My friends, all of them seemed to have left me. They don't seemed to be like the past. They dont include me in their group or outings. Whenever I talk to them. They dont care about me. I have to keep callin them at times or sometime I will jus give up calling them.
I dont know why but why? They are my only group of friends and yet I am so unimportant. How now?
Go think back and see what you have done wrong etc that might have cause this to happen and try to think of a solution. If you have no idea, try to find someone in that group who you might be closer with and try to ask them for the reason if you can. Its hard to do anything if you do not evne know where you went wrong.
What if I didnt even fit in the group in the first place? I mean maybe they dont even take me as a friend? Because they dont really talk to me much, only when they need an extra player.
Originally posted by aYexa:My friends, all of them seemed to have left me. They don't seemed to be like the past. They dont include me in their group or outings. Whenever I talk to them. They dont care about me. I have to keep callin them at times or sometime I will jus give up calling them.
I dont know why but why? They are my only group of friends and yet I am so unimportant. How now?
Get a gf la.. Friend are useless.
Originally posted by aYexa:What if I didnt even fit in the group in the first place? I mean maybe they dont even take me as a friend? Because they dont really talk to me much, only when they need an extra player.
Then u better ask yourself why noone wants you as a friend. Where does the problem lies? With you or with others?
How old are you anyway?
I am 16
I dont wish to waste my time playing MMO. There is still many things I want to do.
But sometimes I emo & feel useless. Am I weird or what?
Originally posted by aYexa:I am 16
I dont wish to waste my time playing MMO. There is still many things I want to do.
But sometimes I emo & feel useless. Am I weird or what?
Originally posted by aYexa:I am 16
I dont wish to waste my time playing MMO. There is still many things I want to do.
But sometimes I emo & feel useless. Am I weird or what?
stop emo-ing...not saying i'm against ppl who have feelings...but nowadays teens hate emo kids...so i suggest cut down on ur emo-ing and start talking things out...maybe u'll see a diff point of view
U are a spoilt kid - hankering for attention lar, to me that makes u weird lar.
U are 16 and its part of growing up and adolescence - just be u and stop whining.
Just move with this understanding - the more one longs to belong to a 'group' or a 'club' the more it is telling of what is lacking IN oneself.
its tough to find real frens. at yr age.. most ppl just want to have company for fun and online/lan gaming (guys), "allies / clique" to look cool etc...
Originally posted by EtherealLife:its tough to find real frens. at yr age.. most ppl just want to have company for fun and online/lan gaming (guys), "allies / clique" to look cool etc...
this guy's got a point....its like american sku where u have the nerds,the goths ,the metalheads etc...
This is so good a chance to take up classes, meet new friends, and probably friends of the opposite sex.
Who says they left you.
You leaving them for better people and lifestyle then they can ever imagine they can do for you!
Try going to dancing, cooking & skills training classes like keyboard typing, speak another language, dance salsa & even cook & bake up a storm!
If you never fit in the group in the first place, why not find new ones instead? Why must die die get into that 'group'? Unless you have no confidence in yourself to find new, better ones who treat you right.
Although it might be your prob which irritates them?
get new friends
or quit being so lame, don't be that uncool person
get a new group of friends lor.
Originally posted by aYexa:I am 16
I dont wish to waste my time playing MMO. There is still many things I want to do.
But sometimes I emo & feel useless. Am I weird or what?
Then take the time which you have now to do them.
You are not weird at all, there are a lot of teenagers nowadays like you, so don't let it bug you too much.
Work hard and follow your dreams.
Originally posted by aYexa:What if I didnt even fit in the group in the first place? I mean maybe they dont even take me as a friend? Because they dont really talk to me much, only when they need an extra player.
Friends are all the same. You gotta have something that they need or want, or fulful.
No such thing as friends for nothing.
If you can't be on the same frequency with the others, you got to have something else, like a skill, knowledge, expertise.
You gotta have something they want. Sometimes that something is simply understanding and a listening ear.
Not all people have the same wants though.
Go find people who need you. You gotta have some use.
at 16 should just study and not have any frens.
my parents said tat.
Originally posted by mancha:Friends are all the same. You gotta have something that they need or want, or fulful.
No such thing as friends for nothing.
If you can't be on the same frequency with the others, you got to have something else, like a skill, knowledge, expertise.
You gotta have something they want. Sometimes that something is simply understanding and a listening ear.
Not all people have the same wants though.
Go find people who need you. You gotta have some use.
gd logic by mancha. this world is just tt realistic..
Originally posted by mancha:Friends are all the same. You gotta have something that they need or want, or fulful.
No such thing as friends for nothing.
If you can't be on the same frequency with the others, you got to have something else, like a skill, knowledge, expertise.
You gotta have something they want. Sometimes that something is simply understanding and a listening ear.
Not all people have the same wants though.
Go find people who need you. You gotta have some use.
Very true very true. They need & want you to be around maybe because for example, you are funny, or because you are entertaining. If you are totally different from what they want, you are simply not their friend, group.
can click means can click, if cannot click with them then no use trying to force urself into groups and get urself upset.
Don't worry yet. There will be more people who will leave you.
Call them, ask them " Hey guys, it seems u guys are counting me out. Is there anything i have done but not realised?."
So simple.
Hmm... I think you should find a new friend. I know it is hard. That is as same as me. I do not have much friends in my school but I am still felt happy. I know you can find your true friend that really care about you. Work hard! Do not think too much about that. :)