Originally posted by gasband:
Through my own experience as a counsellor, i think even for someone who can dispense great advice to others, when it comes to themselves facing relationship problems, they can get irrational too, maybe thats what they mean by love is blind, so Yunhaier may also be irrational when it comes to himself but maybe he can snap out of his irrationale faster than most people.
That's a very good reply...
The situations I encountered and struck deeply within me are situations pretty uncommon among people. Perhaps God wanted me to go through some thing different (By the way I stress again I am not christian eh?).
For me... relationship ain't the higest priority in life. If I were to remain single for the rest of my life and become a monk - I would, (of course not without a fight against destiny). Probably become a full time counsellor instead of a free lance now and do things to make life more enriching bah.
I don't snapped out of irrational sense that easily because I ponder far too much to be considered healthy - if something that critical that requires that immediate pondering, which is of course ain't that often.
More often than not, I find myself crazy - trying to find the ultimate link, solution, definition, etc and everything regarding Love and related issue. Anything from Art of Seduction to Love relation for dummies. Devil1976 shared similar interest in this aspect, which made him another good uncle agony in here.
I feel that I am evil - so don't judge the book by its cover bah.
Cheers
