lost that feeling?
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lol fugazzi why add in all the lah, le, lo, when u can piece up such powderful ingles hmm?? :D
well i didt call myself actualization in the sense that im already enlightened its more of what I desired for... so dun pick on it already yea lol..
"Know this lah - love knows no reasons, knows no fears and love only then abides!"
who in the real world actually experience this or seen this in place after the age of 16?(It true but i guess its not the way it work)
well anyway after much reflection I concluded that maybe its not the relationship thats having a problem but more of my static life.. ( i really have problem putting life in place..) maybe becos of that I am looking for that gush of feeling....(mid life crisis? haha im not that old yet)
-forbidden: yea maybe its not the right time to speak of settling down thanks for yr advice
-jojo: LOL yea i will guai guai so... stop bashing me already your making me depress lol its also not my fault that i wanted to have EXs rite?
(shes hot and sexy but we cant communicate) = ex
(shes my soulmate but nothing else except our soul is bonded) = ex
(shes cute and we can communicate well but she had a communication breakdown with my wallet for it cant cough out a ride worthy of her) = ex
(everythings in place but her mom hates me) = EX T_T
i will be guai guai this time........
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Originally posted by Fugazzi:
What a misnomer and an anomaly lah - u - i m refering to your stance when your so-called relationship(s) are concerned.
My take is this lah- the exploitation of each other has peaked and there is nothing left to hold it except be torn asunder by all these rationalizations and apportioning blame on some many factors or the past.
Know this lah - love knows no reasons, knows no fears and love only then abides!
One who can relate to ONEself (one's being) is just one who will always seek out another. Seek out another - but acknowledg this weakness, this deficiit, this paucity - otherwise its doomed from the start and the wise would understand this (these) and RELATE!
Fuggy, can you explain "RELATE" in layman term ?
Your advise are wise but rather grandiloquent for young people lah.
Wise words are great tools. To maximise benefits, one must know the meaning of each component , yes ?
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Actualization,
That gush of feeling ?
Know that it is just a chemical reaction in your body.
You have an addiction to phenyl ethylamine. The love drug your brain produces when you fall in love.
But lacks Dopamine and norepinephren to stay connected in your relationship.
And also, you don't produce enough oxytocin during intimate sessions with your partner and thus lack the will to carry out your manly duties.
However, you have no problem with producing Vasopressin, as it seems you do have the ability to remain monogamous in a relationship.
Therefore, as you can see, you are just suffering from chemical unbalance.
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Originally posted by actualization~:
lol fugazzi why add in all the lah, le, lo, when u can piece up such powderful ingles hmm?? :D
well i didt call myself actualization in the sense that im already enlightened its more of what I desired for... so dun pick on it already yea lol..
"Know this lah - love knows no reasons, knows no fears and love only then abides!"
who in the real world actually experience this or seen this in place after the age of 16?(It true but i guess its not the way it work)
well anyway after much reflection I concluded that maybe its not the relationship thats having a problem but more of my static life.. ( i really have problem putting life in place..) maybe becos of that I am looking for that gush of feeling....(mid life crisis? haha im not that old yet)
-forbidden: yea maybe its not the right time to speak of settling down thanks for yr advice
-jojo: LOL yea i will guai guai so... stop bashing me already your making me depress lol its also not my fault that i wanted to have EXs rite?
(shes hot and sexy but we cant communicate) = ex
(shes my soulmate but nothing else except our soul is bonded) = ex
(shes cute and we can communicate well but she had a communication breakdown with my wallet for it cant cough out a ride worthy of her) = ex
(everythings in place but her mom hates me) = EX T_T
i will be guai guai this time........
You will get use to him/her in time to come.
He/She always post stuff which are in that style.
You sure have a lot of interesting ex-gf, but your current gf is different, isn't she? Instead of finding reasons to separate yourself from her, find reasons to keep the two of you together.
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Thanks for the insightful rant. Anyway, what I said is not cast in stone - all that i espouse is relative truth not absolute. As such, take the tumbles and cruise along - and if u can (which i m sure u want to) just live and grow UP on the way as opposed to growing OLD.
Jojo,
Relate - I am merely using love as an eg, as its a universal phenomenon. Being love is poetry in motion. Being angry, Being kind, Being rude .... n imagine what ensues. It is present and continuous.
Relationship - no longer in motion. It has become a thing and it is used and put aside and used again n .... many forget that a person is a flux - evolving , changing. A thing, eg, a chair in your room is dead - no change, its finished. It can only be improved on the outside, encrusting, decorating ...
Of course, relating is difficult cos the element of certainty is not there. There is no security.One never knows if the other (person) or situation is going to stay as it is or change. Hence the anxiety and insecurity. That is the reason why one quickly wants to make it secure - how? relationship.
how one relates to another, whether its a spouse, at workplace or ... does eventually add or diminish the quality of one's relationship with ....
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can alway intro her to me....
she and me not yet have those feeling.... sure havent lost it yet....
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lol now the problems lies on chemical? omg lol ok give me a dose of everything
well i cant say all the solutions given by you guys are helpful haha because i spend more time laughing than thinking about it..
but well thanks alot guys it actually give a pointer or two.. and yea one thing for sure is I must really put all my memories to where it belong yea lol.. (its really hard when sometimes your memory come alive and call you suddenly telling you they still care about you and staying in this controlling relation will ruin you etc etc lol)
sometimes i felt they are like getting all competitive just to make sure they still can strike an impact in your heart even after breaking up.. then they will retire happily = = i think thats sick... all girls do that? hahaha (oh man i cant resist even though i know that)... they are very good in it (you will understand when your in my situation haha) actually they are all the same kinda character.. those exs
sweat* (maybe this kinda char is my cup of tea lol)
its like they are telling me (*self interpret) hey don't be weak you will be no one puppet and you will be nice to no one except me~~ LOL thats hw i see it.. though the method they use is different...
girls are evil hahaha
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Originally posted by actualization~:
lol now the problems lies on chemical? omg lol ok give me a dose of everything
well i cant say all the solutions given by you guys are helpful haha because i spend more time laughing than thinking about it..
but well thanks alot guys it actually give a pointer or two.. and yea one thing for sure is I must really put all my memories to where it belong yea lol.. (its really hard when sometimes your memory come alive and call you suddenly telling you they still care about you and staying in this controlling relation will ruin you etc etc lol)
sometimes i felt they are like getting all competitive just to make sure they still can strike an impact in your heart even after breaking up.. then they will retire happily = = i think thats sick... all girls do that? hahaha (oh man i cant resist even though i know that)... they are very good in it (you will understand when your in my situation haha) actually they are all the same kinda character.. those exs
sweat* (maybe this kinda char is my cup of tea lol)
its like they are telling me (*self interpret) hey don't be weak you will be no one puppet and you will be nice to no one except me~~ LOL thats hw i see it.. though the method they use is different...
girls are evil hahaha
By posting this here, you will seriously die very fast. Trust me on that.
If an ex were to try her very best to prove her worth before breaking up with you, that means she wants to show to those around that the reason why the relationship failed is because of you instead of her.
The last line you typed doesn't help in showing what kind of man you are......