should i go ahead?or just give up/stay where i am.

• eeden.

  8 Mar 09, 20:38

  haha i am not 色伯伯 please.i'll think it through.thanks for the advice. :)

• eeden.

  15 Mar 09, 12:15

  confessed,and she said "nothing just seemed to spark between us".so ya.

• Snookerlover

  15 Mar 09, 13:19

  Pity.

• eeden.

  15 Mar 09, 18:08

  at least we are still on good talking terms,she just sms-ed to chat with me.

• parn

  15 Mar 09, 20:51

  You and her must be GAM for each other first before you make any move.

  Now you really need to be yourself and see if you are GAM with her or not.

   

  If not, then don't force your feelings upon her. If she really likes you, she will let you know that you and her are very GAM for each other.

• eeden.

  15 Mar 09, 20:54

  's why currently i dont initiate the convos/speak too animatedly.dunno whether its a good thing to do but,ah well.

• parn

  15 Mar 09, 21:09

  Originally posted by eeden.:

  's why currently i dont initiate the convos/speak too animatedly.dunno whether its a good thing to do but,ah well.

  
  If you can put on an invisible mask, become someone you're not, all for the sake of her.

  Then I don't see why you cannot attract her attention.

  Love itself is an act, so you must be a good actor and gain her approval by putting on your best performance for her.

  It's not dishonesty, your acting is purely for entertaining purposes.

  Of course you act is because you wanted her to be happy everyday and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

  Actors/Actresses acted for the love of the audience and you can become the number one actor for the love of that girl.

  Can you do all that?

• eeden.

  15 Mar 09, 21:16

  Originally posted by parn:

  
  If you can put on an invisible mask, become someone you're not, all for the sake of her.

  Then I don't see why you cannot attract her attention.

  Love itself is an act, so you must be a good actor and gain her approval by putting on your best performance for her.

  It's not dishonesty, your acting is purely for entertaining purposes.

  Of course you act is because you wanted her to be happy everyday and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.

  Actors/Actresses acted for the love of the audience and you can become the number one actor for the love of that girl.

  Can you do all that?

  dont understand. :S means im acting?or you want me to act?