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how to let go?

• pikachu123

  25 Jun 09, 01:00

  kind of emo. but its over and i have no idea how to let go/

• thehappybunny

  25 Jun 09, 01:01

  your pet hamster die?

• Q.C.Pak

  25 Jun 09, 01:04

  Im still here...

• Fantagf

  25 Jun 09, 01:06

  chum, why without few hrs already 2 emo threads.

  these threads make me emo, too.      

• pikachu123

  25 Jun 09, 01:06

  classic question. break up?

• caleb_chiang

  25 Jun 09, 01:09

  摊开你的掌心。。。

• pikachu123

  25 Jun 09, 01:11

  suggestions?

• Fantagf

  25 Jun 09, 01:12

  pika, it takes time to let go, don't be too hard on yourself.    Letting go is a process.    Once it is over, one will go thru pain, saddness, disappointment, loss.   You will go thru emotional healing.

• caleb_chiang

  25 Jun 09, 01:14

  Actually, there is no absolution in  the answer you seek... Different people have different ways to get over it, different duration that it would take... But it all boils down to the essential... TIME...

  else, can try to replace the other party with another person... might be easier?

• pikachu123

  25 Jun 09, 01:17

  i let go of her before. and it took so much to chase her back again. now she is leaving again. i spent 3 years healing. and i failed. time aint gonna help.

• A.T.R

  25 Jun 09, 01:24

  sleep and forget....why give up a whole forest because of 1 tree(there's a whole lot of girls waiting for ya...)

• Fantagf

  25 Jun 09, 01:25

  Originally posted by pikachu123:

  i let go of her before. and it took so much to chase her back again. now she is leaving again. i spent 3 years healing. and i failed. time aint gonna help.

  
  i dunno how to comment becos i dunno what u did to let go and so on

• A.T.R

  25 Jun 09, 01:27

  tell me about it...

• pikachu123

  25 Jun 09, 01:27

  maybe cause the tree is worth it?

• Fantagf

  25 Jun 09, 01:29

  tree worth it, did u treasure it?

• A.T.R

  25 Jun 09, 01:33

  Originally posted by Fantagf:

  tree worth it, did u treasure it?

  
  wrong question...did the tree given u satisfaction?and did it treasure you?

• pikachu123

  25 Jun 09, 01:36

  she said she wasnt ready for a relationship

• Fantagf

  25 Jun 09, 01:36

  Originally posted by A.T.R:

  
  wrong question...did the tree given u satisfaction?and did it treasure you?

  
  hey, it is both ways.  Since TS talks about letting go, it is appropriate i asked that question.     

• Fantagf

  25 Jun 09, 01:38

  not ready she should not say yes to go into relationship with u.

  how old is she?

• A.T.R

  25 Jun 09, 01:39

  Originally posted by Fantagf:

  
  hey, it is both ways.  Since TS talks about letting go, it is appropriate i asked that question.     

  
  okay...tell you wad TS...give her time to think..and urself to think...breaking up is also a process whereby both parties think whether they are right for each other...

• Fantagf

  25 Jun 09, 01:40

  Originally posted by A.T.R:

  
  okay...tell you wad TS...give her time to think..and urself to think...breaking up is also a process whereby both parties think whether they are right for each other...

  
  Good suggestion

• pikachu123

  25 Jun 09, 01:41

  we are both 18. we have broken up thrice alr in the span of 6 years.

• youyayu

  25 Jun 09, 01:43

  who can we do?

  blame the moon lor

• Fantagf

  25 Jun 09, 01:43

  you two are still young.    give it time, may be you 2 will be together again.   Concentrate on your studies now.

• A.T.R

  25 Jun 09, 01:44

  Originally posted by pikachu123:

  we are both 18. we have broken up thrice alr in the span of 6 years.

  
  may i noe the reasons of the broke up?