Is it considered petty and unreasonable if the gf is upset that the bf went to ask for the contact of another girl that he met when he was out clubbing?
no. it's reasonable enough if she was upset. why the fuck he ask another girls contact for?? clubbing the more she should be upset. that's the place you socialize and get girls to fuck isn't it? what positive things can come out of it after getting another girls contact no.? i feel that he was interested in the girl that he met in the club that's explain why he got her contact isn't it? it's ok to be upset. if it was my bf i would kill him! hah!
If the gf did not tell the bf how she felt,but pretended nothing happened,is it good for the relationship?
no it's not good for the relationship. COMMUNICATION BABE! that's very impt. she need to voice out. he might be cheating on her. she can confront in a calm manner. it be better if she can get more evidence and confront, see what he got to explain. never believe totally what he will be telling her. he might be good with his words. just be careful. i don't trust guy who frequents clubbing anwy. if he's truthful and do care abt my feelings he will stop his nonsense and try to gain my trust instead.