BF breaks up to patch with ex and is marrying her

• ItchyArmpit

  1 Mar 09, 11:35

  nvm.. there are even better, taller, healthier, greener trees in the forest out there..

  would u mind a 177 tall, study and sports average, plump, sociable, but sometimes gets an itchy armpit when registering for accts on forum, to be ur bf?

• Aear

  1 Mar 09, 12:05

  Originally posted by ButterCake:

  
  now going my driving lesson to distract myself..

  Excellent way to distract yourself. Lose a jerk, gain a skill.

  I'm more concerned about how you will react if and when he contacts you again. 

  Just remember, he didn't treat your heart with care, so he isn't worth your salt.

  Be firm, be clear headed and be good to yourself.

  *hugs*

• ItchyArmpit

  1 Mar 09, 12:09

  seriously.. i hate girls kena cheated and whine here and there..

  i rather TS, go do something, instead of sitting there and cry like one of my friend..

  i would actually advise on some sports, since sports require u to exert strength, u can chu qi.. then after sports, u will produce some chemicals in ur body to make u happy..

  each time u angry or sad.. go do some sprinting or some gyms training? just some suggestion la..

  anyway good luck
  IA

• ButterCake

  1 Mar 09, 14:59

  Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:

  Wa hahaah

  i tell you this type of guy hor.. is forever acting in his own TCS drama type

  With you, he is loving perfect honest guy

  with exgf, he is traumatised but still faithful bf (tt is why hor, I bet he NEVER told his ex abt u.. sure give the ex the impression that he had been lovelorn and depressed all these while)

  AND when they get married, and when they get into arguments or she lets him down - He will start to act the: I-married-the-wrong-woman-and-my-heart-belongs-to-another role.

  So hor, when he don't want to look you in the guy to say he loves you - it is not necessarily becos he still does - but he is paving his way for his next role.

   

  And don't be surprised, some months down the road, you receive a call from him to ask you how are u leh in the type of restrained i-miss-you-but-i-am-controlling-my-feelings-towards-you-because-i-am-honourable type of pattern.

  Anyway for your sake, don't end up becoming his supporting role in his own mini series lah.

   

   

  i have come to the conclusion that maybe he and her never broke up at all. The things juz all piece together :

  1)later part i never go his house le cos his sister was coming back from overseas (she work in USA) and needed to share his room. (maybe starting i could go his house was cos GF overseas?

  2)All the nites he say he sleep straight after work cos too tired

  many many more...................

  signz...end up i was the 3rd party instead.......................

• ButterCake

  1 Mar 09, 15:00

  Originally posted by Aear:

  Excellent way to distract yourself. Lose a jerk, gain a skill.

  I'm more concerned about how you will react if and when he contacts you again. 

  Just remember, he didn't treat your heart with care, so he isn't worth your salt.

  Be firm, be clear headed and be good to yourself.

  *hugs*

  
  *hugs back

• Mr.Teo

  2 Mar 09, 00:34

  get a better man

• ButterCake

  2 Mar 09, 03:09

  Originally posted by Mr.Teo:

  get a better man

  
  : )