How.....please....tell me....
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i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her..... -
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/sayang benjamin....
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time will heal all pain
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Stop feeding yrslf crap by saying u cant live w/o her or any woman or in any1 in fact.Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her.....
So u tried yr best in getting her back but she refuses. Duh.... move on dude, she's over u.
Go find a hobby, go for a holiday, get rid of anything in yr possession tt reminds u of her, crap in forums, find a new gal, find a boyfriend, spend more time with yr family, go out with your friends, study harder, find a job, work harder, buy yrslf a toy.... get the idea?
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thanks for the remark.....i got attachment right now....so guess be quite busy from 8 to 6 but after that, every time i go home, the journey along the road. i would jus think. it happen jus like that, i be getting ps2 to kill my boredom but would that help.... i really need her but like wat u say, she is really over me.... but i can't face it.... all my time , my trust my strenght, everything i could do for her jus... gone in vain.... i jus can't accept the truth..... i really dunno wat to do....... i .... jus........... i will try....thanks.
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Bruddha.... i have been in yr shoes and i belive most people have too. Trust me when i say u will get over it and time heals all wounds. One fine day u will find some1 else who will outshine her. There are more important things happening or will be happengin in your life tt requires your attention. Dont wallow in your current situation for too long k, it will do u no good.Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:thanks for the remark.....i got attachment right now....so guess be quite busy from 8 to 6 but after that, every time i go home, the journey along the road. i would jus think. it happen jus like that, i be getting ps2 to kill my boredom but would that help.... i really need her but like wat u say, she is really over me.... but i can't face it.... all my time , my trust my strenght, everything i could do for her jus... gone in vain.... i jus can't accept the truth..... i really dunno wat to do....... i .... jus........... i will try....thanks.
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Accept it man. You can do it. Memories are for people to treasure.Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:thanks for the remark.....i got attachment right now....so guess be quite busy from 8 to 6 but after that, every time i go home, the journey along the road. i would jus think. it happen jus like that, i be getting ps2 to kill my boredom but would that help.... i really need her but like wat u say, she is really over me.... but i can't face it.... all my time , my trust my strenght, everything i could do for her jus... gone in vain.... i jus can't accept the truth..... i really dunno wat to do....... i .... jus........... i will try....thanks.
So buck up and carry on with your life.
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really thanks you for the advice.... i trying and i hope i will get over her asap.... memories.....ya..... i will try...since i try so hard in chasing her why not try to forget her using the same effort..
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get a life lor....build up ur body in a gym then get more chicks!
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move on. dun keep hanging on to her like some pathetic loser losing sleep over her cuz she sure as hell ain't losing any over u...
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a relationship is like being in a place, the two of u have to be in it, if u think she has left the place.. y do u still persist on staying on. u can be sincere and all that but sometimes, when gals say break means break... nothing u do will help..Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her..... -
hi,Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her.....
i understd wat u feel now, i mean pple who go thru breakup especially if u r not the party who 1s the break u will feel such things 1 lor...like wat im going thru now...guess the usual stuff, be strong blah blah blah but ulitmately u hv to let go of stuff urself...sad n cold but its the truth -
u mean gym = get more chicksOriginally posted by J-reeee:get a life lor....build up ur body in a gym then get more chicks! -
well ben...Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her.....
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Exactly.Originally posted by da_xing_xing:well ben...
welcome to the club.... -
What happened and causes the break? How long have you people been together?Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her.....
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No man, without closure, time will just cause the hurt to fester into something worse...Originally posted by dark_slayer79:time will heal all pain
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I've been in your shoes before, the feeling is devastating at first:Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her..... Cant eat...cant sleep Whenever you have the free time you would think of her Always coming up with new ideas to win her back (thu you know its gonna be hopeless) You're becoming a zombie....sumthin like this 
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What you can do to get heal your pain faster: go out more often with your frens
Pick up new hobbies like: 
Before you know it, you would have forgotten her, and who knows, you might just meet another girl whose better then her...
P.s. This is just a normal phase in your life, most of the people experience this before, its just temporary (Its a fact!!)
Cheers!
Jo.
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time will heal all pain and wound but the scar will always be there....Originally posted by dark_slayer79:time will heal all pain -
the scar remind u of the past, of the wrongs, of the memories...life still moves on, the scars stays...it shows that u r still alive. so alive, cause u remember the past, which is shown by the scars.Originally posted by caramelgal:time will heal all pain and wound but the scar will always be there.... -
believe that you will see this to past. every man in this world goes thru that comon !! if they can survive why not you ?
i wanted to die when my ex ditched me. but now im still in one piece ! way to go man !! life's exciting if you dare choose ! -
this is part and parcel of life, most people will experience this at least once in their life in this world..
Try to get on with your life, you have other better things to do than to think about her..
You can try doing other things like sports, your hobbies to pass time..
There are still other girls and maybe better girls out there for you ..
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i hope i can really stop thinking of her........... thou she still in my mind, i will still try... its hurt, the pain is still there..... but i will try to overcome it....
hope tomolo is a better day.