Problems of the heart
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No actually i mistook her for one of my old friends. How young is young to you? I don't really no about these relationhip stuff cause i've been concentrating on studies instead, and haven't been in a relationshipbefore.
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how slow is your slow?if one day later reply then nothing to say la.if not then it's the girl that is not understanding.btw,at least be polite to say "sorry for the late reply",if you've replied late,cos no one loves to wait so long for a reply.
as for the adding people part,does she really go and meet them outside and all?and do you know those people?
sorry just woke up,maybe advicing in the wrong directions.
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OK Rackers, after reading more/less noe the problem you facing esp this is your 'first love'. There is nothing wrong in her adding friends esp guys in her facebook cos at the moment you r nt her bf beside there are nothing wrong doing that as well. I understand you wish to be her bf as you likes her alot. Looking at it, it seems both of you r very young (16 to <20yrs old?). She just trying to get guys attention tat all and tat is normal for a girl at such a young age.
My advice: Concentrate your studies! Don msg her as like is a routine. (understand u msg hr every morning). Just reply when she send msg if is late reply just mention u r busy and sorry for the late reply tat all just treat her as any other girls / friends. Don have to really treat her so special.
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Yeah, you're probably right. We're in the middle of a global crisis, and I'm here worrying about these trival things. Its just that... I don't think i can manage to forget her. After a long time, us msging, kindof becomes a habit, and I tried the whole of today not to send her a single msg, and frankly, its very hard. And my spirit lowers when i see my phone.
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ask ur mother for advice? LOL
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lol, my mom will 1) kill me. 2)make me break up with her. 3) Try to control who i meet.
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Well first and foremost, dont u think what she does is none of ur business, when u are with her, if u can , share ur being, are u being kind?, are u loving?, or are u being ,,, u add on .
U have expectations, though u may not be aware, she is going to be what she is, wheter u like it or not , accept it or not;As for having low self-esteem or being jealous, i would surmise a guess lar - comparison, the more u compare the less free u are, if others are comparing, they are going to do the same, if u are comparing urself - u are also going to compare the next person u get to know or already know, it could be anyone esle, its a sorry merry-go-round.
She being angry is not because of u, u are incidental, situational - the real thing is she is anger within, it surfaces, it is not ur predicament, its her trip, let her be, and if its possible - be aware of what u are , not only with her but whoever walks your way in this journey, alas, i m miscontrued - there are no rites n wrongs, all is relative and u are free to subscribe or simply discard it as the ravings of a dotty ignoramus
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oh wells, complicating little craps.
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exactly how old are you?
"And when I find the time to just sit down and talk to her, she would purposely take a long time, and talk to someone else instead."--it sounds like she's taking you for granted.well,tell her how you feel about that?in a subtle way of cos,so you dont sound too possessive.
i think there's nothing wrong in her talking to other guys,she has her own life besides you too.kan kai dian lar [: and yes you shouldnt indulge in her unreasonable anger.at all.
gd luck to you lar.nothing much we can do actually.maybe you should ask some friends that you both are close to or something.
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Meet her in real life first bah
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Just give it up.. and walk away..
Fight so hard for why.. why try don't try
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seems like you need to put in some effort. lol
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