Am i in the wrong ?
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I am 27 male, i knew this lady friend for a close to 2 years. I admit i used to be attracted by the way she carry herself, tough and cool. About 2 months ago we had dinner and i just commented i used to like her and she said she feel the same way 1 year ago.
Anyway she was attached at that time but we both are single now, anyway to cut things short. Yesterday we were chatting at msn at working hours, i told her my indian CEO is coming for a visit so basically my company is a subsidiary based in indians. ( i am a chinese btw)
I think she was in bad mood yesterday, anyway i was chatting with my other chinese colleagues as we saw the indian boss, his managers and other senior staff are indian too. So we were joking how nice if we were to be indian too.
So one of my colleague put in his msn quote: i wish i am an indian. Soon about 4 or 5 other chinese colleague put the same quote, i follow suit. Suddenly that female friend keep bombing my msn with this:
why you want to be indian? You like to dance around trees? Why are you so childish? Can you grow up? Or you want to eat curry to grow up. i was kinda piss off, so i just log off my msn. She immediately sms me, if you are angry do not vent it on me, you better say sorry.
Maybe i was rude in logging msn but she was rude to me before, she also logged off the msn when there is conflict previously and she like to use the word "WHATEVER". The thing is i do not mind saying sorry but i just do not like the way she practically chased me to say sorry
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how old is she again?
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is this for real?
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if i were you, i would just show the middle finger and point it to my dick.
so what if i had feelings for her. So i'm suppose to make her happy all the time and me being in the wrong?
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Originally posted by CannotPleaseEvery1:
I am 27 male, i knew this lady friend for a close to 2 years. I admit i used to be attracted by the way she carry herself, tough and cool. About 2 months ago we had dinner and i just commented i used to like her and she said she feel the same way 1 year ago.
Anyway she was attached at that time but we both are single now, anyway to cut things short. Yesterday we were chatting at msn at working hours, i told her my indian CEO is coming for a visit so basically my company is a subsidiary based in indians. ( i am a chinese btw)
I think she was in bad mood yesterday, anyway i was chatting with my other chinese colleagues as we saw the indian boss, his managers and other senior staff are indian too. So we were joking how nice if we were to be indian too.
So one of my colleague put in his msn quote: i wish i am an indian. Soon about 4 or 5 other chinese colleague put the same quote, i follow suit. Suddenly that female friend keep bombing my msn with this:
why you want to be indian? You like to dance around trees? Why are you so childish? Can you grow up? Or you want to eat curry to grow up. i was kinda piss off, so i just log off my msn. She immediately sms me, if you are angry do not vent it on me, you better say sorry.
Maybe i was rude in logging msn but she was rude to me before, she also logged off the msn when there is conflict previously and she like to use the word "WHATEVER". The thing is i do not mind saying sorry but i just do not like the way she practically chased me to say sorry
It's not your fault .. she sounds very childish.
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lol.. she sounds like flippy..
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she sounds quite immature .
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Originally posted by XxYaNxX:
It's not your fault .. she sounds very childish.
yes she is very childish, especially this: "why you want to be indian? You like to dance around trees? Why are you so childish? Can you grow up? Or you want to eat curry to grow up."her attacks are all based on her narrow stereotyping of bollywood stuffs. maybe she never mix with any real indians before
and this "you are angry do not vent it on me, you better say sorry." By logging off to prevent continuation of conflict = vent the anger on me ????
stupid æ»å…«å©†
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dont waste your time anymore...
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menopause
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Originally posted by CannotPleaseEvery1:
I am 27 male, i knew this lady friend for a close to 2 years. I admit i used to be attracted by the way she carry herself, tough and cool. About 2 months ago we had dinner and i just commented i used to like her and she said she feel the same way 1 year ago.
Anyway she was attached at that time but we both are single now, anyway to cut things short. Yesterday we were chatting at msn at working hours, i told her my indian CEO is coming for a visit so basically my company is a subsidiary based in indians. ( i am a chinese btw)
I think she was in bad mood yesterday, anyway i was chatting with my other chinese colleagues as we saw the indian boss, his managers and other senior staff are indian too. So we were joking how nice if we were to be indian too.
So one of my colleague put in his msn quote: i wish i am an indian. Soon about 4 or 5 other chinese colleague put the same quote, i follow suit. Suddenly that female friend keep bombing my msn with this:
why you want to be indian? You like to dance around trees? Why are you so childish? Can you grow up? Or you want to eat curry to grow up. i was kinda piss off, so i just log off my msn. She immediately sms me, if you are angry do not vent it on me, you better say sorry.
Maybe i was rude in logging msn but she was rude to me before, she also logged off the msn when there is conflict previously and she like to use the word "WHATEVER". The thing is i do not mind saying sorry but i just do not like the way she practically chased me to say sorry
Do u still like her?? Maybe she got some bad experience with Indians??? -
this story sounds so fake. why would the girl over react if TS wanted to be Indian? I think TS is just trying to insult the indians by stereotyping them, like dancing around trees...
and TS has only 1 post so far.
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People have moods, they have good days, they have bad days, if you want to be her b/f you have to put up with all this and be there for her during her good moods and her bad moods. If the two of you quarrel over such small things...cannot get over such small things..... this is a f-up relationship....
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Yo, you deserve a megamac, but too bad its no longer on the menu.
Anyway, i think she's freaking childish, something i'd prolly understand if she's still in secondary school or lower. But to be working adults and behaving in that manner, screw her man. . and leave before she wakes up. -
These are small warning signs. Very small that people often ignore them. Much to their distress later on in the relationship. That means don't develop the relationship further. She will constantly test your tolerance for unreasonable behaviour.
You like her and she like you, once upon a time. Keep it at that, and also remain at acquaintence level.
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I hate people who use whatever on me! >=[
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rape her
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Hi, nope, you not in the wrong, so don't worry ok
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lol your friend damn immature.. just dao her until she talk try and talk to you at least you know her true colours
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tml put, "i wish i am an malay".
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if u wish to reconcile this relationship, say you're sorry.
if you don't think it's worth your time, then don't bother.
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Do you really think you're in the wrong and oughta apologize? Apologizing for sake of keeping peace is not gonna work in the long term. Anyway, my take is she sounds immature.
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Originally posted by cassie:
Do you really think you’re in the wrong and oughta apologize? Apologizing for sake of keeping peace is not gonna work in the long term.
Anyway, my take is she sounds immature.
i think immature isn't the right word.. i think self centered is a better word.
hmm.. saying sorry doesn't have to be because of a moral issue.
i've learnt that, saying sorry simply means you regret smth that happened, it doesn't really mean that it has to be your fault.
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Originally posted by CannotPleaseEvery1:
I am 27 male, i knew this lady friend for a close to 2 years. I admit i used to be attracted by the way she carry herself, tough and cool. About 2 months ago we had dinner and i just commented i used to like her and she said she feel the same way 1 year ago.
Anyway she was attached at that time but we both are single now, anyway to cut things short. Yesterday we were chatting at msn at working hours, i told her my indian CEO is coming for a visit so basically my company is a subsidiary based in indians. ( i am a chinese btw)
I think she was in bad mood yesterday, anyway i was chatting with my other chinese colleagues as we saw the indian boss, his managers and other senior staff are indian too. So we were joking how nice if we were to be indian too.
So one of my colleague put in his msn quote: i wish i am an indian. Soon about 4 or 5 other chinese colleague put the same quote, i follow suit. Suddenly that female friend keep bombing my msn with this:
why you want to be indian? You like to dance around trees? Why are you so childish? Can you grow up? Or you want to eat curry to grow up. i was kinda piss off, so i just log off my msn. She immediately sms me, if you are angry do not vent it on me, you better say sorry.
Maybe i was rude in logging msn but she was rude to me before, she also logged off the msn when there is conflict previously and she like to use the word "WHATEVER". The thing is i do not mind saying sorry but i just do not like the way she practically chased me to say sorry
I want to offer my congratulations; that you are NOT in a relationship with her.
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Lol, it's not your fault!