How.....please....tell me....
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Yah right, Tomolo will be a betterOriginally posted by BENJAMIN8:i hope i can really stop thinking of her........... thou she still in my mind, i will still try... its hurt, the pain is still there..... but i will try to overcome it....
hope tomolo is a better day.Brian McKnight-Back at one
Its undeniable...that we should be together...
Its unbelievable how I used to say that I found in her...
The places you need to know, if you don't know just how I feel,
Then let me show you now that I'm for real...
If all things in time, time will reveal...
Yeah...
One...your like a dream come true...
Two... jus wanna be with you...
Three... girl its plain to see...that your the only one for me...
Four...repeat steps one to three...
Five... make you fall in love with me...
If ever I believe our work is done....then I start Back at One
So Incrediable...the way things work themselves out...
And all emotional, once you know that its all about babe...
And undesirable...for us to be apart...
Never would of made it very far...
Cause you know that you got the keys to my heart
Cause...
One...your like a dream come true
Two... jus wanna be with you
Three... girl its plain to see..that your the only one for me
Four...repeat steps one to three
Five... make you fall in love with me
If ever I believe our work is done....then I start Back at One......
Say farewell to the dark night...I see the coming of the sun...
I feel like a little child..whose life has jus begun...
You came and reached into the light,
Into this lonely heart of mine...
You threw out the life line...just in the Nick of Tiimmmeeee.....
One...your like a dream come true
Two... jus wanna be with you
Three... girl its plain to see..that your the only one for me..girl and...
Four...repeat steps one to three
Five... make you fall in love with me
If ever I believe our work is done....then I start Back at One. -
too bad brudder, this are just parts and parcels in life.Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her.....
do get up and brace urself up too.
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Originally posted by Parka:
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sounds like taiwan soap opera.... too bad...get on with life and find a new one lor
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it is hard to get over this because everyone that got dumped b4 will noe it......
the easiest way is to find a new target
as the saying goes 'tian ya he chu wu fang chao'.....
unless u think she is your dream girl lar......then bo bian lor...... -
i still can't do it............................
i'm so useless...............................
i have tried..................................
hai~ is getting a new girl a better choice? will it make thing better or even worse.................................. -
I read the seven highly effective habits of teens
shows that you are "boy/girlfriend centered" you build your whole life arnd this person and once they are gone. Your world collapse moral. Don't just stick to your gf all the time -
getting a new gal in your life now will be very unfair to the new gal.... you will just be using her instead of loving her....Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i still can't do it............................
i'm so useless...............................
i have tried..................................
hai~ is getting a new girl a better choice? will it make thing better or even worse.................................. -
Yours is not as bad as mine.... my gf got married to anyother guy sniff sniffOriginally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her.....
what to do.... just move on but argh, at first i thought time will heel everything but she keep stabbing on my old injury -
hey yo...
well abt 8 mths ago i too broke up wif my gerger... she was sweet... realli sweet.... but den.... i guess i din treasure.. or at least dat's what my frenz told me..... it took me a long long time.... to actually get her put of my head.... of cos i still keep SWEET SWEET memories of her whereever i go cos i still love her.... but it's time to move on.... cheer up and live will treat u well...
Pufferfish -
well just curious. if u love her so much? how did the relationship screw up?
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why...... miscommunication?
change? have i not change enough?
trying all the ways to please her.....yet she don't love me as much as i do...........
why? still remember her ex? love her ex more than me?
ARE U TELLING ME TO ACCEPT THAT?!
i dunno.......
i wan to go back but......its over.....really over.......
why WHY!! why the f**king hell i still loving her?!!!!
i really dunno.....i jus do.........
how useless i am........ -
you are not useless... just your emotions have gotten the better of you.
breaking up hurts...
take some time to ponder and find a way to get over it since you said it's over...Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:why...... miscommunication?
change? have i not change enough?
trying all the ways to please her.....yet she don't love me as much as i do...........
why? still remember her ex? love her ex more than me?
ARE U TELLING ME TO ACCEPT THAT?!
i dunno.......
i wan to go back but......its over.....really over.......
why WHY!! why the f**king hell i still loving her?!!!!
i really dunno.....i jus do.........
how useless i am........ -
hey ben, i've been through this too but i let other things occupy my mind- like my studies, my hobbies.. i broke off with my bf during my attachment, and i failed my attachment + have to repeat my whole semester. i did cry too and was angry at myself for being a fool but all along i was upset that i culdn't keep the person whom i love by my side. There comes to be a day where you will "wake up" and see things as better experience learned. i used to tell myself this, - "I'm gonna love this guy and won't leave him" to guys i dated and thinks who loves me too but the results always turn out disappointing.This actually taught me to be ' smarter' in a way that another guy who comes along may not end up happily ever after with me. Yeah, i mean go ahead and scout ard, oogle at pretty gals if you want, but never ever take another gal whom you set an eye on as a substitute for your ex. Let yourself take a break. COol it ya...Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:why...... miscommunication?
change? have i not change enough?
trying all the ways to please her.....yet she don't love me as much as i do...........
why? still remember her ex? love her ex more than me?
ARE U TELLING ME TO ACCEPT THAT?!
i dunno.......
i wan to go back but......its over.....really over.......
why WHY!! why the f**king hell i still loving her?!!!!
i really dunno.....i jus do.........
how useless i am........
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well. man is imperfect, and when 2 imperfect ppl come together sure will hv imperfect situationsOriginally posted by BENJAMIN8:why...... miscommunication?
change? have i not change enough?
trying all the ways to please her.....yet she don't love me as much as i do...........
why? still remember her ex? love her ex more than me?
ARE U TELLING ME TO ACCEPT THAT?!
i dunno.......
i wan to go back but......its over.....really over.......
why WHY!! why the f**king hell i still loving her?!!!!
i really dunno.....i jus do.........
how useless i am........ -
ay, alamak.. mens' the 1 whose is imperfect. Imperfect and perfect cannot click.. *hiakz hiakz*Originally posted by dumbdumb!:well. man is imperfect, and when 2 imperfect ppl come together sure will hv imperfect situations -
How long have U 2 broke up? Izzit still as hurting todae as during dat moment when U 2 broke up? Do U noe dat yr "hurt" is reducing wif every NEW message U see here? If still not enuf, go find some frens to tok abt it, go jogging, go to a secluded beach n SCREAM all U wan!Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:why...... miscommunication?
change? have i not change enough?
trying all the ways to please her.....yet she don't love me as much as i do...........
why? still remember her ex? love her ex more than me?
ARE U TELLING ME TO ACCEPT THAT?!
i dunno.......
i wan to go back but......its over.....really over.......
why WHY!! why the f**king hell i still loving her?!!!!
i really dunno.....i jus do.........
how useless i am........
U shld noe U giving 100% of yr love doesn't mean she giving U back 100% of her love too... U DON'T change for her. U change for YOURSELF. Put it dis wae: U 2 broke up means da end of 1 chapter in yr life. Its time to move on to a NEW chapter. Maybe destiny made it in a wae she was not for U, but someone else... -
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hey i also broke up during first day of my attachment...... wat is call suai.....
anyway i now been trying hard, and i now beginning to lost the hurt and love a little by a little each day.....
thou myself dun wan to do it but what choice do i have.... tell me...
oh ya abt that second stead thing, i thought over it and really...
it will be so unfair....
cause i know how hurting a replacement will be.....jus like wat i been going through now....a replacement....
thank god for anyone....my family to advice me... my friend to help me go through all this.... and now with all of you ppl here to share your experience with me....i should felt glad and should be able to think, i have to leave her...
thanks ppl -
time will heel
u can choose to b happy or sad -
Don't wallow in self-pity for too long. That's going to do nothing for you.
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Qns: Do you really love her or Are you being possesive? You said that with you pestering her or rather trying to get back with her, it will jeopardise her freedom.Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:i jus broke up with my gf and the feeling is..... jus watever kind of feeling which u describe sad is will be how my feeling is now.
she won't come back by my side and i know its by doing all sort of ways which i have already try could not bring her back.
she have her own life and my pestering her, doing all sort of ways will only cause her to have no freedom.
thou i still not giving up, as i really can't live without her.. could any one of you help me....by telling me ways to forget her... by finding things but wat....
i really miss her..... and i really love her.....
Well, that is a sign of a little possesiveness. And I suspect that she didn't like it one bit.
Now, I think you're a little messed up now, because you don't know what to do. You want to forget her and at the same time, (because you said you really love this girl), you want to get back with her. You can only choose one. Think abt what you want to do and make sure it is better for you as well as for her.
If she is getting irritated by you, I suggest you stop. It will only make her hate you more. But if you really love this girl, you have to let go. That's the way things should be. You can't be like a little swallow having dreams of a swan.The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn but to unlearn.
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ya, iu guess the only way out is to let her go..... it may be hard but what choice do i have..... i have happiness during with her, and now ........why can't i endure some pain to forget and go through this breakup feeling?
thank ppl as i getting much better each day, time truely will heal....
maybe fast maybe slow...
could i say i been blinded by love? that i only and always think of her good point and not her bad ones?
well, i have been trying to think of the bad ones and came to realise alot difference, i trying to use this hate to cover up the love, no matter every time i saw a place, a song, a hug..... i would try to tell and use hate to cover my pain and loneliness......
love.....sometime i really wonder......
thanks ppl you all have helped me alot these days, thanks.... -
Don't give up on love
Almost everyone's been burnt by it but to me, it's one of the things that makes us human... that separates us from animals.
Take care, yah? Mope over it, grieve if you have to...
I can see that for one such as you who has such intense emotions, you'll find another, perhaps the one destined for you and both of you will find true love and happiness Originally posted by BENJAMIN8:ya, iu guess the only way out is to let her go..... it may be hard but what choice do i have..... i have happiness during with her, and now ........why can't i endure some pain to forget and go through this breakup feeling?
thank ppl as i getting much better each day, time truely will heal....
maybe fast maybe slow...
could i say i been blinded by love? that i only and always think of her good point and not her bad ones?
well, i have been trying to think of the bad ones and came to realise alot difference, i trying to use this hate to cover up the love, no matter every time i saw a place, a song, a hug..... i would try to tell and use hate to cover my pain and loneliness......
love.....sometime i really wonder......
thanks ppl you all have helped me alot these days, thanks.... -
Burnt by love...? Dats a good 1...Originally posted by the Bear:Don't give up on love
Almost everyone's been burnt by it but to me, it's one of the things that makes us human... that separates us from animals.
Take care, yah? Mope over it, grieve if you have to...
I can see that for one such as you who has such intense emotions, you'll find another, perhaps the one destined for you and both of you will find true love and happiness