Originally posted by zAGrion:Though i'm not behaving like i'm mad, i know i'm still angry inside. After the "matter", i realize i have grown to become less patience and to be there for people. I guess i tried too hard previously which lead to an ultimate burnout. It was very sad to discover that the other party who you have been good to is not worth to your effort and not your time
I guess the "matter" has created much changes to me. It was both good and bad. At least i learnt from the lesson, who to trust and whom not to trust. In a bad way, i have grown less compassionate and become more indifference. I don't feel like caring for people anymore because the people that you were good to had created so much trouble for you, trash your kindness like rubbish and insult your own dignity.
I wrote this in the forum trying to find that goodness back inside. Where has the kind, simple and warm-heartedness for friends has gone to ? So tell me some good tips on how to grow out from it?
Anger is love disappointed.
If the bitterness is from our selfish foolishness, let it go. If the bitterness is from someone's mistake. we learn grace and forgiveness.
Anger = hurt(s) and pain of the past not reconciled and no venue to unload; now the festering wound is oozing pus in the form of anger.
My suggestion - unlearn the ways of love that you have been conditioned to and perhaps, if you pay attention to your heart's longing to be free it may (n let) it emanate from within you as the fragrance of your heart.