For those who seen my sad story last nite...
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100th POST
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The flying type of 'choppers'...?Originally posted by dark_slayer79:using ur choppers???
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You REALLY think so?Originally posted by dark_slayer79:everything is fated
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......Originally posted by shan_cai:I oso believe Love is indeed blind... Im one such case blinded by it loh... Dunno y everytime aft each quarrel wif my bf, i feel tat i cherish my life even more. But tat doesnt mean i haf 2 always pick quarrel wif him so as 2 learn 2 treasure my life more lah... Juz tat everytime we quarrel n cool down, i felt tat i loved him eevn more. Therefore haf 2 continue 2 live on n live my life wif him, be wif him...
True love is indeed so powerful... But itz oso damn painful 2 lose ur loved one i believe...
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Originally posted by M©+square:
Yes... Love is abt givin n receivin... Not measurin...
[b]Love is a paradox. To understand LOVE is to understand the beauty of Living and Death. Ultimately to understand the reason of Life.
Love could be presented in many forms....boundless i should say.
Love is to give...not measured - Mother Teresa
Well...i guess i didn't really touch on the topic.
All i want to say is. Love is not totally of selfish motives, possession, or purely blind passion. If there's any denial....check deep within your heart...your motive of the act.
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Sometimes Love is juz like happiness in a glass ball. Once u drop it on e ground it'll break into pieces... Some ppl wil pick up more, while others may pick up little... In e end u stil haf 2 fight 4 ur own happiness... Haiz...
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Originally posted by shan_cai:Gone. All gone... As if things isnt worse enough. My bf wanna break up wif mi... Tats e worse thing tat can happen 2 mi. I cant accept it. I cant believe tat he initiated it... I reali cant believe it...
He once said nv 2 leave mi. N now he's sayin he wanna breakup so easily... Im heartbroken. Truly heartbroken... Suddenly i feel tat my world has turned upside down. Eveythin is turnin its back on mi. Everythin is goin against my way...
Since he dunwan mi liao, there's no more reason y i shd continue livin on wif my life... D*E*A*T*H is e onli way 2 end my sadness n agony... Reali no more other solutions liao. Without him, my life is juz like a piece of crap... It doesnt matter any longer liao anyway... Itz already e end of my world liao.
hey.... wat about ur parents if u die... stupid! move onand u will surely find someone better
Dis may b e last time i'll b here in dis forum... I reali love my bf v much... Since im e cause of all his unhappiness, i shall leave...
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Now wif my bf bk wif mi, i dun c any reason 2 end my life liao...
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I don't even see your bf as a reason not to live.Originally posted by shan_cai:Now wif my bf bk wif mi, i dun c any reason 2 end my life liao... Do whatever you want. It's your life. -
You mean if he walked away, you'd "love him enough" by ruining his life and his conscience by killing yourself?
Going to be brutally frank here... you sound psychotic...Originally posted by shan_cai:Now wif my bf bk wif mi, i dun c any reason 2 end my life liao... -
shan cai i think we same same character, we both love our bf more than ourselves....
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jus wan to share sth i read in one of the emails... rather long but quite true lor...
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Why do we close our eyes when we sleep?
When we cry? When we imagine?
When we kiss?
This is because THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN THE
WORLD IS UNSEEN.
We are all a little weird and life's a little
weird and when we find someone
whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we
join up with them and fall in
mutual weirdness and call it LOVE.
There are things that we never want to let go
of, people we never want to
leave behind, but keep in mind
that letting go isn't the end of the world,
it's the beginning of a new life.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who
hurt, those who have searched
and those who have tried.
For only they can appreciate the importance of
the people who have touched their lives.
A great love? It's when you shed tears and
still you care for him, it's when
he ignores you and still you
long for him. It's when he begins to love
another and yet you still smile
and say,"I'm happy for you."
If love fails, set yourself free, let your
heart spread its wings and fly
again. Remember you may find love and lose it,
but when love dies, you never
have to die with it.
The strongest people are not those who always
win but those who stand back
up when they fall.
Somehow along the course of life, you learn
about yourself and realize there
should never be regrets, only a lifelong
appreciation of the choices
you've made.
Loving is not how you forget but how you
forgive, not how you listen but
how you understand, not what you see but how you
feel, and not how you let go
but how you hold on.
It's more dangerous to weep inwardly rather
than outwardly. Outward tears
can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever.
In love, very rarely do we win but when love is
true, even if you lose, you
still win just for having the tingle of loving
someone more than you love yourself.
There comes a time when we have to stop loving
someone not because that
person has stopped loving us but because we
have found out that they'd be
happier if we let go.
It's best to wait for the one you want than
settle for one that's available.
Best to wait for the one you love than one
Best to wait for the
right one because life is too short to waste on
just someone.
Sometimes THE ONE YOU LOVE TURNS OUT TO BE THE
ONE WHO HURTS YOU THE MOST,
and sometimes the friend who takes you into his
arms and cries when you cry
turns out to be the love you never knew you
wanted.
If you really love someone, NEVER LET GO, don't
believe that letting go means
that you love best, instead fight for your
love, that's what true love is.
Laugh to your heart's content; you cannot go
through life without it
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Ya... Other ppl wont understand one loh... Dun get offfended huh ppl... I dun mean 2 say wat lah. Maybe u all haf such cases wif ur other half but wat i mean is... Eh... *Dunno how 2 explain leh!* But every single relationship is somehow unique. Every relationship wil b diff one loh. Maybe i shd say tat itz my bf who gimmi e will 2 live on... Coz there's alot of things i didnt say. So it wil somehow make u all misunderstand mi...Originally posted by Qoo`~`:shan cai i think we same same character, we both love our bf more than ourselves....
Im not tat psycho ok... At least i wont go 2 e extreme such as bein so... obsessed wif my bf. Im perfectly normal... Haha.
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U guys can c my difference loh... Fr tat day i had prob wif my bf. U all can c tat im so sad n all kinds of things n all those suicidal tots start comin into my mind, therefore causin mi 2 imagine things. but truly at tat time i was reali emotionally hurt...
Hope u all understand...
Now tat everythin's been solved, i c myself as a more cheerful person liao... My emotions, mentality, spirituality as well as physical wise is alrite liao! Fully healed liao loh... -
Duh.......
OK. Congrats. -
Thanx...Originally posted by M©+square:Duh.......
OK. Congrats. -
~good luck... You'll need LOTS of 'em....Originally posted by shan_cai:U guys can c my difference loh... Fr tat day i had prob wif my bf. U all can c tat im so sad n all kinds of things n all those suicidal tots start comin into my mind, therefore causin mi 2 imagine things. but truly at tat time i was reali emotionally hurt...
Hope u all understand...
Now tat everythin's been solved, i c myself as a more cheerful person liao... My emotions, mentality, spirituality as well as physical wise is alrite liao! Fully healed liao loh... -
For some reason I feel an urge to post a reply here but I really have no idea how to express myself.
I guess there are no rights and wrongs, only differing opinions. And our lives come individually packaged so what might be right for someone might not be right for another. Even if a person thinks he/she is right, or doing the right thing, or feeling the right way, only time will tell if this is the case.
Sometimes life just has to be lived. Ponder too much no use. Sure, some of us may be more experienced then others, and may be better equipped to give sound advice, but the best experiece is still your own.
My dad used to tell me that between my brother and I, I was the one who always chose "to learn the hard way" meaning I'd only learn to behave myself after I get caned, while my brother would listen the first time. I now realise, that learning the HARD way is learning the SURE way.
For those who've had easy lives, good for you. For those who've had hard lives, well you will know it well and learn it well. Just make sure you do though!
If you cannot see the relevance of this post to the topic then I don't blame you. I guess I'm going off on a little tangent here. -
Well said.Originally posted by jOhO:For some reason I feel an urge to post a reply here but I really have no idea how to express myself.
I guess there are no rights and wrongs, only differing opinions. And our lives come individually packaged so what might be right for someone might not be right for another. Even if a person thinks he/she is right, or doing the right thing, or feeling the right way, only time will tell if this is the case.
Sometimes life just has to be lived. Ponder too much no use. Sure, some of us may be more experienced then others, and may be better equipped to give sound advice, but the best experiece is still your own.
My dad used to tell me that between my brother and I, I was the one who always chose "to learn the hard way" meaning I'd only learn to behave myself after I get caned, while my brother would listen the first time. I now realise, that learning the HARD way is learning the SURE way.
For those who've had easy lives, good for you. For those who've had hard lives, well you will know it well and learn it well. Just make sure you do though!
If you cannot see the relevance of this post to the topic then I don't blame you. I guess I'm going off on a little tangent here.
Anyway....i pang kang liaoz. Bye JohO. -
thanx! have a great nite dude!Originally posted by M©+square:Well said.
Anyway....i pang kang liaoz. Bye JohO. -
i'm sorry i cause you so much pain
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Not farnie...?Originally posted by dao_ming_si:i'm sorry i cause you so much pain -
yes i noe... i'm sorrie i will treat her better from now ...Originally posted by Devil1976:Not farnie...? -
shan_cai: There are still many good guys around...
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Cheer Up!Originally posted by shan_cai:Gone. All gone... As if things isnt worse enough. My bf wanna break up wif mi... Tats e worse thing tat can happen 2 mi. I cant accept it. I cant believe tat he initiated it... I reali cant believe it...
He once said nv 2 leave mi. N now he's sayin he wanna breakup so easily... Im heartbroken. Truly heartbroken... Suddenly i feel tat my world has turned upside down. Eveythin is turnin its back on mi. Everythin is goin against my way...
Since he dunwan mi liao, there's no more reason y i shd continue livin on wif my life... D*E*A*T*H is e onli way 2 end my sadness n agony... Reali no more other solutions liao. Without him, my life is juz like a piece of crap... It doesnt matter any longer liao anyway... Itz already e end of my world liao.
Dis may b e last time i'll b here in dis forum... I reali love my bf v much... Since im e cause of all his unhappiness, i shall leave...
"get a life!
stop sucking your thumb over this bum!
get yourself a new man!"
This is what I will tell myself now...I've been there before...I know it's not easy....but you are so pathetic now you know?! You should not let your life be ruin by him! It's just what he wants to see! Stand up! And show him that you are better off without him....whining like that will not make him come back to you! Man wants a woman who can live with themself...and not one who cannot live without!
JIE JIE MEI MEI ZHAN QI LAI!