IS MY MAMA CRAZY???
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Originally posted by Triangle1992:
my mother always thinks she is right and things should go her way ... that implies to our family ... So if thinks doesnt go her way , she would shout / Scream and scold .. and Digg out old stuff and talk about it .. if u talk back she will go crazy .
Easy problem. Depends on the situations. May be you can present it here and let us to judge. How old are you?
Use "logic" to fight her.
Debate with her, on the issues to show her the facts, graphs and stats. Present it. Shoot until she cries.
Depends on the situations, may be she is right.
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that is why some husbands don't like to be at home.
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I say if your mum still makes ur meal, do your laundry, worry when you do badly and when you're sick, then she's just a regular mother who loves you (and your family) and worry too much.Most mothers usually have too much to do and a heavy sense of responsibility for her childrens' and for her husband's well being.
I do not know if your mother is just the normally 'ba dao' mother (as in most families) or she does have a mental condition (be it stress, depression or others). But in my own experience, my mother was UNusually easily agitated bcos she had a mental condition which lasted for 20+ years till her death (which also deteriorated to the point of being incapacitated in that period). Her condition of cos created certain changes to her personality and limited her ability to be a mother and a wife.
Bcos I was still very young when she first got sick, I never really did knew her well in her normal state and of cos being young didn't understand what was wrong with her . In my teenage years, I hated her, hated that she was sick and hated all the things that happened bcos she was sick.
And even before she left us, I knew she would be a cross I have to bear till my own death and I willingly carry this bcos I could have been nicer, kinder, loved her more and I wish I had understood then what I understood now. There are many things that I shouldn't have done and even more things that I should have done, but its too little too late. I think about her every day now and I wish I thot about her more when she was still here.
All I can say to you and to everyone else is be nice to your mother while you still can bcos for most of you, your mother really do love you.
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I remember when i was a youth, I was imature. They throw their temper onto me everytime they came back home from work. And i alway thought they were asking for trouble and i never fail talking back. I felt embarrassing right now while thinking of that period. And right now,I'm a teenager and their temper are changed. No matter what they scold are all because of you.(Left right in and right ear out). If a parent are ignoring you means they gave up on you or definately not your parent lol.
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mama is always right . haiz
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Hi Triangle,\
Mama loves you dats y she nags,
Mama Stress at hm dats y she nags
Mama angry she also nags
But Mama gets upset she cries
I can understand how you feel but till when I became Mama, now I love my Mama more than ever...
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my frd's mother got mental prob oso is liddat de.
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I heard from a few ppl that my mother is that kind cannot listen go in one , so no use talking reasons to her or fight with her . she can get angry n scream n shout for fun whenever and where ever she likes cos its her own mouth . so if i talk back she will go fucking crazy and !@#$@%@%@$!#@@ will go non stop . no one can take it . on top of that she is not afraid of my father or death . my father would throw what things in his sight n break it . So any solution?
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Originally posted by Triangle1992:
I heard from a few ppl that my mother is that kind cannot listen go in one , so no use talking reasons to her or fight with her . she can get angry n scream n shout for fun whenever and where ever she likes cos its her own mouth . so if i talk back she will go fucking crazy and !@#$@%@%@$!#@@ will go non stop . no one can take it . on top of that she is not afraid of my father or death . my father would throw what things in his sight n break it . So any solution?
Hello Triangle,
She needs counselling....try and approach your uncle or aunty from your mother's side to talk to her....see what happens after they spoke to her ok...
My thinking is that maybe she loves the family as much as any mother loves her own family and perhaps you and the others have not been giving her attention and attention I mean by taking her out for dinner or shopping or maybe buy a present to make her feel loved...I guess...maybe..don't you think so Triangle.
Joe
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lol same problem dude just live with it like dont talk back...its like dat man i know u feeel very kinda unfair like u have this kind of parents while others blah blah but haiz..
just live with it u cant change your parents your problem is exactly same as mine ..just LIVE WITH IT
and triangle how old are u?
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1992 = sec 3
aka could be 14 years old
aka could be some loser
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in this world mama is the best....u never listen to fernleaf advert before?
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Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:
in this world mama is the best....u never listen to fernleaf advert before?
now where got fernleaf ad?that one is our era one leh
haha
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paiseh generation gap....
go listen to jay la....ting ma ma de hua....
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Aiya. Just tell her that you need some free speech. Democracy! Communicate with her lor. If she dun listen, cold war. Then let her think through.
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Originally posted by gigabyte14:
1992 = sec 3
aka could be 14 years old
aka could be some loser
ur maths fail .. i 17 tis year -
same as my mama..think they can be gd friends..and i am serious...
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Originally posted by gigabyte14:
1992 = sec 3
aka could be 14 years old
aka could be some loser
heyhey giga,
1992 = sec 4, waiting for poly
aleast 16 years old
loser part i cant cfm LOL -
When your mother is not ard anymore , no one to nag at u .. I would like to see how u regret creating this thread.
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u think she nag at u juz for the lolz ah?? she'z not getting paid to raise u, u know not!! this shows how much she care abt u
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Since u talk back to her make her ki siao....why dun u just go ahead and burst her blood vessels, when she kena stroke, she wun be able to nag u anymore.
If ur mummy's like that, jus minimise all interaction. Mothers always think they know more, so no point arguing, esp if u r jus a kiddo. She may mellow down as she gets older. With no offence intended, ur mum may have been brought up the same manner by her parents, which leaves little room for tolerance and patience. It's up to u to break that cycle in ur generation.
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Hahaha! they think that they are clever lor , then always think themselves are right! they are irritating animals , nag until non-stop! * yawn*
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If they are animals, what r u?
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Tell your self that you can take it before any argument. And be sure that your reason is really correct.
After that think about all the logical stuff to explain to win over your mother
Be sure to make sure u can argue all the way, it take ssome training to do that
In some events, your mother will, or might, say something like you are her son and you dun care about her and all those things.
Then must say i am ur son, i want u to think correctly, not your own weird reasonings etc etc...
I hope this will help to an extend. However if you go abit overboard your mum might really threaten to commit suicide(i hope not)
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You can just let her win. Cos everyday at home do housework and work like a slave, she will start to live in their own world, and think that what they do is very rough. SO in turn they will start attracting some attention and say this and that....