They left me...
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What if you are that kind of guy who had already been outcasted?
Emm, I believe I had already been outcasted by my friends for some reasons I guess.
Maybe they think that I am bad or a flirt and whatsoever.
How do you guys meet new friends and be able to play with them daily or whatsoever? Maybe somethings being able to go out together for outings.
Yup I believe I can't fit into the current group that I have now.
Because I am not popular with anyone nor anyone.
But some unpopular scums could also go along with them.
Then I was wondering like why could he but not me?
My friend said he could kind of help me get some equipments for outing.
But in the end, he helped some others and then didnt bother about me.
Then after finding people for help, he said let's all go home!
Then I kept asking him, hey about me?!
He said I don't know then just kept walking.
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U are taking ur O's this year? If you are, when next yr go JC/poly then start afresh with a group of new people.
None of us here knows you well enough to be really able to tell you why people don't want to be your friends so you might like to do some soul searching before asking us for help.
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Originally posted by aYexa:
What if you are that kind of guy who had already been outcasted?
Emm, I believe I had already been outcasted by my friends for some reasons I guess.
Maybe they think that I am bad or a flirt and whatsoever.
How do you guys meet new friends and be able to play with them daily or whatsoever? Maybe somethings being able to go out together for outings.
Yup I believe I can't fit into the current group that I have now.
Because I am not popular with anyone nor anyone.
But some unpopular scums could also go along with them.
Then I was wondering like why could he but not me?
My friend said he could kind of help me get some equipments for outing.
But in the end, he helped some others and then didnt bother about me.
Then after finding people for help, he said let's all go home!
Then I kept asking him, hey about me?!
He said I don't know then just kept walking.
What should I do?As dkcx said, we have no idea what kind of a person you are, so we cannot tell you what your flaws are.
And to be honest speaking, one rarely sees their own faults, so I highly doubt you are able to see where the problem lies.
If a few or a group of friends/people stay away from you, it might not be your fault, but when everyone stays away from you, something is seriously wrong here.
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Originally posted by Forbiddensinner:
As dkcx said, we have no idea what kind of a person you are, so we cannot tell you what your flaws are.
And to be honest speaking, one rarely sees their own faults, so I highly doubt you are able to see where the problem lies.
If a few or a group of friends/people stay away from you, it might not be your fault, but when everyone stays away from you, something is seriously wrong here.
Its hard to see all own's faults but every1 should be able to roughly know what are some of the things they do that people don't like.
People don't avoid, get angry, distant themselves over just 1 incident that you did unless its something major. Often its some sort of behavior, action etc that people dislike and leads to the way they treat u.
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Don't tell me you're that guy who keep create clones
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You may be appealing to some people, but others might not find you appealing due to many reasons. And there is no end to such prejudices when you are 16 or at other age. Unless there is something you wish to change for the better, why put so much thoughts on people who take you lightly? In this world, you aim to better and please yourself, and not so much for others.
However,there are ways to occupy your mind and time like taking up a hobby that allows social interaction. Hobbies such as sports, language or computer classes? Worth a try, no?
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My advice.
Friends are Tempoary, Your 'O' result is forever.
Even if you have a Master, they will still ask for your 'O' result
need i say more?
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Hey, what game is fun to play and is like some RPG kind?
I don't want nerd games like maplestory because I had enough of it!
Any intros? -
Originally posted by aYexa:
Hey, what game is fun to play and is like some RPG kind?
I don't want nerd games like maplestory because I had enough of it!
Any intros?World of Warcraft.
But seriously, focus on your studies first.
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TAke a look of yourself in the mirror first.
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I got blamed for something I did not do. That loser old fk uncle anyhow blame me saying I kicked a ball at her daughter which was done by someone else. Wth, the feeling isn't great! Somemore got some people looking and 1 or 2 chiobu!
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U are simply whining away - look at yourself, would u like someone to be like u.
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Thinking back, I'd rather I didn't have any friends in school. Not even a single one so that I may concentrate and focus on my studies.
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Originally posted by mamamamama:
Thinking back, I'd rather I didn't have any friends in school. Not even a single one so that I may concentrate and focus on my studies.
That depends on what kind of friends you had back then.
I am glad that I have associates ( though not close enough to be good friends ) sitting down together and studying together with me, and also exchanging written compositions with me for criticisms and suggestions.