I can get used to anything, except a guy
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This conversation's gone south faster than someone trying to nuke the Antarctic, but that's normal every time parn gets involved.
I'm outta here.
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Originally posted by barista:
Initially , when he was head over heels with me, everything was possible, as long as i am happy. Now, i got blame for all the shit he had to take last time
"Do you love me? " can be interpreted as "Do you hate me?"
Just as a half glass full of water can be viewed as a half glass empty of water.
Hence, looking from his point of view, the question "Do you love me?" means he is worried that you will leave him one day. This is probably due to he sense some changes in you. He is trying to look for some assurance from you. With no answer from you, he remind you that he still loves you because of all the things he did for you in the past but not complaining.
Well, you may find these hard to believe. Especialy, women claimed that they have strong intuition. Ya ya ya... oh well, that is why they say men are from mars... women are from venus...
You may feel that the glass is half full but not neccessary it is the truth. You may feel that the glass is going to be empy but not neccessary it will be. If both of you sense differently, set a tangible measurable scale to gauge the feelings. Make it standard, fair and dont take it for granted.
If you feel too bothered, then please by all means leave him. It is good for him. It is good for you.
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its the sex lah
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
its the sex lah
Sex can be it but ,sadly soon, it disipate into the air with no trace or whatever. -
Nympho + Limp dick = Wont work out.
=x
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Originally posted by barista:
Sometimes it gets so frustrating talking to him. But 我�。
He looks down on females so much , it gets to my nerves. Yes,I'm talking about the male chauvinist boyfriend.
There are females in his company who are VPs , MDs, AVPs .
To that, he will say "oh they are useless, they can't do anything right. They don't even know what's going on, they only make matters worse etc and because they are females that's why couldn't do things well. " Of course there are female bosses who are not very useful to the coy but It just boils inside me when the view points he makes is so sexist and disrespectful.
I used to complain about my work as well but due to his incessant negative views on females' cabability, i just hate to share my woes with him anymore.
By the way, i am earning as much as he does although he is a degree grad and i'm a diploma holder. And i'm 8 years younger than him.
We have been living with each other for coming two years.
Is it really common still for guys to have this kind of thinking nowadays? Should i just shrug my shoulders each time he does it again or should i better make my move from him if i want some respect?
If you can't get through a day without this affecting you and the relationship is still disintegrating after considerable effort, discard and just go onto the next.
Good relationships are a combination of mutual respect, trust, communication and support. Do reassess the value of your relationship objectively. Some forumers here have given you excellent advice.
Surely you deserve better treatment as a woman. And I'm assuming you know a good roll in the hay is not enough to garner the respect you want from your man.
Chin up and take care.
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Small fonts doesn't make the thread shorter...
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Originally posted by barista:
excuse moi lady, i'm not a guy! what makes you think i am a guy? I really do hope you are reading. i'm a 100% female.
I need advice from the people here because i'm confused with my rs.Obviously i listed the annoying ones as the reason i started this thread. It just so happened that you're convinced i've sexual issues when i didn't even mention it in the first place ? So i'm elaborating it for you to judge whether is there a problem? But since both me and my bf reckon there are no problems but pleasures , then maybe we should focus on other aspects of the rs where the problem arises.
I hope you are aware there are problems as well as pleasureable moments in a relationship.
Ok, so would you like to know about my pleasurable moments?
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Originally posted by Gedanken:
This conversation's gone south faster than someone trying to nuke the Antarctic, but that's normal every time parn gets involved.
I'm outta here.
You're out of here because you realised that TS is not a girl or you are trying to show us that you are not homosexual? -
My apologies for what i had posted yesterday. Felt shameful that i didn't keep my cool.
Since, the samaritan of this thread is no longer here and the story has taken a twist , to an end which was not expected to ( also ironically, defeat the purpose of this thread). I don't wish to explain any further and rant about any else.
On a good note, my boyfriend and i have reach a consensus and we will live happily ever after.
Thank you for listening and replying everyone.
Have a nice year.Cheers
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Originally posted by barista:
Now you're talking to yourself......It's abnormal.
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I'm talking to you.
Just that you never listen.
But it's normal
for you
because you are parn.
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happily ever after?
man, that sux monkey balls
oh well, at least you're happy
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Originally posted by barista:
I'm talking to you.
Just that you never listen.
But it's normal
for you
because you are parn.
You are obviously talking to yourself just now. And I don't need to listen to your sex stories.You should be smarter next time and bring them to Bar, the guy forumers there might entertain and feed your homosexual fantasy.
Keep it coming.........
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Originally posted by Aear:
If you can't get through a day without this affecting you and the relationship is still disintegrating after considerable effort, discard and just go onto the next.
Good relationships are a combination of mutual respect, trust, communication and support. Do reassess the value of your relationship objectively. Some forumers here have given you excellent advice.
Surely you deserve better treatment as a woman. And I'm assuming you know a good roll in the hay is not enough to garner the respect you want from your man.
Chin up and take care.
Thanks for replying. Good news he has become patient and showed in other ways that he is willing to give this rs another chance and I'm going to compromise as well and i think this might be a good start to bring the relationship to a new level. . Thanks for your suggestions!
Gedanken, Thank you for you valuable advises, your patience and time. Your questions make my mind clearer. He has made the change for us and i really do feel it just might work out fine. But if things turn out otherwise, i know what to do . Your words are at the back of my mind and i am certain my chain of thoughts won't be going in circles again. Thank you.