My guy just wont work hard for our future..Haiz..Any advice?
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He cant save up.. He alw claim he got no enough $ to use..
But he wants to get married and get a flat.. Only me scrumble to save the tiny bits.. Its not gg to be enug.. Wat shld i go?
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Think.
Do u really want to spend the rest of your life with a guy like that ?
Give you the creeps, doesnt it ?
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chuck into dustbin, get a new one ...
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get fatummy!
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if the old one doesn't go..
then how's the new one gonna come in..
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give him ultimatum lor
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List down his pay and his monthly expenses la
From there can work out how much to save and what can be cut out
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wat is ultimatum? he need his car, puff and drink.. so he cant save..
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if i were you....i would go separate ways...i don't want to always be constantly worried about his probs...and my future if i were with him...sad to say...i'd rather be realistic than suffer at the end...
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tell him to make a choice
puff and drink (and probably car as well)
vs
you
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observations @ a wedding...
groom surrenders all red packets to his bride.
bride: what's yours is mine. what's mine is still mine. what's ours is also mine.
relatives: smart girl!
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Originally posted by Pigkazhu:
wat is ultimatum? he need his car, puff and drink.. so he cant save..
-_-"He sure can cut down on smoking and drinking since they are both bad for health
I suggest you leave him tbh since puffing and drinking is more important than the future. He's not even taking the relationship seriously
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Originally posted by Pigkazhu:
wat is ultimatum? he need his car, puff and drink.. so he cant save..
puff and drink?
useless
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letting go is alw never been easy.. we hv bn 2ger for 3 yrs plus. i hope one day he'll wake up. i'm getting real tired, i dun even want to save up now. he knows i'm earning more than him, but does tat means he do not need to do wat he's supposed to?
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Try to have a talk to him about the future, see whats his view.
Saving money takes alot of discipline.
If he cares for both ur future, hope he saves.
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so what if he still don't wake up until 60 years old?
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if u love him, and he love u.. maybe can stick.. but
if his a fag to u, and u love him, leave him to make him wake up
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Puffing and drinking can be hobbies or vices, depending on how you look at it. How old are the both of you?
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Originally posted by Pigkazhu:
wat is ultimatum? he need his car, puff and drink.. so he cant save..
then how? you end up paying for the flat, the wedding, and everything else?talk to him, if he still doesn't listen, dump him. easier said than done but better now than later.
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Even he save up for the marriage.. After marriage how?
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Originally posted by gigabyte14:
puff and drink?
useless
x 1000. and furthermore, he can't save up money. These kind of ppl will continue living their own extravagant lifestyle and it won't be easy to change them.
do u wanna continue slogging ur guts out or lead a better life by breaking up with him? it's ur choice.
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time to find a new bf. and please dump him soon. otherwise the next time some one tells you to do so, you're going to say it's hard to do so cos you've been together for 4 years.....
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Originally posted by Miss Tiny:
x 1000. and furthermore, he can't save up money. These kind of ppl will continue living their own extravagant lifestyle and it won't be easy to change them.
do u wanna continue slogging ur guts out or lead a better life by breaking up with him? it's ur choice.
it's not even extravagant
I don't see how working for money just to puff and drink extravagant......
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Originally posted by eagle:
it's not even extravagant
I don't see how working for money just to puff and drink extravagant......
okok, then it's not.
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Originally posted by Pigkazhu:
He cant save up.. He alw claim he got no enough $ to use..
But he wants to get married and get a flat.. Only me scrumble to save the tiny bits.. Its not gg to be enug.. Wat shld i go?
No problem, you can always work more jobs then it will be enough for both of you.