What should I do?
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Since the gal is sandwiched between you & her parents, and you are still not ready to meet the parents.. The only thing you could do is to have a good talk with ur gf.
She wll have to trust & believe in you deeply IF she still want to carry on this r'ship. Given your posts, I believe you are one matured man who wants to put things back into the right track.
At this moment, there's no point in regrettin since it's already in the past. What one can do is to move forward. If your gf wants to carry on this r'ship with you, she wll hav to stand by you while you work towards higher education (if that's the main problem tat stands between you two). It's not goin to b a easy route for both of you, you know it im sure. But the end result wld be worth the sacrifies.
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i can sense that we are coming to an end soon
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1. If you yourself think ITE grads is inferior to anyone else, you really are, because you THINK so and it makes you behave accordingly - inferior.
2. Relationships are matters of choice. It takes 2 to clap. If she wants to break up out of fillal piety, to force her to continue on is to break up her relationship with her family. Are you prepared to do that and sleep in peace with conscience?
3. Adult life is never easy. We all have to make difficult choices at times. We can always hide and live in fantasy. But why live a lie, when ultimately one day you will still have to face up to making that hard choice, made worse because you refuse to act today?
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double post
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1. If you yourself think ITE grads is inferior to anyone else, you really are, because you THINK so and it makes you behave accordingly - inferior.
Yes i think so too. But how to be confident whenever people give that look when i say i was from ITE? Maybe i think too much but thats the reaction I get from most people.
2. Relationships are matters of choice. It takes 2 to clap. If she wants to break up out of fillal piety, to force her to continue on is to break up her relationship with her family. Are you prepared to do that and sleep in peace with conscience?
Throughout this 4 years r/s, I have never ever force her to go against her parents. It Doesn't matter now, we have broken up one hour back.
3. Adult life is never easy. We all have to make difficult choices at times. We can always hide and live in fantasy. But why live a lie, when ultimately one day you will still have to face up to making that hard choice, made worse because you refuse to act today?
I used to live in my own world, thinking everything is smooth. I woke up, facing the reality and I have to work hard to get what I want. The actions of my past has come to haunt me now in the present. Right now I only know to work hard, nothing else.