Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:He he he he..... then why must you talk to girls and not guys?
He he he he.....
u got read my 1st post or not -.-
i have no problems clicking with guys.
anyways through self-experimenting, i kind of figured out that i actually have not much problems talking with girls.
end up its only with the girl that i like, urgh, always feel so kan chiong whenever im talking to her heh.
Originally posted by kuehtutu:anyways through self-experimenting, i kind of figured out that i actually have not much problems talking with girls.
end up its only with the girl that i like, urgh, always feel so kan chiong whenever im talking to her heh.
it's because u're nervous mah :DD
Originally posted by Ms.shells:it's because u're nervous mah :DD
ya... whenever i finally struck up a conversation with her i wish to end it as soon as possible lol.. very paiseh, but actually inside my heart i still want to talk with her, anyone got any tactics to solve this kind of problem?
Aiyahh don't end the conversation asap laa. Just try to enjoy the talk and take it as an opportunity to get to know her :)
Originally posted by kuehtutu:
end up its only with the girl that i like, urgh, always feel so kan chiong whenever im talking to her heh.
Bu da zhi zhao ler.
(Self-confessed even without being hit )
Got read your 1st post, but what you really want is not to talk to any girl, BUT her, right?
Fu...fu....fu...fu.....
Originally posted by kuehtutu:anyways through self-experimenting, i kind of figured out that i actually have not much problems talking with girls.
end up its only with the girl that i like, urgh, always feel so kan chiong whenever im talking to her heh.
try n relax![]()
Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:Bu da zhi zhao ler.
(Self-confessed even without being hit )
Got read your 1st post, but what you really want is not to talk to any girl, BUT her, right?
Fu...fu....fu...fu.....
lol.. at first i thought my problem was with all the the girls, however after talking to a few, i realised that it wasnt really that hard, girls are like just ... different, they seem to enjoy it very much when u take the initiative to talk to them. and its very easy to continue the conversations from there because they seem to continue non stop lol.
Originally posted by kuehtutu:lol.. at first i thought my problem was with all the the girls, however after talking to a few, i realised that it wasnt really that hard, girls are like just ... different, they seem to enjoy it very much when u take the initiative to talk to them. and its very easy to continue the conversations from there because they seem to continue non stop lol.
Yes, a man just need to keep his mouth shut, look at them, listen to them talk.
Before you know it, 3 hours will have past.
lol... and i also cant understand why some girls appear to be cold on the outside even if u have talked with them before,but when u talk to them again its a total different thing, they will be all smiles and talk with enthusiasm, sigh.
Originally posted by kuehtutu:lol... and i also cant understand why some girls appear to be cold on the outside even if u have talked with them before,but when u talk to them again its a total different thing, they will be all smiles and talk with enthusiasm, sigh.
They are known in Jap as Tsundere.
Cold to all the guys except those whom they are interested in.
Take it as a hint that they are interested in you, he...he....he....he....
Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:They are known in Jap as Tsundere.
Cold to all the guys except those whom they are interested in.
Take it as a hint that they are interested in you, he...he....he....he....
i think u got me wrong. what i meant was ok lets say i talked to this gal before. but when i see her again the next time she will be like she doesnt know me, no saying hi or anything, but if i approach her and say hi then she will suddenly smile and chat like we are close friends.
Originally posted by kuehtutu:i think u got me wrong. what i meant was ok lets say i talked to this gal before. but when i see her again the next time she will be like she doesnt know me, no saying hi or anything, but if i approach her and say hi then she will suddenly smile and chat like we are close friends.
Hmmm......girls are very hard to understand indeed.
Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:They are known in Jap as Tsundere.
Cold to all the guys except those whom they are interested in.
Take it as a hint that they are interested in you, he...he....he....he....
someone told me that before.that i look cold and unapproachable,but actually im not like that.didn't know whether that's an insult or compliment.
but anw,TS,some girls are like that one.act cool mah.may mean either way:that she is secretly interested in you but want you to initiate conversation first.or that she doesn't really care about talking to you.which one do you think is more probable?i mean..can u sense it?
Originally posted by plus22:someone told me that before.that i look cold and unapproachable,but actually im not like that.didn't know whether that's an insult or compliment.
but anw,TS,some girls are like that one.act cool mah.may mean either way:that she is secretly interested in you but want you to initiate conversation first.or that she doesn't really care about talking to you.which one do you think is more probable?i mean..can u sense it?
mm what i feel personally is that she wants me to always take the initiative to talk to her. but in my perspective its really tiring, i mean she could at least say hi when we see each other right, that isnt much to expect at least from a friend, its not like we do not know each other, cause we spoke before.
ok so i assume that shes not really interested in talking to me then she shouldnt really suddenly change her attitude when i talk to her.
Originally posted by plus22:someone told me that before.that i look cold and unapproachable,but actually im not like that.didn't know whether that's an insult or compliment.
but anw,TS,some girls are like that one.act cool mah.may mean either way:that she is secretly interested in you but want you to initiate conversation first.or that she doesn't really care about talking to you.which one do you think is more probable?i mean..can u sense it?
That was what I told him, but he say NO.
Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:That was what I told him, but he say NO.
i dont understand what shes thinking.
haha.you go ask her?
"why you never say hi to me one ar?" then see what she says.in a joking tone though.
how old are you anyway?
lol really meh? i think it will only make her more awkward -.-"
22 this year.
Originally posted by kuehtutu:lol really meh? i think it will only make her more awkward -.-"
22 this year.
Be a man, kan-kan lai
Who knows, later she say, " I have like you for XX years. "
Originally posted by kuehtutu:lol really meh? i think it will only make her more awkward -.-"
22 this year.
hmm really?i don't think so.unless she doesn't like you.if she's interested,she'll probably be thrilled that you want her to say hi,and then she'll start doing it gradually.probably she's just acting cool la.is it really very tiring to initiate conversations all the time? :S
you don't sound 22.gawd.i wish i was older.
Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:Be a man, kan-kan lai
Who knows, later she say, " I have like you for XX years. "
i just known her, not childhood or sec sch frd haha.
Originally posted by plus22:
hmm really?i don't think so.unless she doesn't like you.if she's interested,she'll probably be thrilled that you want her to say hi,and then she'll start doing it gradually.probably she's just acting cool la.is it really very tiring to initiate conversations all the time? :Syou don't sound 22.gawd.i wish i was older.
mm to me yes i find it abit turn off. i mean lets say u talked to someone before, although u only chatted briefly but to you dont u already regard them as a friend? to me i feel that its only normal to say hi the next time when u see each other, instead of ignoring them until they come up to u.
what u mean im v childish isit, diaoz.
Originally posted by kuehtutu:i just known her, not childhood or sec sch frd haha.
Okay, I have liked you for xx days then.