and immediately start a new topic about it with ur frens...
izzit becoz we people still have the right concept that guy must always be stronger,taller and better den the gal be4 they should go into a relationship?
itz juz tat pp hav long perceived it 2 b this wae...tatz y they look at these so called 'different' couples in another fashion..
feelings r most impt...