how to let go?

Fantagf

25 Jun 09, 01:44

do shi yue liang re de huo????

youyayu

25 Jun 09, 01:46

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pikachu123

25 Jun 09, 01:47

the first 2 were more like puppy love. the third one was cause i felt that there was no love left anymore.

youyayu

25 Jun 09, 01:48

tmd i just for once thought that is that poppika

A.T.R

25 Jun 09, 01:49

Originally posted by pikachu123:

the first 2 were more like puppy love. the third one was cause i felt that there was no love left anymore.

since the reason for the last break up is tat u felt that there is no more love between u two...thn dun brood over it anymore...time to move on get a new girl....you're still young bro!

pikachu123

25 Jun 09, 01:53

i had a new one. but after 1.5 years. i still went back to her. i wan to forget and get over her. but i cant. not that i din try.

A.T.R

25 Jun 09, 01:55

Originally posted by pikachu123:

i had a new one. but after 1.5 years. i still went back to her. i wan to forget and get over her. but i cant. not that i din try.

hmm heres a quote of the day for you by me "Set Your Priorities Right"

pikachu123

25 Jun 09, 01:58

i know. i know there are better things out there than just sinking in depression and self pity. help.

A.T.R

25 Jun 09, 02:00

Originally posted by pikachu123:

i know. i know there are better things out there than just sinking in depression and self pity. help.

ain't im helping you dude?noe wad u need any more advices PM me..

pikachu123

25 Jun 09, 02:04

not sleeping yet? i appreciate it a lot. how did u get over yours?

youyayu

25 Jun 09, 02:07

i still can't get over mine =(

even thought now im going out with a girl so often..

but still i keep thinking of that ex =(

A.T.R

25 Jun 09, 02:08

Originally posted by pikachu123:

not sleeping yet? i appreciate it a lot. how did u get over yours?

mine?well...at first...i was mad thn wonder if i regret..thn i started to log in my facebook and added lots of hot chicks...so yea then i found out there's much better girls all over the world...!!LMAO

cantdecide

25 Jun 09, 02:09

Letting go is hard. But you can do it.

My advice to you will be. Put everything that reminds you of her away in a box and keep that box hidden away from sight. Seeing them will remind you of her and we do not want that.

Look and reflect on your actions. You said you guys broken up three times, which means you patch back twice. Why is this so? Maybe it's the lack of self discipline from both sides? Learn from your mistakes.

You know that you should not wallow in self pity. That's great to hear. This means there's hope for you. Talk to your close friends who will understand your situation better than strangers on forums. But of course we can help you with the general stuff too.

pikachu123

25 Jun 09, 02:10

why are u still going out w her then

cantdecide

25 Jun 09, 02:10

I got over mine with time. Plus nothing heals a broken heart like another relationship.

youyayu

25 Jun 09, 02:12

Originally posted by pikachu123:

why are u still going out w her then

she ask me to lor..

then instead of emoing at home.

go out with her la

cantdecide

25 Jun 09, 02:13

Originally posted by youyayu:

she ask me to lor..

then instead of emoing at home.

go out with her la

Your ex?

Very dangerous leh.

youyayu

25 Jun 09, 02:14

Originally posted by cantdecide:

Your ex?

Very dangerous leh.

i mean another girl. not my ex

pikachu123

25 Jun 09, 02:15

i tried a new relationship like i said just now. for 1.5 years. and created lots of drama. even being labelled as a jerk for chasing her back. time or chick doesnt help. another alternative? im not even attracted to any other girls. hooking up new chicks doesnt help too

cantdecide

25 Jun 09, 02:18

Originally posted by youyayu:

i mean another girl. not my ex

Good for you then. Maybe can get into another relationship.

cantdecide

25 Jun 09, 02:19

Originally posted by pikachu123:

i tried a new relationship like i said just now. for 1.5 years. and created lots of drama. even being labelled as a jerk for chasing her back. time or chick doesnt help. another alternative? im not even attracted to any other girls. hooking up new chicks doesnt help too

If you are happy with the new girl, why bother chasing the old one back. And don't actively seeks girls out to chase. Just treat it as hanging out with friends. Distract the mind and heart.

pikachu123

25 Jun 09, 02:22

i slowly realised that i was never over her at all. she just gives me the feeling dat only she can. how to let her go?

youyayu

25 Jun 09, 02:24

Originally posted by cantdecide:

Good for you then. Maybe can get into another relationship.

i don't want to.. its too fast

and its not fair for her too

cantdecide

25 Jun 09, 02:25

Originally posted by pikachu123:

i slowly realised that i was never over her at all. she just gives me the feeling dat only she can. how to let her go?

It's like that de. Once in a while I still think to myself, 'did I make the right choice in the past'? The truth is, 6 billion people in the world, 4 million people in singapore. There's always someone else better. Just don't give up and keep on searching.

pikachu123

25 Jun 09, 02:27

there is always someone better. but she is the one i want. but i cant have her.