i'm gettin married but...

• Luvslegna

  9 Jun 09, 14:58

  i seem to have fallen for this guy...

  what should i do?

• Hanagata

  9 Jun 09, 15:17

  Punch him in the face

• Q.C.Pak

  9 Jun 09, 15:20

  Originally posted by Luvslegna:

  i seem to have fallen for this guy...

  what should i do?

  
  

• Pitot

  9 Jun 09, 15:21

  Punch yourself in the face.

• Noahtay

  9 Jun 09, 15:26

  what the no head no tail how to help u

• Kutter

  9 Jun 09, 15:27

  Originally posted by Luvslegna:

  i seem to have fallen for this guy...

  what should i do?

  Do what you should do!

  Confirming your marriage yet allow another guy to get into your heart. Seems to me you are like a flirt...

• InnoHippo

  9 Jun 09, 15:44

  Originally posted by Pitot:

  Punch yourself in the face.

  

   

• hisoka

  9 Jun 09, 15:45

  call off marriage and throw yourself at the new guy lor.

• kuehtutu

  9 Jun 09, 16:12

  pick urself up.

• Cool-gal

  9 Jun 09, 16:40

  u sure is love or crush.

  dun mix them up.. good luck..

  its hard to find a good guy now, treasure whoever u think will love u no matter wad n who u r..

   

   

• kopiosatu

  9 Jun 09, 16:41

  SLEEP AROUND~ WOOHOO~

• dinky1409

  9 Jun 09, 16:41

  made of honor ah?

• Uncertain

  9 Jun 09, 17:22

  there is something called karma

• Kutter

  9 Jun 09, 17:25

  Originally posted by Uncertain:

  there is something called karma

  因果报应?

• Kyutake

  9 Jun 09, 17:36

  slap yourself in the face and ask who you are gonna marry. being with the new guy may not give you the same happiness you gain from the guy who is willing to spend his life with you.

• Bubblyl3

  9 Jun 09, 17:38

  Hmm getting and fall for someone at the very last min.

   

  First, your hubby izzit the one that you wanted to marry? You accept his proposal cos you know you will get all that you want from hubby right?

   

  That new guy what can he give you? A secure home? A secure relationship and a secure love that your hubby that have been giving you?

   

  If no, then your hubby will be the one and only cos you know your hubby well that why you want to marry to him right?

   

  Actuallty No need to think so much about fallen for the new guy. And you already said he is new guy .. you don't know him well. he might be very very nice to you cos he is new now. Can you guarantee that he will give you the love that your hubby giving you now? I doubt so lor.. you want to waste another few yr to build a strong foundation for another relationship?

  You think you got many many years to waste meh..

• Bubblyl3

  9 Jun 09, 17:38

  Originally posted by Kyutake:

  slap yourself in the face and ask who you are gonna marry. being with the new guy may not give you the same happiness you gain from the guy who is willing to spend his life with you.

  hanor hanor i agree..

• lemontea c(_)

  9 Jun 09, 17:55

  Originally posted by Luvslegna:

  i seem to have fallen for this guy...

  what should i do?

  If u can fall in love, u can fall out of love...

  Anyway, are u really really ready for marriage ?

   

• Bubblyl3

  9 Jun 09, 18:03

  Originally posted by lemontea c(_):

  If u can fall in love, u can fall out of love...

  Anyway, are u really really ready for marriage ?

   

  
  lemon tea.. i think she got a crush la.. not love la.

• hisoka

  9 Jun 09, 18:03

  Originally posted by Kyutake:

  slap yourself in the face and ask who you are gonna marry. being with the new guy may not give you the same happiness you gain from the guy who is willing to spend his life with you.

  shouldn't advise her to go for the marriage. Chances, are the marriage was bring harm to the guy if she can go and just fall for another guy when going to get married.

  Must be more thoughtful for the poor guy

• parn

  9 Jun 09, 21:34

  Originally posted by Luvslegna:

  i seem to have fallen for this guy...

  what should i do?

  
  You should ask the guy lor, he should be able to tell you what you should do.

  Like for example giving him crazy love day and night?

• Forbiddensinner

  9 Jun 09, 21:36

  Originally posted by Luvslegna:

  i seem to have fallen for this guy...

  what should i do?

  You should look at the current situation carefully and think about it.

  On one hand, you have your fiance, on the other, you have this guy.

  Many questions come to the mind of the forummers here, as your post is too shallow for us to read into your situation. Maybe you were forced to marry your fiance because of finance problems. Maybe this guy has been looking out for you for 15+ years.

  None of us here will know how the situation is like between you and these two men if you do not elaborate more on it, and most of the forummers here will end up giving you only half-baked answers. I will refrain from giving you any advice until you could tell us a bit more about your story.  

   

• BadzMaro

  9 Jun 09, 21:38

  

• countingdowntoORD

  9 Jun 09, 21:39

  i think you're just infatuated with that guy only..

  you should ask urself if you are really ready to step into a life long commitment with ur fiance..

  once u sign those papers, it's going to be legally binding and it's damn troublesome to annul the marriage..

  i'd recommend u to think carefully if you really wanna marry ur bf..

• parn

  9 Jun 09, 22:36

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  

  
  Don't watch too many family guy, the bird is not the word.