Dad & Mistress
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Today, I learnt that my dad brought back his mistress to home. Although I didn't see it, but the signs are damn obvious and he even kept quiet when my mum confronted him.
He already outside got a fucking cb china dog woman, every week go over her place stay and give her money. But my dad is going collect his CPF soon, doesn't even take a idiot know that fucking bitch intentions.
My grandmum even approves of it, my mum's parents died already and her siblings can't help much except offer a listening ear.
Just now see her cry, I also feel like crying but I know I have to be strong. Just wish that I could take my mum and leave rather than take this shit.
Is there anyway I get that bloody imbecile china slut to be deported and while at it, have her limbs chopped off and fed with many toxins?
I'm now so agitated I can't even control myself.
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What about divorce?
Reached such stage already maybe a split is the best.
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Have a man to man talk to your dad.
Fking hell, bring mistress home. If i were you i would fuck him nicely.
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
What about divorce?
Reached such stage already maybe a split is the best.
Sometimes you cant solve everything with a divorce. His mum might not be that strong to just let go.
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Sometimes you cant solve everything with a divorce. His mum might not be that strong to just let go.
True, ever case is different.
This type of thing we outsiders cannot do much.
But the dad even brought the mistress home, that is too much man.
So I feel split may be the solution.
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Make sure you give your mum plenty of support. So that she knows what is best for her.
Dont hesitate to get outside help.
You can let your dad have a piece of your mind. But your dad is already a grown man, he has his own brains albeit he is using the wrong one now. So what you can do is limited.
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go to mistress workplace talk to her. if she nasty go tell her u go talk to her boss
hahhhahah
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Make sure you give your mum plenty of support.
Ya, support your mum.
My grandmum even approves of it, my mum's parents died already and her siblings can't help much except offer a listening ear.
Your grandmum lives with you?
She has the old mentality that if a man has many women it means that he is capable and rich.
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Are you the only child?
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Save ur dad
Save his CPF too
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Save ur dad
You think that easy?
Heart gone already means gone.
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
You think that easy?
Heart gone already means gone.
Ehh not chioce but to try uhh
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
You think that easy?
Heart gone already means gone.
True -
Suffer the children....my heart goes out to you.
I guess no matter how, you love you mum and dad, for no matter what they had done, they had given you life, love and brought you up, sacrificing much along the way. I know how you feel...but not the solution.
The solution you are thinking now is NOT the way. It is not worth it - your life for hers. DONT EVER even think of it again.
This situation needs counselling, a lot of it. For your dad. It is only common, after the years, a woman would lose her beauty and lose out to another younger lady along the way, more so if one is charming and accede to his every wish. It is something that is difficult to change - the weakness of man.
What makes a man strong is his character and his responsibility -to the family. Your dad is unfortunately blinded by the charms of the young beauty. And it will take time to make him forget her, if not almost impossible, even at the expense of his last dollar in his soon-to-get CPF.
The only solution I can think of is your relatives help, or someone your dad listens without question to. As well as a civil talk to the china beauty, of the harm she is doing to your family. Every human has a conscience, and if you or a matured person can talk to her REASONABLY AND NOT ACRIMONIOUSLY, she may be touched to leave him alone.
But it will not solve your wandering and philandeering dad. HE IS the problem. A heart to heart talk with your dad is needed. By you or someone he can and willing to listen to and trust.
This is all i can think of that may help.
Good luck, and be calm. No person must be allowed to destroy the family. But only in calm rationality then can we find solutions. May you and your family be spared....
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
Your grandmum lives with you?
She has the old mentality that if a man has many women it means that he is capable and rich.
She doesn't, my mum told her before that she knew about the mistress but she just replied nonchalantly "Aiya, it's his interest, what to do?" then my mum said "If is your daughter how?" she immediately say "I would slap her husband"I not very close with my extended family. From young, I already know my grandmum and relatives got something against me and my mum.
From the looks of it, divorce is most likely already. I guess, tmr I will talk to my dad, if no result I just tell them to divorce. I have 1 older sister and brother. All these while we know he got mistress already, he said that he would stop his nonsense in september but never expect him to bring the mistress home.
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Originally posted by xtreyier:
The solution you are thinking now is NOT the way. It is not worth it - your life for hers. DONT EVER even think of it again.
I know if I threaten my dad that I trade my life for the mistress's, he would get scared. But I'm just afraid it might backfire, but I really don't mind trading.
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okay lah, pathetic but at least you have 2 older siblings there with you. so your not in it alone, dont worry too much and let it screw up ur life.
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Originally posted by Agenda:
I know if I threaten my dad that I trade my life for the mistress's, he would get scared. But I'm just afraid it might backfire, but I really don't mind trading.
what for, both of them are adults, your mum and dad. They know what they are doing.
Please dont let it affect you too much.
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From the looks of it, divorce is most likely already.
Just divorce lah, women charter got protection of rights.
The mistress won't get much money from your father also.
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Originally posted by Ah Chia:
Just divorce lah, women charter got protection of rights.
The mistress won't get much money from your father also.
But I think about it, they divorce. My dad gets together with the bitch. Eventually she sure kop his CPF money then my dads gonna grow old alone.
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This is what happen when we allow the PAP to bring in foreigners into our country.
To solve the root of the problem, vote for the opposition party in the next election.
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Originally posted by Agenda:
She doesn't, my mum told her before that she knew about the mistress but she just replied nonchalantly "Aiya, it's his interest, what to do?" then my mum said "If is your daughter how?" she immediately say "I would slap her husband"I not very close with my extended family. From young, I already know my grandmum and relatives got something against me and my mum.
From the looks of it, divorce is most likely already. I guess, tmr I will talk to my dad, if no result I just tell them to divorce. I have 1 older sister and brother. All these while we know he got mistress already, he said that he would stop his nonsense in september but never expect him to bring the mistress home.
Your grandmum is your father's MOTHER. What do you expect your grandmum to do ? Gang up against your dad ?
It is strange why your mother choose to tell your grandmum about the mistress , even tho your mom knew she don't have the greatest relationship with your grandmum.
It is not your choice to make your parents divorce. The marriage is between your father and your mom. You can only talk to your mother.. she may not want a divorce if she sees no need for such drastic action.
Your support for your mother is most imperative right now. She may feel abandoned by her husband whom she had stayed faithful all these years. But she must know.. that her own flesh and blood will stand by her through tough times.
For a woman that age.. your mother's only hopes and future lies in her own children.
When everything falls apart.. mothers are the ones who picks up the pieces and carry on for the sake of their children.
As for your father.. know that his actions are foolish. And he had just chosen to die a lonely death.
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Originally posted by Agenda:
Today, I learnt that my dad brought back his mistress to home. Although I didn't see it, but the signs are damn obvious and he even kept quiet when my mum confronted him.
He already outside got a fucking cb china dog woman, every week go over her place stay and give her money. But my dad is going collect his CPF soon, doesn't even take a idiot know that fucking bitch intentions.
My grandmum even approves of it, my mum's parents died already and her siblings can't help much except offer a listening ear.
Just now see her cry, I also feel like crying but I know I have to be strong. Just wish that I could take my mum and leave rather than take this shit.
Is there anyway I get that bloody imbecile china slut to be deported and while at it, have her limbs chopped off and fed with many toxins?
I'm now so agitated I can't even control myself.
it all depends on yr dad, ask yr dad be careful of this b8tch. U can test her. Ask yr dad to tell her that he will only will the CPF money to his wife and children, Then see if she stil stay. if she leaves, confirmed this b8tch is a scam.
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you stalk the mistress
we go to where she work, and embarrass the hell out of her
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Originally posted by flapdoodle:
it all depends on yr dad, ask yr dad be careful of this b8tch. U can test her. Ask yr dad to tell her that he will only will the CPF money to his wife and children, Then see if she stil stay. if she leaves, confirmed this b8tch is a scam.
china bitches are very smart nowadays to fall for such a simple trick.