long distance releationship

• BadzMaro

  22 Jul 09, 16:59

  Originally posted by dangerboi:

  indonesia isn't far from Singapore, getting there by plane isn't expensive too.

   

  I've been in a long distance relationship where my bills amount to at least $1000+ singapore dollars every month 

  LDR is expensive in way.. especially if u not really working full time.. LOL

  Eat away at ur funds faster then u find a gf at wherever u are. But cannot weight Money vs The Girl U Really Like .

  Lucky i use telco card. But once a while have to call using cellphone.. n that will rake up a few hundred monthly.

  Not to mention gifts la.. plans etc.

  1 out of 10 ppl work.. so it means it CAN work.. just whether if u are the 1 out of 10. But too many temptations liaw.. plus i admit i am weak.. WEAK !!! *slaps himself * brrr....

  xP

• Fantagf

  22 Jul 09, 17:59

  Originally posted by Kuali Baba:

  Not all the time though. 

  
  Are you in one now?

• Forbiddensinner

  22 Jul 09, 19:23

  Originally posted by tofushop193:

    i am studying i am not a miser.exams are coming.shes doing her fyp so if i go earlier most probably she wont have time for me too.

  Since your exams are coming, then the foremost thing you should do is to focus on your studies.

  You should put your relationships problems aside first lest it affects your studies. But look on the bright side, if both you and your gf are focusing on your exams, the odds of either of you paying attention to that attractive opposite-gender is much lesser, and both of you can have a bigger peace of mind too.

   

• Kuali Baba

  23 Jul 09, 00:19

  Originally posted by Fantagf:

  
  Are you in one now?

  I kept one going for two years, but it's back to a normal friendship now. Want a link to the relevant thread?

• Arapahoe

  28 Jul 09, 07:31

  i read n read i thought it was different time zone than i realized it was only indonesia.........please lah.......

• Forbiddensinner

  28 Jul 09, 12:07

  Originally posted by Arapahoe:

  i read n read i thought it was different time zone than i realized it was only indonesia.........please lah.......

  Well, going over to Indonesia still requires some spare time and $$...

• Arapahoe

  28 Jul 09, 13:38

  i am not trying to trivalizes the topics of long distance relationship.

  As a singaporean work oversea yes i tell you it is hard on the relationship for both married and work in progress....couple.

  i know of married couple drift apart or grew apart because of lack in sharing life together. Not all companies cater for spouse relocation also it is a hard choice because both spouse need to work in SG.....Not everyone that went overseas can affort their wife to quit their job. 

  The price of being a Singapore Rats we race and run till we drop and split.