Should I marry her ?
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TS... u realli wasted 5 years of the girl life waiting for u to pop the big question... n now u want to pop a different sentence...
which one u want...
"honey, will you marry me?"
OR
"honey, i think after 5 years, we are better off as just friends..." -
relationship is about giving and taking. If you keep insisting on taking without giving, how would a relationship continue?
Marry her if you can imagine living with her till ripe age.
Dun if you can't.
Cos ultimately, everything become like this while times goes by. You need to spice up your relationship once in a while so that you would experience love constantly.
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Originally posted by Lanjiaolan:
In this dilema ,I have been with this girl for 5 years ,,, honestly the love has faded and only left with responsibility towards her,,,, friend and family have been pressuring me to marry her , i keep asking myself am I the one for her or should I just break off this relationship so she can find someone better and not hold her back ,,, if you are in this stage you know what i mean because we have been together for so long there are bound to be emotional attachment ,,, is not so easy to call off the relationship
Friends been telling me only marry the girl you love and find compatible and someone whom you want to spend their life with ,,, easier said than done,,,, because you cannot find someone like that ,,,, even if you found her she may not accept you in the first place,, anyone in this situation before ..can enlighten me ??
You already find no reasons to be in the relationship and hence, the last thing you ought to do is to put yourself in denial mode.If obligation is the only reason why you are in it, but before you decide that all is over, you might want to speak to her and trash everything. You might or might not learn that this relationship is truly over and if the outcome is not promising, as least you can work towards an amicable break-up, which is pretty much a mature way of handing issues, rather than opting to run away.
P.S: Relationship is never static - length of relationship does not guarantee everlasting fulfillment or marriage.
Cheers