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  • dkcx

    The things you want from a gf can be furfilled by a good, close friend as well which could be of either genders. Sometimes gf's are not even the best persons to share negative things with.

    If she can't get over her ex and patch up with him, that shows how much she cannot get over him and even if you try to woo her, i doubt it would do much to change her decision. For you however, it would hurt alot more cos u put in even more effort and yet still fail in the end.

    Even if you 2 can't be boy girl friends, theres nothing stopping you from being beside her to support her as a friend and not always as a boyfriend. That might be better than totally lossing her.

  • parn
    Originally posted by Lma0:
    「Eternally

     

    its not for sex.-.-
    i just wan someone to listen to my pain and sorrow.
    i just wan someone to be there when i nid help.
    i just wan someone to ..understand my feelings.
    im afraid she would patched back with her ex.
    ...
    Joe
    i wan to be there for her.
    i wan to understand her.
    she just kept the damn thinking that her ex would come back for her.
    i told her to forget about him.but she couldnt.
    she said she tried..-.-..
    i wan to be her...shell.
    just like a snail.
    i wan to support her..
    until she stable herself.


    I don't think she want to be burdened with your pain and sorrow cos she has her own share of pain and sorrow.

    Even for myself, I also don't like people who always come to me with their problems.

    But I don't hate them...it's just very irritating sometimes....but once in a while is ok I think. angel.png

  • Lma0

    Her Friends are so called " supporting me " to win her heart.

    -.-....

    is there anyway to stop them from patching -.-.........

    but...sometimes.i felt that if i din knew her..everything will go smoothly.

    but sometimes i will oso feel that after knowing her..she changed my life.

    hais..

  • dkcx

    Would you be able to live with the fact that you on purpose breakup her? If you really love someone, you should be caring about her happiness and not try to possess her. Thats being selfish yourself and not showing you love her.

    Its too late to say maybe things would be different if you didn't know her now etc. You already do so just live with it. Everyone will have met people who have helped change their lives in many different ways and often these people do not forever stay in your life. Just appreciate what has been done to change/help you and move on from there to live your life to the fullest and not dwell at the same spot over something.

  • Lma0

    ic...

    then..now..

    should i be close to her again?

    just like before??

    i always.

    waited her.

    acccomany her. dunno how to spell.ps

    so should i continue doin all this??

    or should i put a stop ?

  • dkcx

    What do you want now?

    As mentioned, i would suggest you give her some time to decide. If she can never get over her ex, its not likely she will accept you.

    You can still stay by her side and offer her help, support etc as a good friend. For all you know, 1 day she might be touched by your actions and decide you are more worth loving than her ex and that would be better than for you to intentionally cause something between the 2 of them.

  • Lma0

    hmm.

    i want..to remain by her side.

    i guess..i will treat this like nth happened?

    SO!!

    Do u suggest me to continue what im doin just like normal??

    waiting for her after school...

    wait for her during her CCA...

    msg her...

    chat with her...