Your friend is a retard. And you have been attracted to her. Birds of a feather right?
well, from what i read, i feel that she think shes the queen, so she is calling the shots and able to throw tantrums around. good old advise, i think you can find someone else better than her.
its not wrong to follow the trans within your colleague, 'i wish i am a indian'. And who is she to say "why you want to be indian? You like to dance around trees? Why are you so childish? Can you grow up? Or you want to eat curry to grow up. i was kinda piss off, so i just log off my msn. She immediately sms me, if you are angry do not vent it on me, you better say sorry." - if i were you, i will tell her, you aint my mom, fuck you.you did no wrong.
is she a mature woman?i bet shes just only 24 or maybe 25? i dont think you'll like a woman nagging and rubbing salt in the wound right? and is she like so anti towards indian?
This story is real, i also had a shock with her reply thats why i am posting in here to ask whether am i in any wrong by simply just connecting off.
Maybe the msn quote "i wish i am an indian" harbour some negative stereotypes but this is work life, politics, bootlicking are part and parcel of work.
I do not mind apologising to her but i do not like the way she sms me straight away as if i owe her a shit. Anyway to end things she sms me last night asking how is my dinner, i have apologise to her but that apology is really just an appreciation of this friendship.
This means i think i am unworthy to be her friend so i will block her from my msn and ignore her calls.
how old is she ???
"why you want to be indian? You like to dance around trees?
Why are you so childish? Can you grow up? Or you want to eat curry
to grow up."
That was racist...
small issue
Originally posted by ItsJustNC:"why you want to be indian? You like to dance around trees? Why are you so childish? Can you grow up? Or you want to eat curry to grow up."
That was racist...
.... i like curry, and despite being chinese ate it often enough while growing up.
i think you need to let your friend know you're hurt by her actions, if she still don't care then really can fuck off liao.
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:.... i like curry, and despite being chinese ate it often enough while growing up.
i think you need to let your friend know you're hurt by her actions, if she still don't care then really can fuck off liao.
I didnt say tht....? I was quoting from the TS.
There is nothing wrong with the comments of dancing around trees or eat curry statement. I mean these are stereotype but not negative, dancing trees by indians actor is similar to chinese playing martial arts.
What i am piss is she literally chase me for an apology when i merely log off. I do not know how come this topic is put in aunt agony when i remeber that i post it in "chit chat" forum.
There is nothing agony of this but i just want to know whether is my actions considered rude?
Originally posted by thickskin23:There is nothing wrong with the comments of dancing around trees or eat curry statement. I mean these are stereotype but not negative, dancing trees by indians actor is similar to chinese playing martial arts.
What i am piss is she literally chase me for an apology when i merely log off. I do not know how come this topic is put in aunt agony when i remeber that i post it in "chit chat" forum.
There is nothing agony of this but i just want to know whether is my actions considered rude?
Well, racism is built upon stereoypes and generalisation. But it seems that i'm mistaken and i should stick to the status quo.
Well... Your action was just a really natural reaction to high pressure situations i guess. "Leave to avoid further aggravation." OR "I just can't be fucked at the moment."
Your "friend" is just a really needy and high-maintainence women, if what you posted is the entire true situation..
Ego n love cannot co-exist - where it does - it is needs, fear, attachment, fear of loss, ownership, possessiveness masquerading as love.
Real love is a herenow phenomenon (an existential experience - two beings relating, relationship is a thing. Human beings change n evolve all the time - to reduce someone to a thing is the ultimate insult.Can one step into the same river twice? Love and Ego cannot co-exist - where it does - it is needs, fear, attachment, fear of loss, ownership, possessiveness masquerading as love, hence the constant struggle n .... pyschodrama and melodrama. Love in its purity is death of the ego. One who is ready to die will be able to love. If one fears death (of the ego)one surely fears love n one is bound to be on the track of fear, fear of loss, needy!
It presupposes one is abundantly flowing otherwise it is just another ego trip, seeking another to fulfil, hence the need to quickly possess and make it into a thing( relationship. I m not discouraging marriage or relationships - i m saying fix oneself first then go into it,