We are not qualified counsellors here, but at the very least you both should be committed to making this thing work. It takes 2 hands to clap.
'In love, communication is the most important. Go talk to him. Tell him u feel that he is treating you coldly and ask him why is it so. If he says you're too sensitive, then don't think about it anymore. Also let him know by telling him u love him alot. If he loves you too, he will definitely do it by action or words too. That way, without even trying, your relationship will improve.'
I think the above is decent advice. & respect yourself-if he's not willing to try, then you're better off without him.
Originally posted by Midlusionz:I dun see a problem at all, the problem lies with u.
you dont see a problem , cuz i bet you treats your gf the same way .problems does not lie with one person only . it lies on two person .it takes two hands to clap . if you are not here to help me . than i donn need any comment from you . thank you .
Originally posted by MissZ:We are not qualified counsellors here, but at the very least you both should be committed to making this thing work. It takes 2 hands to clap.
'In love, communication is the most important. Go talk to him. Tell him u feel that he is treating you coldly and ask him why is it so. If he says you're too sensitive, then don't think about it anymore. Also let him know by telling him u love him alot. If he loves you too, he will definitely do it by action or words too. That way, without even trying, your relationship will improve.'
I think the above is decent advice. & respect yourself-if he's not willing to try, then you're better off without him.
thank you MissZ .
i've atucally communicate with him over this matter . and we agreed to work all the wrong things out together . hope things can be so much better in times to come .
anyway . thank you so much for your advice (: