hopeless
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pm me, i help u whack sense into him. =X
my rates are $50 per person. =D
affordable arh rite?
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Originally posted by Freedomwithaprice:
pm me, i help u whack sense into him. =X
my rates are $50 per person. =D
affordable arh rite?
PM me the details of the whacking. I will get my friends in blue to get the people involved.
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Fantagf: My tot is inline wif yours - "more or less confirm that he is seeing someone" plus22: "try broaching the subject maybe?like "i think there's something wrong with us recently.do you want to talk about it?" then if he still behaves like what you said..i dont know.tell him that you'd rather you both cool off for a while? - tried this before and it backfired (i was made to be seen as insane, untrusting........ basically made me feel guilty as he claims there's no problem with us at all....but rationally i dont thik that's logical); after cool off period it reoccurs soon (unresolve matter still dragging.....)He just simple dun want to talk and juz continue ignoring or claiming no problem!!!
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Originally posted by Serene.serene99:
Fantagf: My tot is inline wif yours -
“more or less confirm that he is seeing someone”plus22:
“try broaching the subject maybe?like “i think there’s something wrong with us recently.do you want to talk about it?” then if he still behaves like what you said..i dont know.tell him that you’d rather you both cool off for a while?- tried this before and it backfired (i was made to be seen as insane, untrusting…..... basically made me feel guilty as he claims there’s no problem with us at all….but rationally i dont thik that’s logical); after cool off period it reoccurs soon (unresolve matter still dragging…..)He just simple dun want to talk and juz continue ignoring or claiming no problem!!!
maybe u can "secretly" folo him to find out if he has anyone besides u
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singlehood is the best, hook on to studys first.
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He is always highly alert. He also tried to ensure his outing timing not feasible for me to follow. He also dun like to involve me in his activities. He already said i must trust him else nothing to say.Originally posted by Aang:
maybe u can "secretly" folo him to find out if he has anyone besides u
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He is always highly alert. He also tried to ensure his outing timing not feasible for me to follow. He also dun like to involve me in his activities. He already said i must trust him else nothing to say.Originally posted by Aang:
maybe u can "secretly" folo him to find out if he has anyone besides u
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He is always highly alert. He also tried to ensure his outing timing not feasible for me to follow. He also dun like to involve me in his activities. He already said i must trust him else nothing to say.Originally posted by Aang:
maybe u can "secretly" folo him to find out if he has anyone besides u
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dont do duplicated post my dear, but yeah. if so. just dont bother about him.
those guys are just useless brats. -
Originally posted by brainerror:
dont do duplicated post my dear, but yeah. if so. just dont bother about him.
those guys are just useless brats.brainy,
u r my idol>.<!
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oop! no intention for duplication - incidentally pressed reply icon la..Originally posted by brainerror:
dont do duplicated post my dear, but yeah. if so. just dont bother about him.
those guys are just useless brats.
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Originally posted by Serene.serene99:
oop! no intention for duplication - incidentally pressed reply icon la..
lols dunnid reply me thrice.. -
Originally posted by Serene.serene99:
He is always highly alert. He also tried to ensure his outing timing not feasible for me to follow. He also dun like to involve me in his activities. He already said i must trust him else nothing to say.
ic.. does he always secretly check his phone??? -
yah.
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there's simply no trust at all..
GAME OVER le..
time to come to an end.
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Originally posted by Serene.serene99:
He is always highly alert. He also tried to ensure his outing timing not feasible for me to follow. He also dun like to involve me in his activities. He already said i must trust him else nothing to say.
perhaps u try checking his phone but i think he will keep it wif him... u can test him by asking for his phone to see whether he is nervous abt it a not -
yah he is highly suspicious. game really over:( dun i have the rite to hear it from him honestly (be it he loves someone else). very sad tat he cant even be open at this moment. It's been years.........
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how old are you and how long has you been with him?
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Originally posted by Serene.serene99:
yah he is highly suspicious. game really over
dun i have the rite to hear it from him honestly (be it he loves someone else). very sad tat he cant even be open at this moment. It’s been years…......
ask him to sit down and hav a good chat... even if all is over, still can be friends -
Breakup with him, this kind of guy is not sincere. If he is too persistent, ask your relative or male friends to help chase him away until you find a new bf that truly loves you.
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Originally posted by Angelababy:
brainy,
u r my idol>.<!
no lar
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He's prbly having an emotional affair (emotionally attached) to some1 else. likely his colleague some1 whom he meet everyday.
Best to leave him and end it.
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Serene,
Why do you need permission to leave him ?
Obviously the relationship is not working out for the both of you. It doesn't matter if he is having an affair or not.
Are you trying to convince yourself that he wouldn't treat you this way , if he is not having an affair ?
Trust me, not all guys will treat their gf bad when they are eating side dishes else where. At least the smart ones don't.
You must be thinking.. well if he doesn't love me, he'd have broken up with me , yes ?
Unfortunately, he's the one who is treating you bad and you're the one taking his craps. So, why should he leave you ?
Try treating him like dirt.. he'll be the first one to run out the door. Don't believe me ? Try it.
Why ofcors it's all your fault. If you leave him.. it's your fault.. if he leaves you.. it's also your fault. So who cares who initiated it. Its YOUR fault anyway.
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Anger surfaces in him. Why?
Internalization. He is concerned only about himself. He is thinking inwardly. This causes mental discomfort, and the slightest disorder (according to him) causes an outburst.
The key is he is only concerned about himself. Selfishness has got into him. He wants something, and he is not getting it or its not readily available. Something or someone is in the way.
Who, what?
You, that girl, his boss, loan shark, his ex, his father, his bf, who knows.
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Serene, he is just not worth it. Throw him into the rubbish bin. I believe you will meet someone much better than him one day.