3 Big Problems
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Why friends have to treat friends like this?
Can't we be good friends and help one another?
Why must we do this to one another?
How would I be able to lift my heads high if he keep talking bad about me?
I already have a limitation of friends already.
And If he keep talking bad about me.
No one would friend me.
I really felt like killing him off. -
Judging from what he had done, his clearly not a friend, so its best to ignore him. Smart ppl will stay away from these kind of people. He is probably the one feeling insecure and needs to do that to well i dunno "satisfy himself“? by spreading tales. Do not stoop down to his level and argue with him, u will only cause more troubles for urself.
Just continue mixing around with ur friends, if u mix long enough with them, they will eventually find out what kind of person u really are and might just speak up for u the next time he badmouths u again.
Remember to be sincere and be urself, dont fake what u arent.
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I am just afraid that people will negative thinkings about me.
I am already very notorious and I am changing.
I dont want to be condemned and lose more friends in the end. -
If he keep talking bad and spreading.
Then people will think I am bad.
Then no one would want to be my friend anymore -
Take things slowly bro, give ur friends time to accept u.
Do you really have so little confidence in ur friends? You are insulting ur so called friends with ur way of thinking, seriously. U want them to trust that u are not as bad as what they think yet u urself dont trust them.
If they are so easily influenced by that insecure guy then they must be pretty childish and i would suggest you to leave that group of "friends", no offence to u or ur friends but this is my opinion.
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Let me sumarize it easier.
Well during chinese period.
I was talking to this girl.
Then I was asking her things and so.
Anyw that was around the end of class.
Then the girl would have to return. So that boy saw me kept talking to her.
Then he said. "My name" Hais You ... and then he gave those kind of looks.
Then a friend of that boy. Which is another girl.
That boy talk to this girl. Purposely when I was around. He mentioned my name softly to that girl and then looked at me. Then he seemed to want to tell the girl about me.
Then I kinda felt a little bad. He wanted to talk bad about me. It's really a painful feeling throughout the day.
Not only that, he will mention my name during class. Maybe when the teacher said.
" Somebody has not done his homework or whatever " Then he will purposely shout out my name.
Am I too sensitive? -
Sorry.
Double post >< -
Are u in Secondary one or two? Cause ur "friend" seems really childish to be doing that kind of things. U have something in u that he is lacking, thats why i think he is always picking on u. What was that girls reaction after he told tales about u?
I very seldom run into these kind of awkward and silly situations back then but as always the best solution is to ignore him. It may be true that if u ignore him he will continue to torture u for awhile more but eventually he might just get bored and stop, how long has this been going on?
Just remember that violence will not solve the problem if he is bent on provoking u.
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We are in secondary three already.
This has been going since months.
Since secondary two.
I did not know what was the girl's reaction.
When he purposely wanted to talk bad about me.
I kind of talk to another person
Then how can I solve this even if he is bent on provoking me?
Should I call my brother to kick his ass?
I just dont want anyone to think bad about me and continue being my friend -
Originally posted by iYief:
We are in secondary three already.
This has been going since months.
Since secondary two.
I did not know what was the girl's reaction.
When he purposely wanted to talk bad about me.
I kind of talk to another person
Then how can I solve this even if he is bent on provoking me?
Should I call my brother to kick his ass?
I just dont want anyone to think bad about me and continue being my friendIf you resort to violence to solve your problems, all the more you will not have any friends
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But I am really pissed off with him
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Originally posted by iYief:
But I am really pissed off with him
Why does he continues to piss u off? Its because you react and by reacting, you let him achieve his aim and motivate him to continue on. Just ignore him, don't give a damn and he would get bored of it.
Violence justs makes more people avoid u cos u are 'dangerous' to be with
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Secondary 3...?
He really is an insensitive guy. Do u have a best friend in class? One that u get along with very very well and know that he/she will not backstab u and has a very good personality, can be either a guy or girl.
Talk to ur best friend about ur problem,letting off steam on the forums here is obviously not enough. Just dont let this problem affect ur studies too much.
Ignoring him now will definitely make him want to provoke u more, but eventually he will get bored of it.
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Well to speak the truth.
I dont even have any good friends
Not even one close friend
All are just hi-bye friends.
I am seriously tired of my life. No friends to spend my weekend with.
No friends to spend my weekdays with. -
There are many others out there who are more unfortunate than u... continue to study hard, there are still many ways to enjoy life, u dont always have to be with ur friends. If not try making some online friends.
U mentioned that u have a bro? Good for u, try speaking to ur bro about ur problems. Back in my secondary school days, i also have alot of hi-bye friends,after so many years now, i've lost contact with most of them, only 2 or 3 really good friends that i still keep in contact with via,msn, sms, hanging out etc.
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Originally posted by iYief:
Well to speak the truth.
I dont even have any good friends
Not even one close friend
All are just hi-bye friends.
I am seriously tired of my life. No friends to spend my weekend with.
No friends to spend my weekdays with.You need to take initiative to make friends, time to spend with them to maintain the friendship etc. Friends don't come just because you want them to and stay just because they once were. Both 'parties' needs to put time and effort to keep any and every sort of relationship alive.
If you tell me your mum don't allow you go out then why are you complaining about no friends to spent your weekend with if you can't?
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To put it straight,
Only sometimes I would be able to go out with my friends.
But still, I dont have any friends or close friends to go out with.
I am always at home like now.
Gaming and sleeping.
Well it's always teh same.
Although I dont expect any miracle to appear.
But I still hope for something new that will change my life.
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Originally posted by iYief:
To put it straight,
Only sometimes I would be able to go out with my friends.
But still, I dont have any friends or close friends to go out with.
I am always at home like now.
Gaming and sleeping.
Well it's always teh same.
Although I dont expect any miracle to appear.
But I still hope for something new that will change my life.
Maybe not.Change comes from yourself and not others. If you don't try to change and keep to the same lifestyle then there is little anyone can help.
U need to change and start to find more friends, find people to spent time with etc. Complaining here won't help and if this is all you are going to keep complaining, this shall be my last post to you since you are behaving like that clone i given up on.
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What should I chat when I am talking to girls?
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Originally posted by iYief:
What should I chat when I am talking to girls?
I feel like talking to clone liao...
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google: wikihow, go there and search for solutions for ur problems. There are lots of great and insightful articles there.
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Originally posted by iYief:
What should I chat when I am talking to girls?
ask them come yur house chat -
Originally posted by iYief:
What should I chat when I am talking to girls?
just be yourself
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I am feeling superb upset right now at this point of time.
Tmr will be my chinese exam. Especially the hard part will be the composition.
I really hope to do well. But I dont think I could. I did not even bother to study for the exam.
Not even once did I ever took out my book to revise.
Now I only have 1hour of revision time left. I really felt guilty. I really hope I can have more time.
I dont think I can even pass this exam. And It's a major exam. Mid year exam.
I failed my Term 1 badly.
Failing 2 out of 6. I really dont want my parents to be upset when they know I am going to fail again.
I am really in a dilema. But there's nothing I can do. I really regret why didnt I work hard during secondary one and two.
I am really crying now. Really crying. Tears flowing out.
I know I am going to get a bad result slip this coming MYE.
I really really dont know what I should do. My life is wasted. Pure over.
During primary school, I used to be within top 3.
Now, I am 37/43 position.
I am really sick and tired of this life.