IS MY MAMA CRAZY???
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Originally posted by Cuperman:
heyhey giga,
1992 = sec 4, waiting for poly
aleast 16 years old
loser part i cant cfm LOLi blur, haha
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Tell your self that you can take it before any argument. And be sure that your reason is really correct.
After that think about all the logical stuff to explain to win over your mother
Be sure to make sure u can argue all the way, it take ssome training to do that
In some events, your mother will, or might, say something like you are her son and you dun care about her and all those things.
Then must say i am ur son, i want u to think correctly, not your own weird reasonings etc etc...
I hope this will help to an extend. However if you go abit overboard your mum might really threaten to commit suicide(i hope not)
Or
You can just let her win. Cos everyday at home do housework and work like a slave, she will start to live in their own world, and think that what they do is very rough. SO in turn they will start attracting some attention and say this and that....Edited by MyPillowTalks 01 Apr `09, 7:11PMLOL ROFL ssome training totally agree ... -
Originally posted by SIanzlIFez:
Tell your self that you can take it before any argument. And be sure that your reason is really correct.
After that think about all the logical stuff to explain to win over your mother
Be sure to make sure u can argue all the way, it take ssome training to do that
In some events, your mother will, or might, say something like you are her son and you dun care about her and all those things.
Then must say i am ur son, i want u to think correctly, not your own weird reasonings etc etc...
I hope this will help to an extend. However if you go abit overboard your mum might really threaten to commit suicide(i hope not)
Or
You can just let her win. Cos everyday at home do housework and work like a slave, she will start to live in their own world, and think that what they do is very rough. SO in turn they will start attracting some attention and say this and that....Edited by MyPillowTalks 01 Apr `09, 7:11PMLOL ROFL ssome training totally agree ...1 ) my mother does not do housework
2 ) she work to support herself
3 ) my father never give her money
4 ) she never pack the house or her own things
5 ) she is VERY irritating when she is at home meaning she would b whinning n complaining for no reason .
6 ) my parents dun even love each other anymore -
maybe ur mom is just getting very old and fustrated. talk to her lah nicely and help her with her problems and such. mothers are like that lah. my mom also the same.
and to add to your mama jokes ;p
Your mama is so fat that her picture is heavy! -
Originally posted by Triangle1992:
my mother always thinks she is right and things should go her way ... that implies to our family ... So if thinks doesnt go her way , she would shout / Scream and scold .. and Digg out old stuff and talk about it .. if u talk back she will go crazy .
i hv someone who is v close to me, whose mother is like that also.
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advice?
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almost all mothers same...
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heh, not crazy lar, probably just having alot of stress.
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Social mileage lar, save face lar, if not simply jaded, trapped, no way to escape lar - so disguise predicament by ......
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I think it is pretty normal.
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Over the weekends bring your mother out walk walk?
Maybe she is quite stressed and just want to vent her anger out.
Or just have an meal together with her,
tell her about your life, this shows that you trust her and shares things with her.
Imagine life without your mom?
If shes gone, You'll soon find, ' wah.. why the house so quiet.. i miss mama. '
By that time too late to regret.
No matter what,
She's your mom.
I'm sorry if i sound mean. -
your mom is still a person after all.
and just like every other person, they might be angry with the world and how their life turned out.
and their big problem is that they nag and nag and complain and complain, but they never do anything to change their life.
i suggest you try to talk to her. not as a child-mother, but as a friend (but with respect ah, don't go like cussing around) and try to find out what's her problem actually.
and if that doesn't work... guess pray hard for the time to come faster when you can leave the nest..