Girlfriend Issues.
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give her a solid fuck
show her your power
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Originally posted by NG QIBO AARON AUBREY:
give her a solid fuck
show her your power
I'm looking for matured answers. Thanks. (:
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Originally posted by ZarpZ:
Yeah. I guess its true.
I could break up but, i will have to see her again even if i don't want to. Should i tell her we should take a break first? Will that work?Yes. Your opinion seems different for your age. Haha.
I'm not asking you to break up with her YET. Issuing an ultimatum and breaking up is two completely different things.
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Originally posted by ItsJustNC:
I'm not asking you to break up with her YET. Issuing an ultimatum and breaking up is two completely different things.
Yes. I just told her i wanted to have a short break...
It hurts to the heart. But i hope this will make her appreciate me more. -
Sit down and talk things out. Tell her she is no longer a kid. If she carry on behaving like that, leave her. no point
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tell her to take a bath
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What???!!!
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Originally posted by ZarpZ:
I'm looking for matured answers. Thanks. (:
eh.. u're underestimating the powa of a good sex. give her something she never experienced and she'll be tamed -
Originally posted by ZarpZ:
Heya people of SGforum!
I've got a girlfriend who is kind, funny and cute.
However, sometimes, she mood swings kick in and it really irritates the hell out of me. She also expects things from me, for example, sending her off to the bus stop. Because i do it often and is a sign to show her how much i love her. I don't even mind sending her home even if i have to take a 45 minutes bus ride home. Its really out of love. But when i refuse to send her home and told her nicely about not getting used to me sending her off, she got pissed and just left without a trace.Also, occasionally, we have arguements because of little things, such as, not replying smses fast enough. And when i told her we are fighting over something small, she cries and the next day, gave me the same treatment.
To be honest, she's a nice girl but over sensitive. I just need real comments on this. Thanks.
Zarp,
For your case, she is not the only immature one.
Tell me, in the first place.. why was she attracted to you ? Why did she not choose other guys instead of you ?
Never start something you cannot finish.
First , you set up her expectation being such a wonderful guy.. then you complain about her expecting the same level of care and love later ?
You are a very confusing guy. Any girl will be frustrated with you because you employ the hook and dump attitude on your relationship.
You ask for more space.. when she gives you more space.. you complained about getting TOO much space. Then what exactly, is the appropriate amount of space you want from her ?
Remember, she cannot read your mind. Neither can you read hers.
While I understand this is your first relationship, it may also be one that you have to break from.. to learn from.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Zarp,
For your case, she is not the only immature one.
Tell me, in the first place.. why was she attracted to you ? Why did she not choose other guys instead of you ?
Never start something you cannot finish.
First , you set up her expectation being such a wonderful guy.. then you complain about her expecting the same level of care and love later ?
You are a very confusing guy. Any girl will be frustrated with you because you employ the hook and dump attitude on your relationship.
You ask for more space.. when she gives you more space.. you complained about getting TOO much space. Then what exactly, is the appropriate amount of space you want from her ?
Remember, she cannot read your mind. Neither can you read hers.
While I understand this is your first relationship, it may also be one that you have to break from.. to learn from.
We decided not to break. But i know that she's complaining to her friend to reduce the pain. Anyway, how would i know that there will be expectancy? I did those things out of love. Not to create standards.
How about the space in the middle? Where its just right?
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Originally posted by ZarpZ:
We decided not to break. But i know that she's complaining to her friend to reduce the pain. Anyway, how would i know that there will be expectancy? I did those things out of love. Not to create standards.
How about the space in the middle? Where its just right?
follow ross and rachel... "we were on a break"
its not a break up, its just a cooling down period... -
Originally posted by Rednano:
follow ross and rachel... "we were on a break"
its not a break up, its just a cooling down period...Yeah. But she said that, if we are on a break, it will be the same as a breakup.
Argh.
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Originally posted by ZarpZ:
Yeah. But she said that, if we are on a break, it will be the same as a breakup.
Argh.
u dunno how to make ur stand arh... cant u explain the definition... -
Originally posted by ZarpZ:
We decided not to break. But i know that she's complaining to her friend to reduce the pain. Anyway, how would i know that there will be expectancy? I did those things out of love. Not to create standards.
How about the space in the middle? Where its just right?
Nothing wrong complaining about relationship issues to friends.. we girls do that all the time, that's how females deal with their personal issues. We just want to get support and a place to vent our frustrations.
Expectations are part of any relationship. And the best is to be clear and consistant with what you set out and what you can accomplish. That's where communications becomes a very important tool.
You did those things out of love.. you are also setting a standard to your relationship. It seems she is just expecting consistency, not asking for more.
If you set a high standard.. it will be to your advantage. Humans will always make comparison, like it or not. So if this is her first relationship..and you set a high bar , then no other guy will be able to compete with you and win her heart away.
Some guys prefers to set a low standard.. but they always end up being dumped.. because he forget there's other guys out there who can be better than him. So they complain about their unfaithful girlfriends.. blah blah blah...
Remember.. what you like.. others will also like.
So treat your girlfriend well.. and enjoy the blissful relationship.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Nothing wrong complaining about relationship issues to friends.. we girls do that all the time, that's how females deal with their personal issues. We just want to get support and a place to vent our frustrations.
Expectations are part of any relationship. And the best is to be clear and consistant with what you set out and what you can accomplish. That's where communications becomes a very important tool.
You did those things out of love.. you are also setting a standard to your relationship. It seems she is just expecting consistency, not asking for more.
If you set a high standard.. it will be to your advantage. Humans will always make comparison, like it or not. So if this is her first relationship..and you set a high bar , then no other guy will be able to compete with you and win her heart away.
Some guys prefers to set a low standard.. but they always end up being dumped.. because he forget there's other guys out there who can be better than him. So they complain about their unfaithful girlfriends.. blah blah blah...
Remember.. what you like.. others will also like.
So treat your girlfriend well.. and enjoy the blissful relationship.
Thank you for your comment. I'm trying to clear my head and think straight. Thanks.
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Originally posted by ZarpZ:
We decided not to break. But i know that she's complaining to her friend to reduce the pain. Anyway, how would i know that there will be expectancy? I did those things out of love. Not to create standards.
How about the space in the middle? Where its just right?
"How about the space in the middle? Where its just right?".
Space in the middle is very subjective.
Your "just right" is different from her " just right".
Both of you needs to compromise and find a middle ground through communication, so that the expectations are agreed upon.
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Hi, is this post still alive and kicking?
i'd say your gf doesn't really have the ability to understand things as much as you do.
)which is i guess is pretty common amongst the youths nowadays)
i'd say, you pluck up some balls and break up with her.
although the consequences may not be too pretty, if this relationship is one-sided, it isn't healthy - and if i were you, i'd see no point in being with a girl who's cute and sweet etc. (there's more to that lah pls)
L.I.T
life is tough
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there is no need for a full blown assessment writeup on this.
- either she learns to grow up or to be kicked out.
- and you have to stop being her "bitch". it is disgraceful. period. -
Haha. I don't see a point for me to say anything else when i've posted all i had to say about this.
Things are usually as simple or as complicated as you perceive it to be. Right now, you're just thinking too much in my opinion. -
intro to me brother...i train her..
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if u do something that meant to b special one time too often....
it loses it meaning and become a standard practise which once stopped, will incur wrath....
so, the answer to that......
if it is some u hate doing or wont wanna do it forever.....
like magic, do it only once........
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Hi ts.
Perharps you would like to try having a talk with her to improve things?
Maybe when taking a stroll home together or etc, try to raise up the issue to her and see what 's her reaction? Hope this might help
Normally girls are easy to handle LOL
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sounds a little bad. have a good talk. not those that you both keep threatening to break up, because in long term, it's never gonna work. work things out like adults. and if she doesn't see your point, i suggest, hardening your heart a little and do what you really think is best for the BOTH of you and the possible FUTURE. it takes a lot to be a real man.
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ts,
is either you sit down, talk to her like a man.
tell her her weakness.
and she don't change..
and u still love her.. i can only say you have to accept it.
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chio bu or not?