Originally posted by ChoCoChips:u all watch too many movies or drama liao la
all these talk about lub is =.=
If you want to focus a point on a certain something come up with proof if not its best not to say at all my friend.. Some people might find you being insensitive.
Being nostalgic is one thing.. Everyone grows up along with their own experience and lessons learnt. Everyone tend to look back into the past... Ever had the feeling when you look back into your past and realize how stupid you have been with certain mistakes you made and you tend to learn from it.
"love touches once and last a lifetime"
All its takes is for one to love once and you will remember this person forever. Thats the actual meaning. Your heart will always hold a place for that special someone who came by and touched your heart with his or her love.
Sex is just a bonus. A kind of intercourse meant to make babies. It is upsetting that there are not many chaste girls out there. But isn't it us man who took them into our arms and destroy them?
Love... is to accept someone's pros and embrace all their cons with your heart.
Just like how your parents love you by accepting who you are.
Without strings attached and with a lot of sacrifices.
To learn how to love is part of being human. Maybe only then when we start knowing how to love, only then we mature.
Love is infinite. No gender no form. Love is one of a kind yet spread among many. Love has no qualms but little effects over our thoughts and actions. Love is wonderful when its good yet a murderer when its broken.
To love.... is a miracle.
Originally posted by Alezec:so does that explain that a girl will giv her 1st time when she's serious bout that person ma?
Waah...there r so many reasons a girl (or even a guy 4 that matter) will give away her 1st time.
4biddensinner said, 'maybe that guy is more forceful or he is a smooth-talker.' Agree.
Mastermoggle,'some girls just want to try things out.' True.
Could be peer pressure - she sees her frens are all having sex & she's the 'odd' one out.
Or maybe she just finds the current guy HOT! & can't help herself! Girls are human 2, u know..
The chemistry between them is smokin'.
Sex is a biological instinct but the beauty of being human is you always have the choice of saying 'yes' or 'no' to it.
Originally posted by MissZ:Waah...there r so many reasons a girl (or even a guy 4 that matter) will give away her 1st time.
4biddensinner said, 'maybe that guy is more forceful or he is a smooth-talker.' Agree.
Mastermoggle,'some girls just want to try things out.' True.
Could be peer pressure - she sees her frens are all having sex & she's the 'odd' one out.
Or maybe she just finds the current guy HOT! & can't help herself! Girls are human 2, u know..
The chemistry between them is smokin'.
Sex is a biological instinct but the beauty of being human is you always have the choice of saying 'yes' or 'no' to it.
Sensible indeed =)
Originally posted by Kyutake:If you want to focus a point on a certain something come up with proof if not its best not to say at all my friend.. Some people might find you being insensitive.
okok then u ç»§ç» talk about lub ba
Originally posted by Alezec:so does that explain that a girl will giv her 1st time when she's serious bout that person ma?
actually, there is no definite answer to your question. It all depends on the gals. Some conservative ones will wanna wait till after marriage, some give in to bf because of bf pressurizing them, some just wanna enjoy sxx so just do it.
ai yo, if u wanna sex with gf, next time look for someone not conservative lor
Originally posted by Kyutake:Being nostalgic is one thing.. Everyone grows up along with their own experience and lessons learnt. Everyone tend to look back into the past... Ever had the feeling when you look back into your past and realize how stupid you have been with certain mistakes you made and you tend to learn from it.
"love touches once and last a lifetime"
All its takes is for one to love once and you will remember this person forever. Thats the actual meaning. Your heart will always hold a place for that special someone who came by and touched your heart with his or her love.
Sex is just a bonus. A kind of intercourse meant to make babies. It is upsetting that there are not many chaste girls out there. But isn't it us man who took them into our arms and destroy them?
Love... is to accept someone's pros and embrace all their cons with your heart.
Just like how your parents love you by accepting who you are.
Without strings attached and with a lot of sacrifices.
To learn how to love is part of being human. Maybe only then when we start knowing how to love, only then we mature.
Love is infinite. No gender no form. Love is one of a kind yet spread among many. Love has no qualms but little effects over our thoughts and actions. Love is wonderful when its good yet a murderer when its broken.
To love.... is a miracle.
All its takes is for one to love once and you will remember this person forever. Thats the actual meaning. Your heart will always hold a place for that special someone who came by and touched your heart with his or her love.
Precisely. I absolutely agree! Will keep this person in the heart, in a special place in the heart.
Fangtagf, there should be more people like us out there.....gather them together as a community....
Originally posted by Jianye:
Fangtagf, there should be more people like us out there.....gather them together as a community....
Gather them together as a community for??
haiz . . . . . . . . !!
Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
okok then u ç»§ç» talk about lub ba
No offence uh choco i just don't want people to start flaming the thread =)) Thank you for your understanding.
I guess when a girl gives up her chasity to a certain someone it could pretty much mean that she believes firmly and blindly that this guy loves her or she could be just exploring her own sexuality. Sex is somewhat mixed up with love most of the time. Untill the day where we can agree in unison on why someone would have sex with another we can only explain a few reasons in differences.
humans are made to be one of a kind. And that leads to us having our own perception and own way of life. If i were to ask someone to explain the meaning of being happy i believe our answers will be similar to asking the question to whay is to love.
we live in a world where humans were given a gift. Called will or soul AKA FREEDOM. Yet its such Freedom that lead to what makes the other known as contradictory. We tend most of the time to say something that our hearts tell us to.. but yet we do it another way. Correct me if im wrong but thats how most of us are in life. Because when there is freedom there will be rules.
So who are we to judge people with our own perception. Till the day we see in the same glasses, we can never understand one another throughly.
"Why" is infinite. "How" is our answer =)
Originally posted by Fantagf:
Gather them together as a community for??haiz . . . . . . . . !!
To start a company call AA helpers.
What does AA mean, ForbiddenSinner?
Originally posted by Jianye:
What does AA mean, ForbiddenSinner?
Aunt Agony.
Means we all go out as a group and start a company in the real world : D
When today is good - who cares about the good old days lar, lie - its a Big one at that - the seductiive lie of nostalgia - an unappeased heart's yearning, yearning ....
Originally posted by Fugazzi:When today is good - who cares about the good old days lar, lie - its a Big one at that - the seductiive lie of nostalgia - an unappeased heart's yearning, yearning ....
Maybe you do not. But maybe you will when someone really close to you passed away. To yearn for someone its not wrong neither it is a lie. When you have good times like with your own family.. you own wife and kids, you will tend to be nostalgic about the times your parents are with you.Yes supposed that they passed on.
Nostalgia is not a lie. You just remember things from the past. How could it be a lie when memories of times you spend is existant? Do you not yearn? Do you not desire?
At the end of the day you are still human.
Being smart is one thing. Being too smart is another.
EPIC FAIL.
Well, u are free to interpret it the way ti resonates with u, its a view, an opinion - no one is rite/wrong. ![]()
Much appreciated. But just to tell you that lie is a strong word. So please use with caution next time =)
Caution - no lar, u are free to spout anything here, its public lar, if i react negatively or read into words and get upset, its me lar, my predicament, i own that feeling - it came from within me n .... so take it easy lar!
Everyone is my dear friend. But some people you know la uh. Best to prevent before they start then zzz you know la uh haha. Singapore is not as democratic as it seems ya.