Should I wait or fly there?
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A week ago, I got to know this philippines girl in my work place and she's from a attachment in her school from her country and the things is that she has flew back to philippines just yesterday morning, I really miss her.
Before she return home, I even ask her to be my gf and she agrees and she even told me that she'll return to S'pore in Nov after she graduated to look for me. I don't know should I wait or fly to philippines and look for her myself, she had gave me her address in philippines.
From now till Nov, it's like 5 months away and I can predict the feelings might faded away and no doubt that she can go look for another guy. Forumers, do you think I should wait for fly there myself?
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wait here, use msn with webcam.
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Let the time and distance be the test of yours and her love for each other. If situation and circumstances changes, then it would be better to be just friends and spare each other the heartache.
Love is not possession or an issue you can force upon others or even enforce it, but setting the one you love free. If she returns back to you, then you will know her love is true. If she does not return or returned changed, you will have to decide what to do.
Communicate with her on phone or mails just to keep in touch would be good enough. As you grow older and holding a job in our globalised world, the distance and time apart will be far longer. This now would be a good test for both of you both, to find out 'if the greatest distance is not physical distance, but those between two hearts' words by a forumer named Rainee .
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I think you should go and visit her in Philippines.
Get to know her family and friends. Spend some time with her in her own elements , and see if you are comfortable with her life there.
Let her be the host.. and see if she truly meant to let you into her world.
Good luck.
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????let the force flow thru u luke.........
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Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:
A week ago, I got to know this philippines girl in my work place and she's from a attachment in her school from her country and the things is that she has flew back to philippines just yesterday morning, I really miss her.
Before she return home, I even ask her to be my gf and she agrees and she even told me that she'll return to S'pore in Nov after she graduated to look for me. I don't know should I wait or fly to philippines and look for her myself, she had gave me her address in philippines.
From now till Nov, it's like 5 months away and I can predict the feelings might faded away and no doubt that she can go look for another guy. Forumers, do you think I should wait for fly there myself?
Infatuation
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Lust
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crush
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Lust
very likely. rush of adrenalin, ha ha ha -
ya ya ya, could be, crush, lust or infactuation or combination of these 3.
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Great, u know her for 1 week and U are ready to fly to Philippines to meet her. FABULOUS.
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Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:
A week ago, I got to know this philippines girl in my work place and she's from a attachment in her school from her country and the things is that she has flew back to philippines just yesterday morning, I really miss her.
Before she return home, I even ask her to be my gf and she agrees and she even told me that she'll return to S'pore in Nov after she graduated to look for me. I don't know should I wait or fly to philippines and look for her myself, she had gave me her address in philippines.
From now till Nov, it's like 5 months away and I can predict the feelings might faded away and no doubt that she can go look for another guy. Forumers, do you think I should wait for fly there myself?
You know her only for one week, and now you want her to be your other half for the rest of your life. Now you are worried about her being unfaithful to you, hence you are going to philipines to try and bind her to you.
It is up to you, but there are a lot of things to consider about. Once you go there, you will not only be seeing her, but also her family. Are you prepared for that? And also, what will your family think about when their son told them that he is going to philipines to look for his gf?
Adding on, what are you going to do when you go over and see her? Just say hi? Are you going to stay with her family or are you going to find your own lodgings?
Putting aside the fact that many forummers have said, you are lusting over her, there is also the fact that you don't seem to be really planning ahead. You feel that you really need her a lot, and thus you forget a lot about the basic things which you need to and should have consider.
This is not a voting thread to let you make a choice whether to go over to meet her or not, but I will still strongly advice you to think through it thoroughly before making any rash decision. Ultimately, it is still your choice.
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Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:
A week ago, I got to know this philippines girl in my work place and she's from a attachment in her school from her country and the things is that she has flew back to philippines just yesterday morning, I really miss her.
I pity sentimental lovesick men like you. Your type are very vulnerable to women.
wake up lar. there are alot of other cunts out there. why so bothered about one.
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Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:
A week ago, I got to know this philippines girl in my work place and she's from a attachment in her school from her country and the things is that she has flew back to philippines just yesterday morning, I really miss her.
Before she return home, I even ask her to be my gf and she agrees and she even told me that she'll return to S'pore in Nov after she graduated to look for me. I don't know should I wait or fly to philippines and look for her myself, she had gave me her address in philippines.
From now till Nov, it's like 5 months away and I can predict the feelings might faded away and no doubt that she can go look for another guy. Forumers, do you think I should wait for fly there myself?
Go look for her and treat it as holiday?
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i still thought is abt h1n1
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If u think she's really the one worthy to spend ur money to fly there. Then do it.
Unless u're doing juz for lust then.. still do it!
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Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:
A week ago, I got to know this philippines girl in my work place and she's from a attachment in her school from her country and the things is that she has flew back to philippines just yesterday morning, I really miss her.
Before she return home, I even ask her to be my gf and she agrees and she even told me that she'll return to S'pore in Nov after she graduated to look for me. I don't know should I wait or fly to philippines and look for her myself, she had gave me her address in philippines.
From now till Nov, it's like 5 months away and I can predict the feelings might faded away and no doubt that she can go look for another guy. Forumers, do you think I should wait for fly there myself?
1 week, do you even know eachother that well ?
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woah.. one week nia. tho time is not an element to judge.
For now, just contact her using msn/webcam/phone calls. This is to maintain the relationship and keep an update on each other's life. Dont tell me you dont have her msn or something. Cuz u cant expect no contacts during this 5-6 months right and then expect her to pop out in November?
Dont fly there. Stay here.
Let this be a test, for the 2 of you.
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doubt she will even remember you
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Just have webcam sex la
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Originally posted by Master -_-:
doubt she will even remember you
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Write s-mail letters to her.
One letter a week. She will be looking forward to your letters.
Wait,
Oh yes, wait a minute Mr Postman
Wait, wait Mr Postman
Mr Postman, look and see
You got a letter in your bag for me
Please please Mr Postman
I've been waiting a long long time
Since I heard from that boy of mine
There must be some word today
From my boyfriend so far away.
Please Mr Postman, look and see
If there's a letter, a letter for me
I been standing waiting, Mr Postman
So Patiently
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eh, what is Infatuation & lust means? explain in details...Sorry, my ang moh failed wan...
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A week ago . hmmm..
ask her to b ur gf . mmmm
I dont know but... if u want hard n fast , go over Philipines.Just dun be disappointed if shit goes bad. lol! Just dun get kidnapped by MILF . =D
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Originally posted by Rock_Sugar:
A week ago, I got to know this philippines girl in my work place and she's from a attachment in her school from her country and the things is that she has flew back to philippines just yesterday morning, I really miss her.
Before she return home, I even ask her to be my gf and she agrees and she even told me that she'll return to S'pore in Nov after she graduated to look for me. I don't know should I wait or fly to philippines and look for her myself, she had gave me her address in philippines.
From now till Nov, it's like 5 months away and I can predict the feelings might faded away and no doubt that she can go look for another guy. Forumers, do you think I should wait for fly there myself?
If you can afford the trip and miss her pretty badly, yup, just go.